VirGirl actually confused by her VirGuy.
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by bonita applebum on Wednesday, June 6, 2007 and has 14 replies.
It's a well-known, scientifically documented fact that Virguys don't check their my space lol .....I don't and I've had the damned thing for at least a year and a half! lol Call him if you want to NAIL him if you want to pin him down! lol 
i wish it were that easy. i haven't been able to get through by calling or texting. unfortunaely, it's all been thru (stupid) MySpace.
oh darling. that's what happened when I went out with someone of the same sign as I and we had a long distance relationship. He sorta ditched me too..
I don't think it's a virgo thing honestly. And VE is not right about this either. MY virguy checks his myspace every single day at the exact same time. He has it timed perfectly. Morning and Evening...this boys' second home is his myspace, really. He even told me himself, "If there is anything I am punctual and always on is my myspace, Always"
Really, I don't think a virguy in the military can be trusted, or anybody military for that matter. Talk to his parents about him.
I don't think it's a virgo thing honestly. And VE is not right about this either. MY virguy checks his myspace every single day at the exact same time. He has it timed perfectly. Morning and Evening...this boys' second home is his myspace, really. He even told me himself, "If there is anything I am punctual and always on is my myspace, Always"
Really, I don't think a virguy in the military can be trusted, or anybody military for that matter. Talk to his parents about him.
....she got it goin on....
Hi bonita applebum. I've read all the comments in this thread and I really empathize with you.
I want to say that I agree with virgogotme with the statement that Virgos seem to tend to back out of a situation with the intention of not hurting another party when in crises and often do not compensate by explaining for it or resolving. It seems to them that it is for the best and they are doing us a favour when they just disappear and that we could do it as easily too, just like them. I still do not understand this logic though.
With regard to the questions in your latest post, I would suggest that you not jump to conclusions so fast. It probably is not as bad as you think. I am not sure how to analyze this based on a Virgo's perspective, as I myself have trouble understanding Virgos, but from a more realistic and logical point of view, it could have been just that he was devastated to learn that he was cheated on. I would think that when a guy found out that his wife cheated on him, it would hurt his ego really bad, especially if the adulterer was a friend of his and the secret was spilled by the friend himself. It does not necessarily mean that he is still pining for his wife, but this new information will certainly gives him a new thought about his past relationship with his wife but there is nothing we can or should assume on what his thoughts really are. Even though so, I am still not sure what advice I can give you as to how you should proceed in this relationship. I hope you will be able to find the answer. All the best to you.
I want to say that I agree with virgogotme with the statement that Virgos seem to tend to back out of a situation with the intention of not hurting another party when in crises and often do not compensate by explaining for it or resolving. It seems to them that it is for the best and they are doing us a favour when they just disappear and that we could do it as easily too, just like them. I still do not understand this logic though.
With regard to the questions in your latest post, I would suggest that you not jump to conclusions so fast. It probably is not as bad as you think. I am not sure how to analyze this based on a Virgo's perspective, as I myself have trouble understanding Virgos, but from a more realistic and logical point of view, it could have been just that he was devastated to learn that he was cheated on. I would think that when a guy found out that his wife cheated on him, it would hurt his ego really bad, especially if the adulterer was a friend of his and the secret was spilled by the friend himself. It does not necessarily mean that he is still pining for his wife, but this new information will certainly gives him a new thought about his past relationship with his wife but there is nothing we can or should assume on what his thoughts really are. Even though so, I am still not sure what advice I can give you as to how you should proceed in this relationship. I hope you will be able to find the answer. All the best to you.
Hey Bonita, mad love for you! I too have gone through a roller coaster ride with my Virgo guy. Check my post "lovejonesforvirgoguy" I thought I had blown it with him by conducting myself a little uncertain (I am a Cancer) and after a few months of a on again off again dating I backed out, feelings were too intense for me and I was afraid he would dumb me (my own insecurity). Then of course I started to miss him terribly. I wrote the message boards and got some good advice. Even though I was terrified I contacted my Virgo Guy about a month ago and he was understanding, receptive and ready to start over. We re-kindled our friendship/buddies relationship. To say the least things have been going great. He's been over a lot, we've been out and sharing a wonderful time together.
Well during our last conversation I decided I would express my feelings to him. I started out by saying being with him made me very happy. He returned the affection by saying that being with me also made him happy. I started to tell him that he was the only man I have been with sexually (since we began in January) and there was not another man I wanted to be with. Well his cell phone went dead (he's been having trouble with it) I thought he would call me back and we would resume the conversation. That was this past Tuesday night. I have called him ONLY ONCE (no answer - got his voicemail) to remind him that he had agreed to come over and look at a problem I have been having with my front door. I have not heard from him to date. Now either his phone has gone completly out (I doubt it) or he has ducked out because I began to express "feelings". Remind you up to now (we've dated since January) granted it has been on and off I have NOT expressed to him how deeply I care for him. I have expressed it in my actions (not only sexually but in conversations, interactions, sharing and helping him through a serious work crisis, etc).
