VIRGOEXALTED
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I think some of the astrologers need to get together and re-think this 'Virgo, the critic' crap; I don't buy it; it's not really looking at the WHOLE SIGN; IT'S BASICALLY GETTING HOOKED ON ONE TRAIT YOU DON'T LIKE AND PICKING AT IT UNTILL YOU TURN A MOLEHILL INTO A MOUNTAIN, AND CAN'T SEE THE TRUE PERSON; I think we should ALL be a little more skeptical; nothing is really 'all on top all the time'....There's more to every sign than they let on....especially virgo; or maybe I'm a bad one....who knows?
god your right notso07; and yea, these are the things people in my life complain about; can't help it ya know? Now, I just wanna know what the problems are so I can acknowledge them, and change 'em....truth be told, I can never really see were I'm wrong in something 'till someone points it out to me, then I get all pissed off, and hate everyone; the cancer in me hates critism, and the Virgo, needs it because I desire to grow, and expand; also, I've got so many planets in exaltation, that I think they are clouding my sun sign, and overall expression.....hard to tell, my mars is in aries, my moon in cancer, and my pluto in scorpio....I just want to fix myself so that I can be more sociable; I heard that people with mars in aries are very paranoid, and don't really trust anyone; I can vouch!! lol!! I am very cautious of people, and their intentions; I'd just like to show people that Virgo is basically 'undefined'.....it has to be rebroken and restored to it's true power....
No, Virgoexalted, I think it's pretty unfair to say that the main outlook of life for virgos is nothing but critisizing everything...actually it's pretty degrading. I understand that virgos approach things on labeling things, but this doesn't mean critisizing, it's more being opinionated. I've learned from you that virgos are about the 'whole' truth, meaning the whole raw truth not sugarcoated, so being soo opinionated would come with the territory, but critisizing...everyone can do that.
I see virgo as the 'virgin', the pure being that enjoys her 'freedom', NOT obsessed with serving, because if this was the case then why does every virgo (expecially ones I know) love it's freedom? Please, if you virgo's don't agree with me, then let me know something. I'm not a virgo, so educate me if I'm wrong.
I see virgo as the 'virgin', the pure being that enjoys her 'freedom', NOT obsessed with serving, because if this was the case then why does every virgo (expecially ones I know) love it's freedom? Please, if you virgo's don't agree with me, then let me know something. I'm not a virgo, so educate me if I'm wrong.
Is it possible that my mars in aries dictates so much of me? or is this Virgo? We still don't have a planetary 'home of our own yet'.....wonder where our 'lost jerusalem' is....I'm home sick, but I don't remember where I'm from....sound like virgos story....
Well I've got a theory BigD56; if wind in escense represents 'freedom in thinking and or behavior; or the mental jurisdiction' than I'd think virgo belongs right up there for the simple fact that the approach is very intellectual/freedom oriented; I've read that a mars in aries dosen't dictate what a person values, or their 'inner most needs'.....I think Virgos need to step up, and announce/introduce themselves; I need freedom, and the ability to do as I please, and express freely, and independently; but on virgo, she is virginial, and to be that is to be pure, and to be pure in 'reality' is unrealistic; the very glyph lacks real grounding or basis; we ALL have croses and sins to bear, and if this sign/glyph can exist, than why does it exist as earth instead of wind? I am more obsessed with the cultivation of my soul, and what my souls importance in respect to the world at large is...
who am I? what is my worth? Why am I here? I find myself asking these questions all the time....and honestly, just telling me realistically I am here for the sole purpose of reproduction dosen't make me happy at all.....I need more; to know that I exist for such a INDIVIDUAL PURPOSE, that in the long run, my existence matters; more so than numerical definition, and reason; to exist for a purpose/chance to influence life is me.
I'm a virgo. It's not my faults that need analyzing, it's everyone else's! 🙂
this IS NOT analysis Strings; this is the expansive thought of someone whom deeply wishes to know their place in the universe AT LARGE; who isn't afraid to look at things in a broader, bigger sense...hence the deep, questioning; anything can be reasoned if the person is persuasive/manipulative enough to do it.
I look at what I am/can do in respect to the universe/earth. I believe that I can change everything, and probably WILL!! lol!! Rather than JUST analyzing I get out search and basically tear life apart trying to enlighten myself, and give back to the world; (although it dosen't help being dogmatic) I am quite idealistic, and optimistic, but never really lose sight of what's REALLY GOIN ON....I have big dreams strings; you can't see past the clouds, if ya stay on earth ya know?
So then what is Virgo?
Can a Metal Rat give a Mighty Dragon advice? Shrug... maybe.
>I am dogmatic(I am right about EVERYTHING!!! LOL!!)
I know. I really do know. But temper it with your lack of experience, AND the realization that many humans will not take your advice no matter how much sense it makes to you. I usually feel I'm right because I've looked hard at the situation and know what's what. Or I've explored all the options and come up with the best plan. Not all will agree with me, I know, so I suggest... offer my idea.... yet allow ppl to make their own decision even if it's the wrong one. That's life. People have to make up their own minds. When they do and it's not the right way... don't hold it against them.... keep with them... they may take your advice eventually... be gentle.
