Told Virgo that I'm going to date other men

What do you think is going through his mind?

Honestly, tired of the "talk", need "action". He goes in out and out distant all the time, and I'm fed up. I know he likes me, but what is the deal. Tired of the crap. So when I told him over the phone my friend is hooking me up with a friend that is older, for a date etc. etc., he laughed like we were friends and made fun of him etc, played it off, but quickly got off the phone. What's going on in his head?

Ofc he laughed. He doesn't give a fuck about you and sees right through your manipulation.

Why play games? Because that's exactly what you are doing. You expect him to come running after you? Think again. I don't understand women or even men that play these games.

I see you went back and tried to hide most of your posts in your thread from December...

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/advice-needed-about-virgo-4507301/
However I recall we tried to give you advice in that thread about what was going on and you argued with almost everyone, you where a FWB, you slept with him and wanted more but all it ever was as a fuck. Now you come and start this thread?

He doesn't care like Damnata said.

If you wanted more you should have just stated it up front. Then if he's still all talk tell him that you're dating others and mean it--move on. Don't just say it to get a reaction from him. Won't work. They're as perceptive as Gems when it comes to recognizing bullshyt.

What is your astro sign?

As mentioned, you did go to your previous thread and try to hide evidence ... that in itself, shows you're full of shit because if you were an honest person, there would be nothing to hide. But, enough people quoted you, to show readers just how much of a manipulator you are ... that is to say, if this post isn't enough to convince them.


Hysterical laughter at how stupid you are, in that you think you're fooling someone .... is what is going through his head.


Lucky for you, though, you're too dumb to realize that you're the joke.

Told Virgo that I'm going to date other men

Posted by isthistheone
What do you think is going through his mind?

First...a sigh of relief
Second...feeling sorry for the next FWB bastard

What do you think is going through his mind?

Unfortunately, he probably right through your plot and figured good riddance. Men, regardless of sign, don't care to be manipulated or purposely tried to be jealous of something or someone. If your friend is fixing you up with someone, then go out with him - no need to tell this Virgo your intentions. I didn't read your other posts, but if the two of you never defined your relationship, then he wasn't ready to commit. I've learned you must be patient with these fellows.

* he probably saw right through your plot.

Posted by houstonpeach74
What do you think is going through his mind?

Unfortunately, he probably right through your plot and figured good riddance. Men, regardless of sign, don't care to be manipulated or purposely tried to be jealous of something or someone. If your friend is fixing you up with someone, then go out with him - no need to tell this Virgo your intentions. I didn't read your other posts, but if the two of you never defined your relationship, then he wasn't ready to commit. I've learned you must be patient with these fellows.

I guess. I agree your second part, but it's not a manipulation, it was a I'm telling you whats up scenario. But I agree move on and go on the date! And yes bad timing. He still is testing me this morning, I don't have time for silly games to be honest and no i'm not trying to manipulate him, I'm telling him flat out the truth.

^Liar.

You didn't tell him what's up just because you're friends casually talking about each other's life.

You told him that to elicit a response/reaction.

Posted by justagirl
Why play games? Because that's exactly what you are doing. You expect him to come running after you? Think again. I don't understand women or even men that play these games.

no I'm telling him what's up and that I'm not waiting around for him. It's not a manipulation, it's honesty. I expect nothing from it really.

Posted by GemStar05
If you wanted more you should have just stated it up front. Then if he's still all talk tell him that you're dating others and mean it--move on. Don't just say it to get a reaction from him. Won't work. They're as perceptive as Gems when it comes to recognizing bullshyt.

I did, he knows I want a relationship, but he can't give that right now. Agree and that's exactly what I'm doing. I'm just understand what's he's thinking that's all.

Posted by P-Angel

As mentioned, you did go to your previous thread and try to hide evidence ... that in itself, shows you're full of shit because if you were an honest person, there would be nothing to hide. But, enough people quoted you, to show readers just how much of a manipulator you are ... that is to say, if this post isn't enough to convince them.


Hysterical laughter at how stupid you are, in that you think you're fooling someone .... is what is going through his head.


Lucky for you, though, you're too dumb to realize that you're the joke.

no, I didn't want anything to do with the post, because too many judgements and incorrect pieces of advice were being made, it was rediculous.

Posted by Damnata
^Liar.

You didn't tell him what's up just because you're friends casually talking about each other's life.

You told him that to elicit a response/reaction.

Actually it was, and it was something I've been wanting to tell him since last week, because I try to be as fair as possible, and yes I wanted to tell him what's up. And maybe it has a hidden meaning like I don't have patience any longer. Sure I was hoping for a reaction/attention from it, who wouldn't be, but it's more of, I'm not dealing with this bull anymore./

I am a proponent of love me or leave me the hell alone.

I for one applaud your decision to take action. I do not know what other threads you have made or anything about this situation but far too may women on here make posts about...

Will he..
Does he...
Can we...

At least you did something. So what he is going to see through it and call your bluff. At least, you are an active participant in your own life. Good for you. It is only a guy. There will be others. Life goes on.

Posted by isthistheone

Posted by justagirl
Why play games? Because that's exactly what you are doing. You expect him to come running after you? Think again. I don't understand women or even men that play these games.

no I'm telling him what's up and that I'm not waiting around for him. It's not a manipulation, it's honesty. I expect nothing from it really.

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That's not what you said or told him. Honesty would have been, "dude I like you, but we aren't on same page, I have wanted more but you can't give it so I am moving on and am dating other people."

You played a game with him, because you think he is going to chase you know. There was no point behind telling him what you did, period. Perhaps you can't even see your own manipulation. 😢

Hope the new guy works out better. Maybe you can approach this one with lessons learned from the last one.

Posted by isthistheone

Sure I was hoping for a reaction/attention from it, who wouldn't be, but it's more of, I'm not dealing with this bull anymore./

No.
Actually.
The
Game
Just
Got
Started....

Posted by isthistheone
What do you think is going through his mind?

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You made the first chess move.
Now you're waiting on his next chess move.

Post a continuation thread in the next two weeks.
We will tell you who called 'checkmate.'

And then you can tell us "How did that work out for you."

Posted by Stares
What is your astro sign?

I'm thinking young Scorp.

Something like this is definitely a water sign's tactic.

I think it's Cancer.

She's a Libra, she mentioned this in previous threads.

Wonder if she is heavily influenced?

Although, I can totally see a Libra female acting in this way. Many Libra females, though sweet and beautiful as they are, can be very spiteful if slighted in any way.