Tips for critisicing virgos

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I just had a discussion about virgo woman trying to change guys. I find this notion offensive because it imolies you dont accept us and want to change us to your preferences. But apparently you want to improve us cause you see potential.here are a few tips.

1. Make sure that we are open for that. Nobody likes to be told what they suck at.

2. Frame it as a team effort not as you being a therapist. Get better together. So if you want to get better in bed get a virgal.



3. Focus on strength more than weaknesses cause thatll improve faster.

4.be empathetic and a cheerleader instead of a nagger.

5. Offtopic virgals if you are perfectionist why dont you train your oral skills.

I am only being a pig here cause i am anonymousz
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Posted by Ixion

I mean to be honest...criticize away, most virgos are pros at reading the context of a situation, aka, if we fucked up chances are we know we fucked up before you can tell us so we may even be expecting a reprimand. With that being if you are literally anyone else, don't be a callous, malicious prick and make sure your criticism is for growth purposes and not just to run your mouth.


This.
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Posted by Ixion

I mean to be honest...criticize away, most virgos are pros at reading the context of a situation, aka, if we fucked up chances are we know we fucked up before you can tell us so we may even be expecting a reprimand. With that being if you are literally anyone else, don't be a callous, malicious prick and make sure your criticism is for growth purposes and not just to run your mouth.


Facts.
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Posted by Sagicorn

Hm let me give you example from rl. My bff Virgo, I introduced her to the Taurus guy I was friends before as she liked him once she saw him. He immediatelly liked her back too. Over the time they got together and started relationship. He was very attentive to her, would love to please her any way, brought presents and stuff like that but his obessity started affecting his health and she tried to get him on a diet, to go to a gym etc. He was like sure I have to do that, I'm starting tomorrow etc buf never did a thing to change it and she got fed up. Cause they can't stand when person doesn't take care of themselves in the first place. She ended up with another Virgo and he married a gorgeous looking Sag. That's why Sags and Gems do better for Taurus even despite the fact it's not as good mach as Virgo should be. Sags and Gems don't nagg about things at all usually and Virgos and Pisces always want to fix and improve things and don't like it when people don't follow their advices-the axis thing I guess. So I see how that can annoy Taurus but it also annoys Virgo, it goes both ways. To you it's annoying they don't accept you or that they want to change you and to them they are offended cause you don't want to follow their honest advices that aee for your own benefit, not theirs actually. It's the problem of people not understanding each other, nothing wrong with either side just the lack of understanding


Following advice is not mandatory, but virgo

cannot accept that. He obsessed and over accomodating and that is never healthy. Lets face it you are not a therapist you are a partner so its wrong.
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Posted by Sagicorn

Hm let me give you example from rl. My bff Virgo, I introduced her to the Taurus guy I was friends before as she liked him once she saw him. He immediatelly liked her back too. Over the time they got together and started relationship. He was very attentive to her, would love to please her any way, brought presents and stuff like that but his obessity started affecting his health and she tried to get him on a diet, to go to a gym etc. He was like sure I have to do that, I'm starting tomorrow etc buf never did a thing to change it and she got fed up. Cause they can't stand when person doesn't take care of themselves in the first place. She ended up with another Virgo and he married a gorgeous looking Sag. That's why Sags and Gems do better for Taurus even despite the fact it's not as good mach as Virgo should be. Sags and Gems don't nagg about things at all usually and Virgos and Pisces always want to fix and improve things and don't like it when people don't follow their advices-the axis thing I guess. So I see how that can annoy Taurus but it also annoys Virgo, it goes both ways. To you it's annoying they don't accept you or that they want to change you and to them they are offended cause you don't want to follow their honest advices that aee for your own benefit, not theirs actually. It's the problem of people not understanding each other, nothing wrong with either side just the lack of understanding


So who should Virgo and Pisces go with ๐Ÿค”
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Posted by Parkourler

I just had a discussion about virgo woman trying to change guys. I find this notion offensive because it imolies you dont accept us and want to change us to your preferences. But apparently you want to improve us cause you see potential.here are a few tips.

1. Make sure that we are open for that. Nobody likes to be told what they suck at.

2. Frame it as a team effort not as you being a therapist. Get better together. So if you want to get better in bed get a virgal.



3. Focus on strength more than weaknesses cause thatll improve faster.

4.be empathetic and a cheerleader instead of a nagger.

5. Offtopic virgals if you are perfectionist why dont you train your oral skills.

I am only being a pig here cause i am anonymousz


Sounds reasonable.
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Posted by Sagicorn

Hm let me give you example from rl. My bff Virgo, I introduced her to the Taurus guy I was friends before as she liked him once she saw him. He immediatelly liked her back too. Over the time they got together and started relationship. He was very attentive to her, would love to please her any way, brought presents and stuff like that but his obessity started affecting his health and she tried to get him on a diet, to go to a gym etc. He was like sure I have to do that, I'm starting tomorrow etc buf never did a thing to change it and she got fed up. Cause they can't stand when person doesn't take care of themselves in the first place. She ended up with another Virgo and he married a gorgeous looking Sag. That's why Sags and Gems do better for Taurus even despite the fact it's not as good mach as Virgo should be. Sags and Gems don't nagg about things at all usually and Virgos and Pisces always want to fix and improve things and don't like it when people don't follow their advices-the axis thing I guess. So I see how that can annoy Taurus but it also annoys Virgo, it goes both ways. To you it's annoying they don't accept you or that they want to change you and to them they are offended cause you don't want to follow their honest advices that aee for your own benefit, not theirs actually. It's the problem of people not understanding each other, nothing wrong with either side just the lack of understanding


So who should Virgo and Pisces go with ๐Ÿค”

Pisces seem best with Cancers. Virgo well don't like to admit but looks like best match be another Virgo. Even read multiple times that best match scored for Virgos was marriage with another Virgo. Also for Virgals Cancers seem like a great match. Not sure if same is for Virguys and Cancer girls
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Mmm idk bout all that but okay ๐Ÿค
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Posted by Sagicorn

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by Sagicorn

Hm let me give you example from rl. My bff Virgo, I introduced her to the Taurus guy I was friends before as she liked him once she saw him. He immediatelly liked her back too. Over the time they got together and started relationship. He was very attentive to her, would love to please her any way, brought presents and stuff like that but his obessity started affecting his health and she tried to get him on a diet, to go to a gym etc. He was like sure I have to do that, I'm starting tomorrow etc buf never did a thing to change it and she got fed up. Cause they can't stand when person doesn't take care of themselves in the first place. She ended up with another Virgo and he married a gorgeous looking Sag. That's why Sags and Gems do better for Taurus even despite the fact it's not as good mach as Virgo should be. Sags and Gems don't nagg about things at all usually and Virgos and Pisces always want to fix and improve things and don't like it when people don't follow their advices-the axis thing I guess. So I see how that can annoy Taurus but it also annoys Virgo, it goes both ways. To you it's annoying they don't accept you or that they want to change you and to them they are offended cause you don't want to follow their honest advices that aee for your own benefit, not theirs actually. It's the problem of people not understanding each other, nothing wrong with either side just the lack of understanding


So who should Virgo and Pisces go with ๐Ÿค”

Pisces seem best with Cancers. Virgo well don't like to admit but looks like best match be another Virgo. Even read multiple times that best match scored for Virgos was marriage with another Virgo. Also for Virgals Cancers seem like a great match. Not sure if same is for Virguys and Cancer girls
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Virgo/Virgo

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