Virgo and aries baby daddy

This topic was created in the Aries and Virgo Compatibility forum by Truvirgo72 on Saturday, September 9, 2006 and has 2 replies.
Hello everyone I'm new to the board and been skimming through the post under aries about aries men. I wasnt able to get much insight hopefully my fellow virgoans can help me out with my situation. I'm a virgo as you must know by now and I'm dating a aries guy. I have been on and off for about 3 1/2 years with him. I have been through the hot and cold stages with my aries. We started off dating while he was still with a female that was pregnant by him. We ended up getting alot closer and moving in together and he broke it off with her due to problems. After moving in together I wasn't sure he had left her alone, so I ended up asking him to leave and move out. Then I moved away for about 6 months. He still had my cellphone # and he called out of the blue and we hooked up and have been friends again ever since. We haven't been as exclusive again as before. I started dating others and had been in other relationships and he has been with his baby mom I guess since then. He came back around wanting to chase again and I kind of showed him I really wasn't that interested anymore. He tried and tried and finally I let him in a little more. He has always been the really sweet and romantic type that takes me out to dinner,around his mom,dad,brothers,friends and daughter.He says he loves me but I can't trust that because I feel he still deals with the scorpio who is the mother of his daughter, but you wouldn't beleive since we been back on with one another I got pregnant with his child. He knows and says he happy but I'm pissed due to his inconsistency through out the years. He shows support but I don't want to fall victim to given in totally to be hurt again like before, so i sabotage it by telling him I've been hanging out with my ex and don't want to be in a relationship with him. Of course I havent heard from him in a month and he shows up one day out of the blue behind me on my way to work on the interstate. I'm lost, I want to be with him and raise our child together but a part of me feels he's not ready because of his dealings with the other baby's mother. In which I don't have any real proof....... someone help!!! sorry so long


Thanks Virgoangoat for your response......What you said about not worrying is easier said then done being a virgo we tend to worry more than anything.I still havent heard from him yet, I feel I have hurt him by telling him I am hanging out with my ex and that I dont want a relationship. I did that because I was trying to guard myself from falling victim again to the past with him. He also knows my ex wants me to get rid of the baby.
of course I'm having the baby and we did discuss that he would be there and I also express to him that I didnt want to bring this child in the world in a unhealthy situation.....I feel what you saying about cutting him out of my life....I just wish it could have been different. I know one thing I will not call him to ask him if he plans to be a father to this child...I shouldnt have to....its not like he doesnt know I'm still pregnant. Aries men just seem to be a bit to childish.
Oh by the way Your screen name must mean your a a virgo sun and cap moon, If so me too.