Trying to understand my virgo lover...

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Somewhat a lengthy post. A year ago I met a handsome virgo man off the net. We talked on the phone for a long time before meeting face to face. Shortly after , I was surprised to find out that my virgo lover had begun a relationship with a woman and was telling me that he was no longer able to communicate with me so I didn't bother him or call him anymore for almost a year. Fast forward to now, we are talking again because he dumped the girl and came back to me. He expressed interest in talking to me again by contacting me. So far things have been pretty good. Our connection is deep and our conversations are intense. We hardly ever argue. We have such a great time together. He's always very relaxed around me. We have great chemistry. I do feel that the longer we are interacting with each other the more he seems to warm up. For example when we first became sexually intimate I would ask him to spend the night and there was always an excuse. Recently he spent the night with me and I felt he was more warm towards me. He used to ignore my texts a lot, but one day he apologized to me for being rude. He no longer flat out ignores me anymore, although he sumtimes takes awile to answer. The only issue we have now is that he seems to hold bk and doesn't want things to get too deep cuz he's moving to another state. I did decided to have a talk with him and tell him how I felt since he had already left me once before. Now he seems uncomfortable about abt it and worried about me becoming too attached.We didn't argue . I was merely expressing myself. He is not ignoring my texts but they dnt seem warm . He seems to be making excuses to avoid seeing me. What is going on ?
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Posted by beautasialovley
Somewhat a lengthy post. A year ago I met a handsome virgo man off the net. We talked on the phone for a long time before meeting face to face. Shortly after , I was surprised to find out that my virgo lover had begun a relationship with a woman and was telling me that he was no longer able to communicate with me so I didn't bother him or call him anymore for almost a year. Fast forward to now, we are talking again because he dumped the girl and came back to me. He expressed interest in talking to me again by contacting me. So far things have been pretty good. Our connection is deep and our conversations are intense. We hardly ever argue. We have such a great time together. He's always very relaxed around me. We have great chemistry. I do feel that the longer we are interacting with each other the more he seems to warm up. For example when we first became sexually intimate I would ask him to spend the night and there was always an excuse. Recently he spent the night with me and I felt he was more warm towards me. He used to ignore my texts a lot, but one day he apologized to me for being rude. He no longer flat out ignores me anymore, although he sumtimes takes awile to answer. The only issue we have now is that he seems to hold bk and doesn't want things to get too deep cuz he's moving to another state. I did decided to have a talk with him and tell him how I felt since he had already left me once before. Now he seems uncomfortable about abt it and worried about me becoming too attached.We didn't argue . I was merely expressing myself. He is not ignoring my texts but they dnt seem warm . He seems to be making excuses to avoid seeing me. What is going on ?

you got burned....
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Posted by Sagtastic1
Why did you let him come back after he told you he began a relationship with another girl— I would have cussed his ass out for blatantly disrespecting me and never spoke to him again. Stop fucking him. It's the Holliday season and he using you until the next gf comes along




Because he explained to me that he only did that cuz he didn't want to disrespect me by making me a sidechick. That's why.
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I guess I am just worried he could be throwing away something so beautiful between two people.



LOL

Stupidity has no limits around here. If you had something beautiful with him, he wouldn't have acted the way he did the first time..yet you keep going on about the connection you think (delude yourself) you two share
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Lol I see where u comin from but we are together now. He just needed some time.
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Posted by beautasialovley
Somewhat a lengthy post. A year ago I met a handsome virgo man off the net. We talked on the phone for a long time before meeting face to face. Shortly after , I was surprised to find out that my virgo lover had begun a relationship with a woman and was telling me that he was no longer able to communicate with me so I didn't bother him or call him anymore for almost a year. Fast forward to now, we are talking again because he dumped the girl and came back to me. He expressed interest in talking to me again by contacting me. So far things have been pretty good. Our connection is deep and our conversations are intense. We hardly ever argue. We have such a great time together. He's always very relaxed around me. We have great chemistry. I do feel that the longer we are interacting with each other the more he seems to warm up. For example when we first became sexually intimate I would ask him to spend the night and ther was always an excuse. Recently he spent the night with me and I felt he was more warm towards me. He used to ignore my texts a lot, but one day he apologized to me for being rude. He no longer flat out ignores me anymore, although he sumtimes takes awile to answer. The only issue we have now is that he seems to hold bk and doesn't want things to get too deep cuz he's moving to another state. I did decided to have a talk with him and tell him how I felt since he had already left me once before. Now he seems uncomfortable about abt it and worried about me becoming too attached.We didn't argue . I was merely expressing myself. He is not ignoring my texts but they dnt seem warm . He seems to be making excuses to avoid seeing me. What is going on ?
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you got burned..... No I didn't sweetie . I'm moving with him .
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Posted by beautasialovley
Thanx for all the comments..False alarm ya'll.. We talked again. He asked me to be his girl and move with him. So I'm good all that worryin g for nothing lol..