>I am stubborn(yep, it's MY WAY OR THE DAMN HIGHWAY!!)
You're not the only one. Keep in mind that other people are stubborn too. Temper your stubbornness... at least for those whose friendships you truly value. Give them some leeway. Allow them to do their own thing even if you know it's wrong. Let them learn the hard way if they must. Let them make up their own minds. Even if it's the wrong way. Point them in the right direction, but let them make the choice. If they choose wrong, allow them to if you value the friendship.
>I am argumentive(gotta have the final important word)
Curb your tongue at times. Sometimes you'll have the final word. Sometimes you need to allow them to have the final word... Sometimes you need to just cut them off... sometimes the final word is no word at all.
>I am tactless(gotta work on that honest tongue)
ONLY time will teach you in this. Being honest is one thing... but hurting others with your sharp tongue, no matter how honest... is another.
>I am explosive(yep KABOOM!! LOL!!)
Spoken like a true Dragon. Hard to advise you here. Maybe you're better than me in that regard. I am never on the defensive, am sometimes insulted, and don't know how to respond... until much later after I've had time to work out my response. But many times I wish I was DEFENSIVE.... EXPLOSIVE.... when insulted... told the MF'ers off. Told them to go screw themselves... because many times... it just ends up that way anyway.
>I am dogmatic(I am right about EVERYTHING!!! LOL!!)
I know. I really do know. But temper it with your lack of experience, AND the realization that many humans will not take your advice no matter how much sense it makes to you. I usually feel I'm right because I've looked hard at the situation and know what's what. Or I've explored all the options and come up with the best plan. Not all will agree with me, I know, so I suggest... offer my idea.... yet allow ppl to make their own decision even if it's the wrong one. That's life. People have to make up their own minds. When they do and it's not the right way... don't hold it against them.... keep with them... they may take your advice eventually... be gentle.
>I am stubborn(yep, it's MY WAY OR THE DAMN HIGHWAY!!)
You're not the only one. Keep in mind that other people are stubborn too. Temper your stubbornness... at least for those whose friendships you truly value. Give them some leeway. Allow them to do their own thing even if you know it's wrong. Let them learn the hard way if they must. Let them make up their own minds. Even if it's the wrong way. Point them in the right direction, but let them make the choice. If they choose wrong, allow them to if you value the friendship.
>I am argumentive(gotta have the final important word)
Curb your tongue at times. Sometimes you'll have the final word. Sometimes you need to allow them to have the final word... Sometimes you need to just cut them off... sometimes the final word is no word at all.
>I am tactless(gotta work on that honest tongue)
ONLY time will teach you in this. Being honest is one thing... but hurting others with your sharp tongue, no matter how honest... is another.
>I am explosive(yep KABOOM!! LOL!!)
Spoken like a true Dragon. Hard to advise you here. Maybe you're better than me in that regard. I am never on the defensive, am sometimes insulted, and don't know how to respond... until much later after I've had time to work out my response. But many times I wish I was DEFENSIVE.... EXPLOSIVE.... when insulted... told the MF'ers off. Told them to go screw themselves... because many times... it just ends up that way anyway.
I am dogmatic(I am right about EVERYTHING!!! LOL!!)
I am stubborn(yep, it's MY WAY OR THE DAMN HIGHWAY!!)
I am argumentive(gotta have the final important word)
I am tactless(gotta work on that honest tongue)
I am explosive(yep KABOOM!! LOL!!)
VE, I don't know that I see these as faults. What's wrong with being stubborn, or dogmatic? If you did something to try and grow away from these traits and then someone pushed you around . . then what? You'd not argue on behalf of your honor? You would just sit obediantly in the corner and await for more order? Sometimes, you have to be tactless to get a point across because the other person will only stop bitching long enough when an insult is directed towards them.
You're just different, just as I am, and everybody else. When a woman (or man) captures your heart, she'll (he'll) love you and want you just the way you are and not see these as faults, rather, determination and confidence.
Don't worry so much . . .
I am stubborn(yep, it's MY WAY OR THE DAMN HIGHWAY!!)
I am argumentive(gotta have the final important word)
I am tactless(gotta work on that honest tongue)
I am explosive(yep KABOOM!! LOL!!)
VE, I don't know that I see these as faults. What's wrong with being stubborn, or dogmatic? If you did something to try and grow away from these traits and then someone pushed you around . . then what? You'd not argue on behalf of your honor? You would just sit obediantly in the corner and await for more order? Sometimes, you have to be tactless to get a point across because the other person will only stop bitching long enough when an insult is directed towards them.
You're just different, just as I am, and everybody else. When a woman (or man) captures your heart, she'll (he'll) love you and want you just the way you are and not see these as faults, rather, determination and confidence.
Don't worry so much . . .
