SS... are you serious??
After all the crap I've written about this pair, you're asking for more??
I can only conclude that you haven't read my threads & posts, which wounds me to the quick!

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My apologies, D.

Please find it in your heart to forgive my active ADD symptoms.

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You're forgiven.
In general, this is not the easiest relationship to start, but one of the most unbreakable after it's established...
Based on my own experience, plus some of the posts on DXP, your VirGuy will know almost immediately & instinctively if you're the right woman for him. But, we Virgs don't trust our instincts, so he will take his time validating his suspicions. If you're like my Scorp, this will look like wimpy indecisiveness - until you know him better - and it will try your patience...
If he falls for you, he will fall hard. He'll give 100% , and that in itself may scare the shit outta you at first! He will probably be totally unlike the other swinging dicks you've dated before...
If you read my "R" Rated posts back in 2006, then you know what sex can be like between Scorpio & Virgo - a fuckin' marathon! [Yep, meant that one!] If he loves & trusts you, then there are very few things he won't do or try to please you sexually. (I draw the line at giving / receiving pain, so anything anal is verboten!)
My Scorp calls me her "perfect" man - not because I never make a mistake, but because I'm perfect for her. She also tells me often that she loves coming home to me. VirGuy focuses a lot of energy into making a peaceful, neat, orderly home environment - a safe haven from the bullshit of daily life - and that more than makes up for his fussiness (most of the time!)...
I said years ago that I thought S & V are one of the untold astrological success stories, and I still hold to that opinion - going on 3 years now...

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K. Thanks.

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HERE'S A MOLDY OLDIE FROM MY dyrstr8z DAZE...
dyrstr8z Hide | 6/26/2007 3:43:35 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.32
scorp23,
I'm a middle-aged Virgo man married to a Scorpio woman. Our courtship started in April of last year, and by the 4 month point, I had convinced her to move in with me; and, by the end of 7 months, we were married. So, when a Virgo man knows what he wants, he can move very quickly...
BUT - and this is a Big But!! - I moved much slower in my youth. I dated my first wife (a Libra) for almost 2 years before I married her, and we stayed married for over 20 years, so my patience was rewarded. I take it from your DXP screen name that you're 23?? If your VirGuy is around that age, he may take a few more months to know for sure if he's serious about you...
Wanna know how he feels? Ask him. But, try not to put him on the spot - the best time and place for me to be quizzed by my Scorp is at home, in our cuddle chair, and reassuring physical contact definitely helps me relax and open up my big ole heart... Find a similar setting for your VirGuy, be frank and earnest, and he should respond. If not, he's immature, insincere, or otherwise probably not ready to play in the adult romance game...
P-Angel: "Pretty much, they just want to get laid .. if you listen to most of them talk in here and if you have friends in real life .. listen to them talk .. they don't really want a relationship, just arse."
Bullsh1t...
Men - in general - like to f0ck; and, according to an old clich?, young men are dumb and full of cum. His Sign has nothing to do with that fact. But, a grown man wants to have a special woman to share his thoughts and feelings and Life with, and it's pretty easy to sort out the Big Boys from the Real Men...
VirGuys are more reluctant to let you into their fortressed hearts, but they do have them. Counting my VirDad and myself, I know 6 Virgo men, and all of us but 1 are in loving, committed, monogamous relationships...
About Scorpio + Virgo: Debra and I had a tough time in the beginning communicating with words - we both stumbled over them, and misunderstood each other. Took a couple of months to get past it, and we're both older and more settled than you and your VirGuy may be...

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dyrstr8z Hide | 6/26/2007 3:44:13 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.32
"This guy is just a mystery and that can be good and irritating at the same time. I think I am thinking too much into it actually. Or maybe, he is just the way he is and actually not a mystery at all... Just hard for me to relate!"
Uh, if he's like me, You're the Big Mystery! I discovered DXP when I was trying to figure out my enigmatic Scorp. I got some great advice, some validation of my observations, and an occasional kick in the ass that got a slow-rolling Virgo moving...
We're expecting Twins in November, so not only can Scorp + Virg work, it can be very productive - maybe too much of a good thing??
Good Luck!
~dyrstr8z
P.S.: Like many of my posts, I wrote this one at work. I'm on a military network, so I can't log in to DXP, which means these are not Real Time comments...
"I finally asked him and he basically said, "hey,I like you." I love the honesty and the straight forward approach of Virgo's but, ummmm, I have known some that are almost BORING b/c of it..."
So... you asked, and you received an answer. Cool!
As for boring: I worried about that myself - that I wouldn't be passionate and spontaneous enough for my Scorp... You can help him open up and unwind... Once he trusts you, the sky is literally the limit... Just read some of my threads from last spring and summer (before Debra imposed some limits on my DXP personal reports!)...
"He's a little immature. Starting to wonder if he is even worth all of this."
He may not be right or ready for you. I wouldn't have been ready for my Scorp way back in my 20's. But in my 40's? Oh yeah, Baby! Yeah! Hit me baby one more time! Make me write bad checks!
"Just an FYI: I'm not trying to bash all virgo's! Just talking about my person experiences!"
Bash away, we DXP VirGuys are tough mother truckers - Men born under a Feminine Sign have to be!

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