Update. My beautiful Virgo

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Bweekzzz
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17 Years

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Hey everyone. It's just me, Bweekzzz, again.

First of all I would like to thank everyone for their insight from a couple weeks ago again. (Specially P-Angel).

I guess this is kind of an update and kind of looking for some more insight. You guys were so helpful before and I want more, more, more. LOL

P-angel I took your advice and bought her a small rose bush plant for V-day. Starfish I also bought her a nice heart pendant. Not cheap, but not too expensive. Also a card and wrote "My heart is yours today and every other day." She works nights and had been quite sick (respiratory thing) that week. I went to her house and she was sleeping, so I didn't want to wake her up, (she had to work that night) and asked her mother to leave it on the table for her for when she woke up. Sorry P-Angel. I know you told me the story about the guy and his mother delivering the present, but I was more concerned about her getting sleep and feeling better) I finally got a call from her the next day (Friday) thanking me for the rose plant and necklace, and that they were beautiful.
She didn't get me anything, but I wasn't looking for anything because it was a day for her in my eyes. Besides she has a real, excuse me, a--you know what for an ex. From what she has said he was that way during and after (they have a 12 yr old daughter together) the relationship was over (over 6 yrs now). No help with support so she is usually broke.

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Bweekzzz
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Anyway. For the past three weeks I have been trying to be very patient. I have not been pushing her to tell me what is going on and letting her know that I know she is quite busy (but needs to slow down), but don't forget I am here for her and am not going anywhere as long as she would like to continue seeing me. BUT if she doesn't want to continue seeing me to tell me. (she didn't say so, so I assumed she wanted to continue seeing me). I have been giving her many opportunities to get together but she hasn't taken me up on any of them. Such as getting together after she gets done work for a little bit. As I said before we have conflicting schedules so the time we can get together is tough. Her ex has not been taking the daughter on the weekends also. He knows about me and that she thinks I am a really good guy and that it could work out. (maybe trying to sabotage thing)

This past week has been the hardest to be patient though. We talked on Sunday after V-day. (when i told her I am here for her and not going anywhere) I called her on Tuesday and left a short message wanting to see how she was doing. (She has been having a major issue with her daughter, but won't tell me what it is yet) No call back) By Friday I was getting a little upset (and down) and called her just saying to call me back. Was going to text her "Game over, You lose" on Sunday, finally called last night, Sunday( a week later) like it was ok to return a call a week later. Didn't push though, just asked where she had been. She told me that she was really busy, dealing with her daughter and that her best friend had had her baby over the weekend and was helping her. Now it may seem selfish of me but if she can help her friend out on the weekend, why can't she get together with me? Didn't push though.
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Bweekzzz
@Bweekzzz
17 Years

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I am trying so hard to patient because being me, Taurus, I don't like to play games and long for the affirming of someone wanting to be with me. As I said before she does still call me, so I know there is something there and don't want to give up. She is sooooo worth it to me. We have a lot in common and when we get together it's like heaven to me.

Anyway, I've babbled on too long already. Sorry for anyone who took half their day to read this, but I had to get it out somewhere. I knew I was gonna fall in love with her from our first kiss, and have been since then. I think I need help. Any psychiatrists in here? LOL

Thanks for listening guys.

Brian.
P.S. Here's my info.


.Zodiac in degrees 0.00 - Placidus Orb:0
Sun Taurus 16.46 - Ascendant Sagittarius 0.14
Moon Aries 29.26 - II Capricorn 1.39
Mercury Taurus 12.28 - III Aquarius 7.58
Venus Gemini 27.30 - IV Pisces 14.22
Mars Libra 17.14 R - V Aries 15.10
Jupiter Cancer 27.46 - VI Taurus 9.45
Saturn Aries 7.50 - VII Gemini 0.14
Uranus Virgo 20.28 R - VIII Cancer 1.39
Neptune Scorpio 23.10 R - IX Leo 7.58
Pluto Virgo 18.07 R - Midheaven Virgo 14.22
Lilith Aries 14.42 - XI Libra 15.10
Asc node Taurus 7.03 - XII Scorpio 9.45
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katout
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18 Years

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Yo! im a Taurus woman and was seeing a virgo a while ago. different situation as a whole but for the most part the same. it requires a lot of patience to deal with virgo it seems, they play hot cold too much for my liking. It seems like the catch you reel you and and then avoid you. at some point you have to put your foot down and tell her what this is doing to you. in my opinion the time that i spent worrying and waiting for a response was waisted because he was out and about. do your thing man, if she is worth it for you she will be back on her own terms. if she's not that means she has more than you on her mind as far as people she would rather spend time with and doesn't have the courage to tell you, dont get screwed over. Put the ball in her court from today on and if she comes back great if not...well at least you didnt waste your time waiting around