Venus Scorp / Venus Virgo | Taking Charge?
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Havoc077 on Sunday, August 13, 2017 and has 2 replies.
So, Virgos.
I'm a Scorpio Stellium w/ Venus conjunct Pluto and Mars Cancer trine Pluto.
It serves me well in dealing with a Venus in Virgo as she is very receptive to my passion or whatever you'd call it. However my placements/aspects do make me feel a lot of electric and desire.
I know a good chunk of it is mutual however my question is, do Venus in Virgo enjoy when their partners take charge - like say, just going for a kiss? Some stuff in my past has left me rather doubtful at times in romantic concerns so I tend to ask or insinuate I want a kiss and this typically escalates into kissing every time, but the last time we interacted I felt a particular vibe that just screamed "DO IT"
Sorry for going on so long, I just don't know if I should...well, give into that Scorpionic nature or not - cause it wants, oh yes, it wants.
I'm a Scorpio Stellium w/ Venus conjunct Pluto and Mars Cancer trine Pluto.
It serves me well in dealing with a Venus in Virgo as she is very receptive to my passion or whatever you'd call it. However my placements/aspects do make me feel a lot of electric and desire.
I know a good chunk of it is mutual however my question is, do Venus in Virgo enjoy when their partners take charge - like say, just going for a kiss? Some stuff in my past has left me rather doubtful at times in romantic concerns so I tend to ask or insinuate I want a kiss and this typically escalates into kissing every time, but the last time we interacted I felt a particular vibe that just screamed "DO IT"
Sorry for going on so long, I just don't know if I should...well, give into that Scorpionic nature or not - cause it wants, oh yes, it wants.
I have Virgo Venus and I prefer it when the other takes charge. Often I'm doing it and there's something hot about not always being the one. Virgos can shape and mold themselves to their lover's preferences and needs. I find myself doing this and it is thrilling in love. Its also fulfilling because I love to pamper and take care of my loved ones. I go out of my way to take care of what they need before they can voice it or need it. Kind of bad I know but I just do it naturally.
I consider myself extremely independent to the point of turning any man who is not confident and assertive off. But in a relationship, I do let my man call the shots, not all since I'm no pushover and you can bet your butt behind the scenes we talk it all out, but I don't mind doing what I can to help them, support and let them be 'the man'.
I'd relax if I were you. Sounds like it's going good. Try to drown out some of the negative comments and voices in your head, those can really weigh you down. Just kiss your significant other and have fun!
I consider myself extremely independent to the point of turning any man who is not confident and assertive off. But in a relationship, I do let my man call the shots, not all since I'm no pushover and you can bet your butt behind the scenes we talk it all out, but I don't mind doing what I can to help them, support and let them be 'the man'.
I'd relax if I were you. Sounds like it's going good. Try to drown out some of the negative comments and voices in your head, those can really weigh you down. Just kiss your significant other and have fun!
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