she_virg
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virg girl cap guy....help!!
Leave him and tell him the truth. DO not think selfishly for you being lonely.
Caps prefer truth no matter how bitter or heart breaking. We won't be that "hurt" as you think we will be!
Caps prefer truth no matter how bitter or heart breaking. We won't be that "hurt" as you think we will be!
Not advise, rather, observations .....
If initially, there was no attraction .. it's not surprising that your feelings for him are fading. This indicates to me that perhaps there never were, for you said he is nice and there's potential .. however, no words to suggest any kind of overpowering attraction.
People sometimes settle .. they get lonely, they want someone to have a closeness with .. so they allow themselves to make compromises that really goes against their hearts desires, just to satisfy this yearning. However, if really looked at logically .. how satisfying is the settlement, if it leaves the person to always hope, and wonder, all the "what if's" ?
You said you wanted to give him a chance because you thought you were being too critical .. and this is really disturbing to me, because it is saying to me that you would defy your nature and how you need to operate in life to find quality to your life.
You HAVE to be critical, you're a Virgo .. that would be like me saying I have to stop day-dreaming .. I can't .. you can't. By being critical is how you naturally live your life everyday.
Be who you are ... if you don't have feelings for this man, then you have to be real about it. To not tell him would be a deception and it would forever haunt you if you ever settled.
Anyway .. you have to do what feels best for you. Just don't be afraid of speaking the truth. Good Luck 🙂
If initially, there was no attraction .. it's not surprising that your feelings for him are fading. This indicates to me that perhaps there never were, for you said he is nice and there's potential .. however, no words to suggest any kind of overpowering attraction.
People sometimes settle .. they get lonely, they want someone to have a closeness with .. so they allow themselves to make compromises that really goes against their hearts desires, just to satisfy this yearning. However, if really looked at logically .. how satisfying is the settlement, if it leaves the person to always hope, and wonder, all the "what if's" ?
You said you wanted to give him a chance because you thought you were being too critical .. and this is really disturbing to me, because it is saying to me that you would defy your nature and how you need to operate in life to find quality to your life.
You HAVE to be critical, you're a Virgo .. that would be like me saying I have to stop day-dreaming .. I can't .. you can't. By being critical is how you naturally live your life everyday.
Be who you are ... if you don't have feelings for this man, then you have to be real about it. To not tell him would be a deception and it would forever haunt you if you ever settled.
Anyway .. you have to do what feels best for you. Just don't be afraid of speaking the truth. Good Luck 🙂
thank you both!
p-angel that was very enlightening!
p-angel that was very enlightening!
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