LOL, sounds like wishful thinking. What guy graduates from being unsure to moving in together without batting a lash? I don't believe this part at all. Why do women always fabricate & make up these cute situations? You're only hurting yourself if you're saying this for the people that doubt this relationship. You know what's real & what's fantasy though so whatever.
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Posted by Mr. Defense
This is cupcake season. The season when people desperately want to be with someone so they are more likely to tolerate shit. This is especially true during the holiday season, because no one wants to be alone during this time. I give this "relationship" until about February or March to fall apart.



There is no relationship. I stay away from going out for a cocktail this time of year, because what you just said there^^ is so disgusting to watch. It's pathetic really.

I suppose if there's a male/female who wants to weed the needy ones out, going out this time of year would enable him to weed them out much faster.😢
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Posted by beautasialovley

Because he explained to me that he only did that cuz he didn't want to disrespect me by making me a sidechick. That's why.



"Because he explained to me that he only did that cuz he didn't want to disrespect his girlfriend by making me a sidechick. That's why."

See. I fixed it for you. No thanks necessary 🙂

Any more Christmas stories to share?....

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Posted by Shescomeundone
Thanks for the entertainment! What a load of utter BS from the OP! By this eve they should be married and pregnant! LOLOL

Lmmfao what if she is telling the truth? Somebody has to be optimistic in the from.
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Well now I feel kind of bad because Virgo men are hard to contend.. God don't I know that to be true.... OP are you telling the truth or embellishing—??
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Posted by Shescomeundone
Thanks for the entertainment! What a load of utter BS from the OP! By this eve they should be married and pregnant! LOLOL

Lmmfao what if she is telling the truth? Somebody has to be optimistic in the from.
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Yall really are harsh. Give her the benefit of the doubt.

She may have contemplated her original question in an unidentified time frame. Could have been thinking about posting for days and finally got up the nerve to put it on here. And then as soon as she posted, he could have called and wanted to talk. Just saying, it is possible. And yall all be throwing out time frames like you know or something.

Then again, she got negative feedback, so could have said what she did to save face.

Just saying - don't be so quick to assume you know all the details. Sometimes, these people are legitimate.


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Posted by Shescomeundone
Thanks for the entertainment! What a load of utter BS from the OP! By this eve they should be married and pregnant! LOLOL

Lmmfao what if she is telling the truth? Somebody has to be optimistic in the from.



Yall really are harsh. Give her the benefit of the doubt.

She may have contemplated her original question in an unidentified time frame. Could have been thinking about posting for days and finally got up the nerve to put it on here. And then as soon as she posted, he could have called and wanted to talk. Just saying, it is possible. And yall all be throwing out time frames like you know or something.

Then again, she got negative feedback, so could have said what she did to save face.

Just saying - don't be so quick to assume you know all the details. Sometimes, these people are legitimate.


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Thank you. That's exactly wgat happened. They don't kno the time frame. On when I posted and when
Me and him talked.
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Time frames don't matter ... but, of course, you put emphasis on it, since it's irrelevant, and that way you can distract yourself from the truth.

Truth being ...... you're an option.

and obviously too stupid to comprehend it. But, don't feel bad ..... it appears that most women are in the boat with you, to render themselves idiots every time a guy graces them with their attention.


It's so fucking pathetic !!