AllTimeLoser
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Virgo boyfriend is suddenly distant? So soon?
What is it with every thread...it's "we instantly clicked",..."immediate connection"..."soul mates".....??
...then...crickets....
...then...crickets....
Posted by SensitiveBluesYa, I know..they try that shit with me. Doesn't work.Posted by GreenteaVirgo men are very charming! They can make you feel a fantasy! Oscar worthy acting
What is it with every thread...it's "we instantly clicked",..."immediate connection"..."soul mates".....??
...then...crickets....click to expand
I can tell when they're full of shit, even when they whine or pretend to be hurt about stupid shit.
Posted by SensitiveBluesLOL! Seems to be working out for me.Posted by GreenteaThat's cause you're drywallPosted by SensitiveBluesYa, I know..they try that shit with me. Doesn't work.Posted by GreenteaVirgo men are very charming! They can make you feel a fantasy! Oscar worthy acting
What is it with every thread...it's "we instantly clicked",..."immediate connection"..."soul mates".....??
...then...crickets....
I can tell when they're full of shit, even when they whine or pretend to be hurt about stupid shit.click to expand
I can just tell when they're full of it.
When i was 21, i was almost in the same situation as your crush here.
My gf was 17 too and we talked every minute of the day until she fell asleep. But I was starting to feel too much addicted to her, so I started working on other things and give the chats a break. My gf also felt that I am being distant.
But honestly, I just wanted to be with her all the time.
If you want, you can test him by ignoring his texts for a day, and you'll see how crazy he'll go just to talk to you.
I did not appreciated what I had until I lost it.
Hope things will work out just fine with you two.
Good luck.
My gf was 17 too and we talked every minute of the day until she fell asleep. But I was starting to feel too much addicted to her, so I started working on other things and give the chats a break. My gf also felt that I am being distant.
But honestly, I just wanted to be with her all the time.
If you want, you can test him by ignoring his texts for a day, and you'll see how crazy he'll go just to talk to you.
I did not appreciated what I had until I lost it.
Hope things will work out just fine with you two.
Good luck.
We analyze everything, and if you get too clingy or crazy we are out. Some of us get a bad rap for being bullshyters which i somewhat agree with, but the only time I bullshyt a female is when shes not my type after i figure out something I dont like about her, and I let her down easy. If I notice a wants to get clingy too fast, or shows signs of being crazy, or has character issues, im out.If you contact him and be very direct about how you feel, he will give you a direct answer. Let him know you can take it and wont get emotional or crazy about his answer and he'll tell you how he feels about you. Maybe he doesnt want to be in a relationship and just wants FWB, at 21, I couldnt see myslef getting too serious. Hes 21 and having fun, he prob doesnt want to get too serious right now and prob understands you want close attachment and a full commitment and hes not going to be able to give that to you. If you dont mind being his FWB until hes ready to settle, I would say dont get too serious or emotional about the situation hes prob looking for a girl to have fun with ............ but thats all.
Posted by virgotruthAmazingly described.
We analyze everything, and if you get too clingy or crazy we are out. Some of us get a bad rap for being bullshyters which i somewhat agree with, but the only time I bullshyt a female is when shes not my type after i figure out something I dont like about her, and I let her down easy. If I notice a wants to get clingy too fast, or shows signs of being crazy, or has character issues, im out.If you contact him and be very direct about how you feel, he will give you a direct answer. Let him know you can take it and wont get emotional or crazy about his answer and he'll tell you how he feels about you. Maybe he doesnt want to be in a relationship and just wants FWB, at 21, I couldnt see myslef getting too serious. Hes 21 and having fun, he prob doesnt want to get too serious right now and prob understands you want close attachment and a full commitment and hes not going to be able to give that to you. If you dont mind being his FWB until hes ready to settle, I would say dont get too serious or emotional about the situation hes prob looking for a girl to have fun with ............ but thats all.
I may get slammed for saying this.. but you are 17, he's an adult. does no one see anything wrong with this? Yes i get he is only 21, 5 years older but perhaps that is something that he has issue with?
