Virgo being a show off.

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by scorpio24 on Monday, April 22, 2013 and has 8 replies.
My virgo and i have been heaps better, i dont over analyze things as much and I know when to back off and give him space and freed. However, My virgo boyfriend has been acting a little different lately. I have been silently observing his behaviour lately over the last few months and have realised that his main priority is for people to like him. He goes really out of his way to do things for mates or when he meets a new guy it's like he really wants to make an amazing impression on everyone so that everyone likes him. That's all fine and dandy but it's gotten to the point where new people or people he doesn't know that well are his main priority and have noticed that he puts very little effort into myself Aswell as mates he has had for years. When I first was with him he would work his magic and draw me right in with his ways but its like when he draws me or other people in then that's it, we are there and it's like he doesn't feel the need to be consistent. It's becoming annoying because alot of the people he is going out of his way for WON'T go out of their way for him and I know that for a fact. And when he does do something for me he does it in an annoyed "like he has to do it" way. I miss the virgo I first fell in love with. Why can't virgos stay consistent? Or is this a immature virgo? Do they mature and when? And when they do what happens? And how do they find someone perfect enough for them!? He has gemini riding I think, does this play a role in his "show off" behaviour?
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I personally don't care what anyone thinks of me. You can love me or hate me. Makes absolutely no difference to me. However, if you piss me off, I will remember it.
My wife is a Scorpio, and we have had similar conversations. But, just because I want to hang out with a new friend doesn't mean that I am going to go out of my way for the person.
Did you two spend lots of time together before? He could be stuck in a rut, and needs a change of scenery. (I don't mean a new woman) Have you tried suggesting doing something that the two of you have never done before? If he is stuck in a rut, then doing something completely different like a weekend getaway or even a day trip should snap him out of it.
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the more i think about it the more i realize that maybe we just arent meant to be together. because yes, i have tried to do something different. i bought him a a ticket to one of our favourite american bands and flew interstate for 3 nights just us two. he seamed like he didnt really want to be there and was in a bit of a crap mood the whole time. but if one of his mates asked him to do this he would have jumped straight into it. i dont think it has anything to do with me, i am all about FUN times and am extrememly open minded to everything so its not like he was acting like that cause im "boring". he's just so obsessed with mates. its like he only really wants to hang around me when everyone else is busy. not just me, but even with his mates hes had for years, i feel like he will pick the more new people instead of me or older mates. When i give him space and let him do his own thing for days on end, he always comes back and wants to see me, but thats not right either. i feel like everything is always his way, and im okay with that but lately his lack of appreciation towards me is making me frustrated and upset secretly. yesterday i started crying and told him that it hurts how much he will never put me first and always put people he hardly knows before me and i could tell he felt bad cause he started being really affectionate for a few minutes. (he would never say sorry though) but i know he will just go back to how he has been. also, not sure if anyone is into numerology, but he is currently in his number 1 personal year and im in number 3 personal year.
number 1 is all about new beginings and control
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also, this is a bit irrelivent but i saw a clairvoyant not long ago. she was incredible, absolutely everything she said was SPOT ON. nothing was wrong. she said that she thinks me and virgo can work but i have to be "light and breezy" and a bit more "aloof" with him and just RELAX. - everytime i have done this he comes running to me. but then goes back to normal, (push pull thing i guess?) she said hes the type of person who thinks that i will stay there and come back to him forever, but one day i wont, and this will shock him and he will realize that he didnt appreciate me and then regret it. she said if i act aloof, then i will catch him and when i do "will i really want him" is exactly what she said. clairvoyants are so interesting to me! haha
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Posted by scorpio24
He has gemini riding I think,


And what exactly is the Gemini riding? Tongue




























































I believe you meant Gemini rising, lol. Don't mind me...I'm just being a Virgo. Big Grin
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Yep that was a typo smile
* gemini RISING
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Posted by scorpio24
Yep that was a typo smile
* gemini RISING


Lol, I knew what you meant. Big Grin
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Posted by BalmyTigress
Posted by RealTalk
Posted by scorpio24
He has gemini riding I think,


And what exactly is the Gemini riding? Tongue




Haha :-) Oh goodness... Can't stop laughing. I don't know why I thought that was hilarious...
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