I'm a cancer male 30, she is virgo/libra cusp 40+, she is the most beautiful woman I ever seen and I've fallen very hard over her this last year(one woman who ever made my heart beat hard). She works above where I work, so we see each other three of more times a week; we flirt every time we see one another, like I see her walking toward me and she has the biggest smile on her face, she'll blush because she smiling so hard, just to give you a picture that in not reading her wrong. So always talking and always flirting; she has no ring on her finger, but two kids, which I would be fine with. After a year of this I asked her out for drinks and told me I have to take care of my sons(quick nervous excuse), so I asked how about next week and she said "Ill have to check my schedule" ,followed by us looking into each others eyes for 5 seconds; I haven't seen her in a week and a half. Today I seen her twice, first she was happy to see me with a big smile, second time I pulled her into a conversation and after asked her about Saturday night. She tells me that she is married, naturally I was like you dont have a ring, I figured you were single, and then she tells me that "she only wears it to parties and things like that". I am 60% sure she is not married and using this for an excuse to not go out. She is Korean and I am white, She is a successful business woman and I make enough to get by. It makes no sense for her to want to even try with me other than our connection. I never had this kind of bond with anyone before. I need some advice on what to do. If she really is married, I want no part, but that is messed up to her husband if its true. If she isnt married, I will wait for however long it takes. Would she let me know? I dont know, give me food for thought please.