Maybe, just maybe, 17 is just playng with too much fire in his eyes.
You chased him:
I made the first move and kissed him because, despite having many chances, I knew that as a Virgo, he wouldn't make the first move. But, he didn't hesitate to kiss me after that.
Then this:
We started dating that night. It's only been a few days, but suddenly he's a bit distant. He only responds to my messages once every hour or two and he's only responding with short replies, no matter how hard I try to keep a conversation going, he lets if die. I know that Virgos become distant when falling in love, but I know he doesn't know me well enough to start falling for me. I also know they become distant when they're not sure if they can trust someone, but I've given him no reason to doubt me.
Are you serious? he doesn't repond after an hour or two? Does he not have a job? Not in school? Are you not working or in school to be so worried about what he is doing?
so you lay one on him and then he hides from you? Actions speak louder than words. when do you turn 18? lol
Maybe, just maybe, 17 is just playng with too much fire in his eyes.
You chased him:
I made the first move and kissed him because, despite having many chances, I knew that as a Virgo, he wouldn't make the first move. But, he didn't hesitate to kiss me after that.
Then this:
We started dating that night. It's only been a few days, but suddenly he's a bit distant. He only responds to my messages once every hour or two and he's only responding with short replies, no matter how hard I try to keep a conversation going, he lets if die. I know that Virgos become distant when falling in love, but I know he doesn't know me well enough to start falling for me. I also know they become distant when they're not sure if they can trust someone, but I've given him no reason to doubt me.
Are you serious? he doesn't repond after an hour or two? Does he not have a job? Not in school? Are you not working or in school to be so worried about what he is doing?
so you lay one on him and then he hides from you? Actions speak louder than words. when do you turn 18? lol
Posted by WestsidekodakSaying its bad advice without providing good advice ............. great job at being helpful.Posted by virgotruthBad advice.
We analyze everything, and if you get too clingy or crazy we are out. Some of us get a bad rap for being bullshyters which i somewhat agree with, but the only time I bullshyt a female is when shes not my type after i figure out something I dont like about her, and I let her down easy. If I notice a wants to get clingy too fast, or shows signs of being crazy, or has character issues, im out.If you contact him and be very direct about how you feel, he will give you a direct answer. Let him know you can take it and wont get emotional or crazy about his answer and he'll tell you how he feels about you. Maybe he doesnt want to be in a relationship and just wants FWB, at 21, I couldnt see myslef getting too serious. Hes 21 and having fun, he prob doesnt want to get too serious right now and prob understands you want close attachment and a full commitment and hes not going to be able to give that to you. If you dont mind being his FWB until hes ready to settle, I would say dont get too serious or emotional about the situation hes prob looking for a girl to have fun with ............ but thats all.click to expand
Maybe its another aspect in his natal chart. I know for a fact that I'm a Virgo sun, but I have Venus square Uranus, so I could click with someone instantly and have a great rapport with them, then the next day or over a period of time stop talking to them because I don't feel enough of a connection to keep going or because I'm just tired of talking to them.
And at the same time, I can grow distant if I sense something from the other person or if I feel like I might fail that person's expectations.
And at the same time, I can grow distant if I sense something from the other person or if I feel like I might fail that person's expectations.
Posted by SensitiveBluesHe's a nerdy gamer guy. He's not into partying. I'm pretty sure I've been to more parties than he has. And no, I'm not in private school. I actually dropped out of public school. ‚
Thank you for writing so well! You must be going to a private school!
Being a 21 yr old is massively different than being a 17 yr old.
He can't even party with you.
Posted by SensitiveBluesOuch. ‚Posted by GreenteaVirgo men are very charming! They can make you feel a fantasy! Oscar worthy acting
What is it with every thread...it's "we instantly clicked",..."immediate connection"..."soul mates".....??
...then...crickets....click to expand
Posted by hamzarana75I feel like it's different then that, but who knows? Thanks, man. c:
When i was 21, i was almost in the same situation as your crush here.
