Update on the off/on again Virgo Trauma
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by sophie68 on Saturday, March 25, 2006 and has 7 replies.
Hi All~
Well after a month and a half of fabulous times with Virgo...he did the dissapearing act again. Always after a great date, I do not hear from him until I make the move and call him (he promptly returns my calls) but this time its not happening.
Saw him last Tuesday night, he left Wednesday. Great date. It is now Saturday.
He worked last night at his bar and for the first time in a year I DID NOT go to his bar last night...I went elsewhere. Wondering if that was a shock for him.
I cannot keep making the effort. I was the one who called him while I was overseas, I was the one who called him to let him know I returned, I was the one who called him whn I saw him out w/ my friends at his bar. Although he returns my calls...this is ridiculous.
To me, if you like someone you follow up with them. And I understand the whole "Virgo's need to step back and analyze" but I am suppose to be going away on Monday for a week and he knows this, and mentioned in joking way "Ya, how am I going to handle you traveling all the time?".
So I thought he would want to touch base w/ me before I left but I guess not. Is he once again expecting ME to call?
Seems like I have been officially "virgoed".
Well after a month and a half of fabulous times with Virgo...he did the dissapearing act again. Always after a great date, I do not hear from him until I make the move and call him (he promptly returns my calls) but this time its not happening.
Saw him last Tuesday night, he left Wednesday. Great date. It is now Saturday.
He worked last night at his bar and for the first time in a year I DID NOT go to his bar last night...I went elsewhere. Wondering if that was a shock for him.
I cannot keep making the effort. I was the one who called him while I was overseas, I was the one who called him to let him know I returned, I was the one who called him whn I saw him out w/ my friends at his bar. Although he returns my calls...this is ridiculous.
To me, if you like someone you follow up with them. And I understand the whole "Virgo's need to step back and analyze" but I am suppose to be going away on Monday for a week and he knows this, and mentioned in joking way "Ya, how am I going to handle you traveling all the time?".
So I thought he would want to touch base w/ me before I left but I guess not. Is he once again expecting ME to call?
Seems like I have been officially "virgoed".
We have all been there Sophie. Your story sounds very familiar. I am communticating with 4 different Virgo's at the moment. I can't seem to meet anyone but a Virgo all of a sudden. I have one Virgo who has been flirting with me for 20 years but we have never had sex who has suddenly popped back into my life. Another Virgo who has been flirting with me over the internet for over a year and a half and we still haven't went on a date yet. Just when I think I'm never going to hear from him again he sends me another e-mail. A brand new Virgo who isn't showing any signs of being a virgo.....yet.....and a virgo who completely broke my heart. I thought he was the one and he all of a sudden he switched gears and ran scared. I have one other guy who won't tell me what his sign is but I would place money on that he is a Virgo too. I have all of these men in my life right now and I'm not getting any sex. I JUST WANT A NORMAL BOYFRIEND!!! I don't like working this hard. Aren't there any nice cappy's out there? I thought a Scorpio is supposed to be with a Cap. I can't seem to meet any of those.Or maybe another scorpio because then at least I would be having some good sex.
Yeah GS...
These Virgos certainly are not easy....and we Scopios can't stand the games although we can play a good one ourselves. Impatient as hell.
This was one of the first guys I have been with that I have "been myself, easy going, not fake" been taking it as it comes. I never call a man but people say he is shy so of course I made a couple calls...but just can't do it anymore.
I don;t kow mych about this sign stuff, just learning now. Never really believed it but it sure sounds dead on.
It also may be that men are men and are dogs...period. The chase is over. But if that was the case, he would be getting closer and more open with me each and every date. Then the jealousy card played out when he had a couple too many drinks the other night...was interesting.
Someone sais "Maybe he's just not into you". Nope...can feel it and can see it, as well as everyone else who sees him when I'm around him. Can feel those piercing eyes and things he says.
Ok ...onto the next...this Virgo just lost out.
These Virgos certainly are not easy....and we Scopios can't stand the games although we can play a good one ourselves. Impatient as hell.
This was one of the first guys I have been with that I have "been myself, easy going, not fake" been taking it as it comes. I never call a man but people say he is shy so of course I made a couple calls...but just can't do it anymore.
I don;t kow mych about this sign stuff, just learning now. Never really believed it but it sure sounds dead on.
It also may be that men are men and are dogs...period. The chase is over. But if that was the case, he would be getting closer and more open with me each and every date. Then the jealousy card played out when he had a couple too many drinks the other night...was interesting.
Someone sais "Maybe he's just not into you". Nope...can feel it and can see it, as well as everyone else who sees him when I'm around him. Can feel those piercing eyes and things he says.
Ok ...onto the next...this Virgo just lost out.
Hi all,
Am new to this site. I have been with my virgo boyfriend for the past 18mths, it has got to be the weirdest relationship i have ever been in! He is very loving & affectionate, but it seems that he always needs a break after being together for a day and then the next time i hear from him is on the weekend! Trouble is we get along so well (me being a taurus) and i dont want to seem clingy by always asking him to come around more or whatever.
Also hes nowhere near as eager for sex as other guys ive been out with (mostly fire signs!) .. must be just a virgo thing i suppose? Anyway girls, i can totally relate with all youre messages about virgo guys!
Am new to this site. I have been with my virgo boyfriend for the past 18mths, it has got to be the weirdest relationship i have ever been in! He is very loving & affectionate, but it seems that he always needs a break after being together for a day and then the next time i hear from him is on the weekend! Trouble is we get along so well (me being a taurus) and i dont want to seem clingy by always asking him to come around more or whatever.
Also hes nowhere near as eager for sex as other guys ive been out with (mostly fire signs!) .. must be just a virgo thing i suppose? Anyway girls, i can totally relate with all youre messages about virgo guys!
HAHAHA!
Going through it hunny...sent you a PM
Going through it hunny...sent you a PM
Yep Taurus Girl, that's the same thing I went through with a virgo recently. I have never been with a guy who doesn't have much interest in sex. It was great when we had it but he never sseemed to be eager and always had to plan it out in advance.
Sophie you are dead on about us Scorps not having any patience with the Virgo male. I wish I could have been more patient but it's just not in me.
Sophie you are dead on about us Scorps not having any patience with the Virgo male. I wish I could have been more patient but it's just not in me.
I know what you mean when you say you feel it you know its there but still nothing.... it makes no sense and trying to figure it out exhaust the most patient of women.....
I'm still heartbroken over my Virgo, but started dating a Leo. He gives me the attention I want and need he's a great guy, and I know I'm in rebound mode.
I'm still waiting to make amends with my virgo wishing for it hoping for it, but instead there is still bashing. Which I don't understand.... we have more contact now then ever but of the worse kind. I moved on in a sort of way and he just seems so stuck now and turned on by the fight.... It confuses me.
I'm still heartbroken over my Virgo, but started dating a Leo. He gives me the attention I want and need he's a great guy, and I know I'm in rebound mode.
I'm still waiting to make amends with my virgo wishing for it hoping for it, but instead there is still bashing. Which I don't understand.... we have more contact now then ever but of the worse kind. I moved on in a sort of way and he just seems so stuck now and turned on by the fight.... It confuses me.
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