This Virgo man is making no sense to me... help!

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Ariesgal92 on Tuesday, July 15, 2014 and has 6 replies.
Virgo's are earthy and Aries are fire. Fire and earth attract and repel. This is a couple you see a good bit( especially the Virgo Man and Aries woman), but it's not necessarily an easy pairing. Virgo's have a hard time with raw emotion, in themselves and others. They value order but aren't the stringent traditionalists like a Taurus or Capricorn. Aries is about energy and action. The key to winning over a Virgo is meeting them on a mental level. Virgo's get a bad rap for being perfectionists. I haven't found that to be true. I do think that Virgo's are realists, so if you want grand romantic gestures, seek a Leo. If you want passion, seek a Scorpio. BUT if you like mental banter, Virgo is great. They are always learning and want to be with someone on a similar quest. Both Virgo's and Aries despise boredom, so in that regard, you'll always have something in common. If you have similar political views, that could also be something that unites you as well. Just know that at the end of the day,regardless of your differences, a Virgo is first and foremost an individual. Isn't it refreshing to be with someone who values individuality and intelligence in a partner? As a creative individual yourself Aries, I think you can find common ground, if you want to.
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As for my experience, I'm a Scorpio Man and Virgo women dig me probably more than I dig them. There's this Virgo hottie who keeps flirting with me, and I flirt back. She's very attractive and most guys compliment her too much. I try to do the opposite, give her a hard time yet compliment her too. I definitely feel you on the flightiness. Virgo's are a pain the ass on that. But again, they don't like boredom. If you're " dateless and desperate", they can sense it. But if you don't give a shit, that's when they come back around. That's just who they are. The key is the have your own life and not wait around on them. They LOVE that, truly.
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Posted by Danman21
As for my experience, I'm a Scorpio Man and Virgo women dig me probably more than I dig them. There's this Virgo hottie who keeps flirting with me, and I flirt back. She's very attractive and most guys compliment her too much. I try to do the opposite, give her a hard time yet compliment her too. I definitely feel you on the flightiness. Virgo's are a pain the ass on that. But again, they don't like boredom. If you're " dateless and desperate", they can sense it. But if you don't give a shit, that's when they come back around. That's just who they are. The key is the have your own life and not wait around on them. They LOVE that, truly.


virgo woman here (and begrudgingly a scorpio man fetishist). to elaborate, it's not that we want someone to not give a shit because believe me that will also be readily dismissed just as "dateless and desperate" would be. but you are right on having your own life. i will never be one of those people who do EVERYTHING with their partners and i don't want my partner to have those expectations of me either. i believe in individuality within partnerships.
the flightiness... well... think of it as a test of confidence. if you're confident in yourself and your connection with the virgo, their flightiness is of least concern to you. if i've been admittedly flighty and the other person isn't daunted by that, i would think that he's confident enough to know that he's presented himself the best that he could to me, authentically and if i am still unsure about him then that's my prerogative. he shouldn't need to grovel or pull out every trick in the book to convince me otherwise. that old adage.. confidence is sexy, is def true.
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Posted by Ariesgal92
We've caught up maybe 6 times in total and his friends were there everytime.
(i'm over waiting on him to make a move - we haven't even properly kissed, just pecked and its been months).
He was in a car accident a few weeks ago and i was at the hospital all weekend showing my support and being there for him. He thanked me once he got out through text.
A week later i find out from one of his friends that hes told everyone he wants nothing to do with me, doesnt care about me anymore and has tried etc and i fucked everything up?
He also found out (the day before his accident) that i slept with one of his friends (who is also my friend) - i know that sounds bad but it was at the beginning when we first started talking and i wasn't sure of my feelings towards him.


Who the hell are you trying to kid here? Yourself?
Your timelines don't match up at all. That's because you are hoping to hear that there may be a chance with this guy after fucking one of his friends..lol, c'mon seriously?
Didn't you know?...once you cross that line with a Virgo male (Scorp males included), you become NOTHING to them? He's gonna keep you waiting while he avoids the shit out of you. Move on, like he said in his own words "you fucked up". When those words are spoken by a Virgo...just move on and spare yourself the embarassment. Just stop...
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Posted by Ariesgal92
* if he wants to be just friends then that's fine, he just needs to tell me that. I just want to know where I/we stand. This is driving me crazy and I just need some answers Sad please someone shed some light for me!


You made the decision for him when you humped his friend.


Let there be light...
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Lmaoo LetItBe just put you on the spot. I would never go back or trust a girl who slept with a friend while I was talking to them. And i think he wouldnt want something serious with you. Maybe just a one night stand to make him feel better since you slept with his friend. Just let it go and "LetItBe" smile
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