One thing I will tell you about a Virgo Guy and maybe some of the Virgo men will confirm this as fact when dealling with a Virgo man. Calling him or trying to contact him during an emotional turn is probally not a good idea. I've learned to just wait. This is just a theory that I've tried and it seems to work with him. I hang back and don't pressure him then next thing I know he's back. The hard part is the time you wait - it's painful and you feel insecure because you haven't a clue what's going on. And it's probally a little "woman stu
Well during our last conversation I decided I would express my feelings to him. I started out by saying being with him made me very happy. He returned the affection by saying that being with me also made him happy. I started to tell him that he was the only man I have been with sexually (since we began in January) and there was not another man I wanted to be with. Well his cell phone went dead (he's been having trouble with it) I thought he would call me back and we would resume the conversation. That was this past Tuesday night. I have called him ONLY ONCE (no answer - got his voicemail) to remind him that he had agreed to come over and look at a problem I have been having with my front door. I have not heard from him to date. Now either his phone has gone completly out (I doubt it) or he has ducked out because I began to express "feelings". Remind you up to now (we've dated since January) granted it has been on and off I have NOT expressed to him how deeply I care for him. I have expressed it in my actions (not only sexually but in conversations, interactions, sharing and helping him through a serious work crisis, etc).
One thing I will tell you about a Virgo Guy and maybe some of the Virgo men will confirm this as fact when dealling with a Virgo man. Calling him or trying to contact him during an emotional turn is probally not a good idea. I've learned to just wait. This is just a theory that I've tried and it seems to work with him. I hang back and don't pressure him then next thing I know he's back. The hard part is the time you wait - it's painful and you feel insecure because you haven't a clue what's going on. And it's probally a little "woman stu
oops an error in my previous post - I meant to say I thought he would dump me not dumb me. sorry guys
"lovejonesforvirgo"
....hopeless, like a penny with a hole in it....
....hopeless, like a penny with a hole in it....
Whaaaat, I love that song form the soundtrack.
Its my new thing...bringing up lyrics that remind me of a posters name.
(I didnt read her post, too long, but if it fits...I'll stick by it)
Its my new thing...bringing up lyrics that remind me of a posters name.
(I didnt read her post, too long, but if it fits...I'll stick by it
)lovejonesforvirgo. I believe you are right. Just about everything you said. I hope it works out for you.
RC:I don't think it's a virgo thing honestly. And VE is not right about this either. MY virguy checks his myspace every single day at the exact same time. He has it timed perfectly. Morning and Evening...this boys' second home is his myspace, really. He even told me himself, "If there is anything I am punctual and always on is my myspace, Always"
It's like I said: It's a well-known, scientifically documented fact that a VIRGUY dosen't check his my space lol .....I don't and I've had the damned thing for at least a year and a half! lol Call him if you want to NAIL him if you want to pin him down! lol
lol myspace is a joke! lol
It's like I said: It's a well-known, scientifically documented fact that a VIRGUY dosen't check his my space lol .....I don't and I've had the damned thing for at least a year and a half! lol Call him if you want to NAIL him if you want to pin him down! lol
lol myspace is a joke! lol
This is OBVIOULSY a chick-flick board; when you ladies want to get down to buisness, and stop talking about how good a job y'all do at breakin' you're Virguys in, than call for me, but, I won't, and don't hold my breath....lol
Sorry about the long post - will shorten in the future but that was my therapy session I suppose...
UPDATE: Got one VM from Virgo Guy last Friday returned call got his VM have not spoken to him since. I'm on chill and doing some internal soul searching because I "certainly" don't want to be hopeless as a penny with a hole in it -- smile
Hey Virgo Exalted... I want to read a post from you with words of wisdom.
I can only speak for myself but I sure could use some advice.
Do Virgo guys handle emotional turns well or not?
Oh Exalted one - speak to me! HHAHAHAHAHAH!
Peace
UPDATE: Got one VM from Virgo Guy last Friday returned call got his VM have not spoken to him since. I'm on chill and doing some internal soul searching because I "certainly" don't want to be hopeless as a penny with a hole in it -- smile
Hey Virgo Exalted... I want to read a post from you with words of wisdom.
I can only speak for myself but I sure could use some advice.
Do Virgo guys handle emotional turns well or not?
Oh Exalted one - speak to me! HHAHAHAHAHAH!
Peace
Thanks for the encouragement Reiniba-Chan. Much appreciated, only time will tell at this point, the balls in his court. Either way though I'm good. I've definetly decided if he never calls again that I am NOT going to try and
re-kindle anything between us again. I had my second roller coaster ride and it was great while it lasted.
Peace.
re-kindle anything between us again. I had my second roller coaster ride and it was great while it lasted.
Peace.
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