Things took a turn with this Virgo man.
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by SoulfulGirlPisces on Tuesday, September 26, 2023 and has 1 replies.
Post divorce after 7 years with a Pisces man, I met this Virgo man online . We began talking everyday and we still do till this day . He’s extremely caring , supports me ( gives solid advice) when asked etc . I live in another state and I plan on relocating back to my hometown which is not far from him at all . In July , I’ve advised him on my plans to relocate and he immediately said his area wasn’t a bad option to consider. At that time we had only known each other for 1 month.
Fast forward : we met in person a few weeks ago after texting and long calls since June . He took me out to a fancy restaurant and the rooftop after dinner . All in all we spent about 4 hours together . During our time together he complimented me on how good I smelled, told me I was very pretty and told me he liked my shoe game when I changed from heels to sneakers lol for us to walk around the city. When it was time for him to leave and I walked with him to Valet he gave me this long hug which took me aback . After he said I have to walk you back to the door and gave me another long hug . When he pulled away he shake his leg and I wondered if he had a boner from doing that lol.
At this time I am back in my hometown dealing with a family matter and I will be returning to my home within a few weeks . This is how things took a turn .
Today I asked him does he want to go to the museum prior to me leaving again. He immediately said I’m sorry some unexpected expenses have came up and I’m unable to travel . When I advised him and said I meant the museum in your hometown that you wanted us to go to . He clarified by saying he thought I was referring to him coming here based off of the museum we talked about a few months ago. He then goes to say “all good tho”. No reassurance of saying okay since I want to come there what date/ time . Etc
His lack of acknowledgment made me feel like it was still a no for him even though we clarified my plans and he mentioned about us seeing each other again during dinner.
Now I’m confused because him not initiating makes me feel like what does he want from me. Does he want this to be a phone thing etc . In no way I am in a rush , I’m very laid back however I am a direct person.
I don’t know how to address this with him . As of now ,I feel rejected .
What’s y’all take on this ?
A few aspects in his chart
Sun Virgo
Moon Cancer
Mercury Virgo
Venus Leo
Asc: Sag
My Chart:
Sun Pisces
Moon Gemini
Mercury : Pisces
Venus: Aquarius
Asc: Sag
Y’all we have Chiron in each other 7th house as well🥹. Individual his is Chiron in the 7th house -Gemini. Mine is Chiron in the 7th house -Cancer.
Fast forward : we met in person a few weeks ago after texting and long calls since June . He took me out to a fancy restaurant and the rooftop after dinner . All in all we spent about 4 hours together . During our time together he complimented me on how good I smelled, told me I was very pretty and told me he liked my shoe game when I changed from heels to sneakers lol for us to walk around the city. When it was time for him to leave and I walked with him to Valet he gave me this long hug which took me aback . After he said I have to walk you back to the door and gave me another long hug . When he pulled away he shake his leg and I wondered if he had a boner from doing that lol.
At this time I am back in my hometown dealing with a family matter and I will be returning to my home within a few weeks . This is how things took a turn .
Today I asked him does he want to go to the museum prior to me leaving again. He immediately said I’m sorry some unexpected expenses have came up and I’m unable to travel . When I advised him and said I meant the museum in your hometown that you wanted us to go to . He clarified by saying he thought I was referring to him coming here based off of the museum we talked about a few months ago. He then goes to say “all good tho”. No reassurance of saying okay since I want to come there what date/ time . Etc
His lack of acknowledgment made me feel like it was still a no for him even though we clarified my plans and he mentioned about us seeing each other again during dinner.
Now I’m confused because him not initiating makes me feel like what does he want from me. Does he want this to be a phone thing etc . In no way I am in a rush , I’m very laid back however I am a direct person.
I don’t know how to address this with him . As of now ,I feel rejected .
What’s y’all take on this ?
A few aspects in his chart
Sun Virgo
Moon Cancer
Mercury Virgo
Venus Leo
Asc: Sag
My Chart:
Sun Pisces
Moon Gemini
Mercury : Pisces
Venus: Aquarius
Asc: Sag
Y’all we have Chiron in each other 7th house as well🥹. Individual his is Chiron in the 7th house -Gemini. Mine is Chiron in the 7th house -Cancer.
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