Virgo and Virgo
This topic was created in the Virgo and Virgo Compatibility forum by fatalbutterfly on Sunday, March 12, 2006 and has 4 replies.
I blew it big time, everything was going good.... Two weeks ago we had this hour and a half long conversation even, text back and forth and made plans to go test drive new cars at the end of this month... We're good friends and I had a good time we share alot of common interests, but I'm attracted to him. I dont know what happen I told him how much fun I had with him and enjoyed his company.... POOF!!! turtle mode I haven't heard from him since the 3rd and he never answers my emails textes or calls since. Nothing..... Today a good male friend of mine was in my car and just called him and he answered, it sent me into a mad rage as most male virgos seem to be able to do to females of any sign..... I acted like a hysterical women and refused to talk to him and left him a mean nasty text. Which I know he will find childish and stupid. I know I will not get a reaction out of him none, they are so good at that. I feel stupid thats for sure. So I emailed him we had to stop hanging out for awhile because he obviously doesnt feel the same as I do and it just will keep ruining things and maybe even bring us to the point of hating each other if I dont let the dust settle and learn to accept it...... Do you think if he does feel the same way he'll even respond and if he doesn't how do you think the typical Virgo could respond if he responds at all that is????? He is gone four days out of ten, he works on a train so he wont read my email until he returns.
He just got back from his train late this evening. I didn't expect him to respond tonight since he probably got in around midnight.
But still I wait...... and wait..... and wait..... and hope tomorrow there will be one. I feel so pathetic.... ;-(
But still I wait...... and wait..... and wait..... and hope tomorrow there will be one. I feel so pathetic.... ;-(
Oh how i feel your pain butterfly, i go loopdeloo with my Virgo too many times to count n yes, youre right, dont look for a response because that would be too much like right. hes probably read it and moved on convincing himself that youll soon contact him again so it reallie doesnt matter. if you dont, he will...if he has feelings that is, i no u can tell whether he does or not so just give it time then u will see.Ju Virgo males seem to get nervous about attachment to some people (im a Sagg) so maybe its a sagg thing but i duno. still he drives me crazy..crazy in love
Hey Hopelessdreamr !!!
Thanks for your sympathy.... I've read your entries too so I know what your going through with your Virgo. You remind me of me with my first Virgo relationship. This one I'm having to cope with is very similiar and I can't believe I'm here for the second time in my life.
To make a long story short...
My first relationship... we knew each other all our lives went to elementry, Jr. High, High School together lived on the same street even. We didn't fall in love until my last year of High School and we moved in with each other right after my 18th birthday.
We even talked about marriage and kids, but my male virgo then had a drug problem, I thought I could fix him, I tried to be there and deal with it, because I loved him. We broke up and I moved back home and the same traditional virgo behaviour started on and off disappearing reappearing I thought it was the drug problem (until I found this site). Well he hit rock bottom and again I was there let him move into my parents house gave him money. Crazy, when I think about it " I should have watched more Oprah" I just didnt see the distructiveness of it all. One day he woke me gave me a kiss and said "well I'm going to go" I was thinking "looking for a job, maybe the store". No he left and never returned I never heard from him again until about 12 years later, thanks to the internet. We discussed everything, when I asked him why he left he said "he knew he couldnt be there for me and it didn't matter how much he cared he knew he would never be able to be there like I needed him to be". He also added " that the one thing that bugged him about me was that I would obsess about things I just couldn't control, he never understood that.... I think I still don't understand that.... anyways many moons afterwards freshly divorced after 15 years I run straight into the same combo virgo/rooster combo and its awful. We just start turning that pilot light on and he comes and blows it right out. Its been like this for 6mo or so. Truthfully it just plain sucks. It always sucks when one is in love, and the other one is just not.....Its time to just let it go and move on.... thats where I am right now I still hope he responds in someway but if thats a good thing, probably not and only prolongs my dispare.
People say he does like me he must he hasn't spent that much time with another women in a long time. I wish I could feel the way they do but his actions are showing me different. People say he will regret it, I dont want him to regret it I want him to be happy and find whoever he is looking for and to be happy.....because he was a good friend and I care about him still.
Thanks for your sympathy.... I've read your entries too so I know what your going through with your Virgo. You remind me of me with my first Virgo relationship. This one I'm having to cope with is very similiar and I can't believe I'm here for the second time in my life.
To make a long story short...
My first relationship... we knew each other all our lives went to elementry, Jr. High, High School together lived on the same street even. We didn't fall in love until my last year of High School and we moved in with each other right after my 18th birthday.
We even talked about marriage and kids, but my male virgo then had a drug problem, I thought I could fix him, I tried to be there and deal with it, because I loved him. We broke up and I moved back home and the same traditional virgo behaviour started on and off disappearing reappearing I thought it was the drug problem (until I found this site). Well he hit rock bottom and again I was there let him move into my parents house gave him money. Crazy, when I think about it " I should have watched more Oprah" I just didnt see the distructiveness of it all. One day he woke me gave me a kiss and said "well I'm going to go" I was thinking "looking for a job, maybe the store". No he left and never returned I never heard from him again until about 12 years later, thanks to the internet. We discussed everything, when I asked him why he left he said "he knew he couldnt be there for me and it didn't matter how much he cared he knew he would never be able to be there like I needed him to be". He also added " that the one thing that bugged him about me was that I would obsess about things I just couldn't control, he never understood that.... I think I still don't understand that.... anyways many moons afterwards freshly divorced after 15 years I run straight into the same combo virgo/rooster combo and its awful. We just start turning that pilot light on and he comes and blows it right out. Its been like this for 6mo or so. Truthfully it just plain sucks. It always sucks when one is in love, and the other one is just not.....Its time to just let it go and move on.... thats where I am right now I still hope he responds in someway but if thats a good thing, probably not and only prolongs my dispare.
People say he does like me he must he hasn't spent that much time with another women in a long time. I wish I could feel the way they do but his actions are showing me different. People say he will regret it, I dont want him to regret it I want him to be happy and find whoever he is looking for and to be happy.....because he was a good friend and I care about him still.
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