You guys; wow, I'm tryin' ya know!! lol!! Really, ALV, maybe sometime we can get together and go a couple of rounds of snort 'n rails lol!! Life has not really been fun, or too easy; always having less than what's needed in the emotional department; money, and materials have always never been to important to me.... perhaps my behavior is nothing more than a superiority complex.....I puff myself up, so as to show I am not to be pushed around, and can lead in crisis, but actually internally have TRUTHFULLY an unstable ego that could rise or fall at ANY MOMENT; I worry constantly about not being good enough or strong enough.....it really sucks on some serious, deep-spoken shit; talk about tickin' time bombs!!; I don't really start off tactless and with intentions to wound or injure people; I like people the way they are even if I don't agree that is reactionary; I wish only to be special enough to inspire people, not criticize them; I think life is meant more to express ones own individual worth, and their unique abilities they can bring to the table; I respect all views even though I argue, becuase I see myself on the same level as everyone else; I am pretty humble, but would just like to show what I can do; I can abstract with people on just about anything, but would like to lead people not to say, 'ha ha I'm ur absolute ruler, and you will never escape my opressive rule muhahahha...' NO WAY!! I want to lead so people can feel ever comfortable and feel peaceful in thier lives; feel freedom to live as they want, as long as it doesn't come off to hurt another; I wish people would stop giving people a hard time.....
But I don't wanna just come off strong; I would like to radiate it, and allow people around me to feel comfortable and protected; There's alot of things leaders have to go through in order to get to the top, but I VOLUNTEER to go through this for everyone; not to prove anything but to show that someone is here, who can change everything....perhaps I am foolishly an idealist, perhaps I am too young to understand anything, perhaps my head is in a cloud..... but I think I can pull this all together and lead it in the right direction; it's not arrogance, It's the inner drive and confidence to see this world through to another golden age.
Strings I am no one but VE; that is all; I do not like labels as they limit ones individuality, and completely cut out what is VITAL in a person; their own unique self....I am not a little virgo whom just critiscizes all that I see, in a constant state of disatifaction; also, I am not out to 'dominate' you....if branh is, that's his shit....not indicative to mine. I value my freedom, and my unique personality, but my youth becuase I am a work in progress, and nothing now is 'set in stone' perhaps it will be as I age; but I hope I keep my dreams, and ideals; that's what is indactive to me....I possess myself, and am worried about getting my own act together so I can pull something great off for the world at large; you gotta think big if ya wanna acheive big; I don't understand why you guys (virgos) are sorta 'dreamless'....you're sober thinkers, but I......I think, If I try, I can acomplish anything; I come from a world where a dream is all you have next to pocket change; but you have to dream big to get yourself out of it... and saddly money can't buy happiness, which is why I value dreams of the happiness I seek; they are what TRULY matters to me at least.
I am no one but VE; that is all; I do not like labels as they limit ones individuality, and completely cut out what is VITAL in a person; their own unique self....I am not a little virgo whom just critiscizes all that I see, in a constant state of disatifaction; also, I am not out to 'dominate' you...
Hmmm, if this is true VE, then I like this about you. Having the ability to be honest about who you are without getting "lost in the mix" is a wonderful think. You are cool in my book 😉
Hmmm, if this is true VE, then I like this about you. Having the ability to be honest about who you are without getting "lost in the mix" is a wonderful think. You are cool in my book 😉
I guess, strings I actually have come across a slew of women like this, and they don't seem to agree strings; if YOU have a problem with my way of life, that is your butter not mine; only mine in the sense if it stops working, THEN it is my responsibility to change it; I am not trying to enforce my will or my 'way' onto others simply voicing an opinion like yours, using your age as a benediction rather than actually knowledge is actually quite entertaining, more of you I ask more!! Oh, strings, you get so bent out of shape on things...but you seem to care...or are out to criticize, oh well, which ever you prefer I guess.
when have I done that?
*checks with secretary whom offers a sickening obvious look of 'No'*
Like I said, no need to get ur, panties in a wedge; funny you think that ur mentions are silly; I know I think they are!! lol!!.
*checks with secretary whom offers a sickening obvious look of 'No'*
Like I said, no need to get ur, panties in a wedge; funny you think that ur mentions are silly; I know I think they are!! lol!!.
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My answer: How much trust you have withing yourself.
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I am dogmatic(I am right about EVERYTHING!!! LOL!!)
I am stubborn(yep, it's MY WAY OR THE DAMN HIGHWAY!!)
I am argumentive(gotta have the final important word)
I am tactless(gotta work on that honest tongue)
I am explosive(yep KABOOM!! LOL!!)
Here's ma good side!! (I wonder if there is any end to it!! LOL!! Just kidding guys!!)
I am Broad-Minded (I accept/defend everyone and their right to live as they want)
I am Energetic(I could probably fly around the galaxy, and back in a day!! lol!!)
I am Humorous(hey, I THINK I'm funny...)
I am Expansive( I really wanna change for the better/always seeking the 'higher way' always feel like I never possess enough; I NEED MORE ANSWERS...something....)
I am Courageous(I never back down when feelings are involved; let's go!! I ain't scared to defend/fight for what's mine or a loved ones)
so guys.....(gulp)....any advice?