My gf was 17 too and we talked every minute of the day until she fell asleep. But I was starting to feel too much addicted to her, so I started working on other things and give the chats a break. My gf also felt that I am being distant.
But honestly, I just wanted to be with her all the time.
If you want, you can test him by ignoring his texts for a day, and you'll see how crazy he'll go just to talk to you.
I did not appreciated what I had until I lost it.
Hope things will work out just fine with you two.
Good luck.
Posted by virgotruthI understand what you're saying, but he's actually the one who talked me into the relationship because I wasn't trying to get involved with anyone like that. He's also pretty set on waiting before having sex. Like, I can see why that wouldn't be believable, but trust me when I say this because I'm a pretty big skeptic and I'm not quick to trust people, but he's a true gentleman. He doesn't want that kind of intimacy right now.
We analyze everything, and if you get too clingy or crazy we are out. Some of us get a bad rap for being bullshyters which i somewhat agree with, but the only time I bullshyt a female is when shes not my type after i figure out something I dont like about her, and I let her down easy. If I notice a wants to get clingy too fast, or shows signs of being crazy, or has character issues, im out.If you contact him and be very direct about how you feel, he will give you a direct answer. Let him know you can take it and wont get emotional or crazy about his answer and he'll tell you how he feels about you. Maybe he doesnt want to be in a relationship and just wants FWB, at 21, I couldnt see myslef getting too serious. Hes 21 and having fun, he prob doesnt want to get too serious right now and prob understands you want close attachment and a full commitment and hes not going to be able to give that to you. If you dont mind being his FWB until hes ready to settle, I would say dont get too serious or emotional about the situation hes prob looking for a girl to have fun with ............ but thats all.
Posted by CrosstownTrafficCompared to how he normally acts, it just kinda is. Maybe that wasn't the best word choice, but for lack of a better word at the moment, he went from hot to cold out of nowhere within two days.
'We started dating that night. It's only been a few days, but suddenly he's a bit distant. He only responds to my messages once every hour or two and he's only responding with short replies, no matter how hard I try to keep a conversation going, he lets if die.'
I did not know that was being distant......How is that?
Posted by justagirlI'll be 18 in a few months. If he had a problem with it, he would have told me. We've talked about it.
I may get slammed for saying this.. but you are 17, he's an adult. does no one see anything wrong with this? Yes i get he is only 21, 5 years older but perhaps that is something that he has issue with?
Maybe, just maybe, 17 is just playng with too much fire in his eyes.
You chased him:
I made the first move and kissed him because, despite having many chances, I knew that as a Virgo, he wouldn't make the first move. But, he didn't hesitate to kiss me after that.
Then this:
We started dating that night. It's only been a few days, but suddenly he's a bit distant. He only responds to my messages once every hour or two and he's only responding with short replies, no matter how hard I try to keep a conversation going, he lets if die. I know that Virgos become distant when falling in love, but I know he doesn't know me well enough to start falling for me. I also know they become distant when they're not sure if they can trust someone, but I've given him no reason to doubt me.
Are you serious? he doesn't repond after an hour or two? Does he not have a job? Not in school? Are you not working or in school to be so worried about what he is doing?
so you lay one on him and then he hides from you? Actions speak louder than words. when do you turn 18? lol
Posted by dewiklaessen1991It's not a matter of being clingy, I really don't mind giving him space. My feelings aren't hurt, I'm not trying to hurry him to reply, it's really fine. It was just a very sudden change and I'm just wondering what's on his mind. I'm a Taurus.
Once every hour? Maybe you wanna talk too much that's already alot you don't have to talk to eachother every minute of the day to like eachother he's not distant don't get clingy already what's your sign
Posted by LilianniUnderstandable. I don't feel like I'm close enough to him to ask his place of birth and exact time of birth without giving off the impression that I'm obsessive. ‚
Maybe its another aspect in his natal chart. I know for a fact that I'm a Virgo sun, but I have Venus square Uranus, so I could click with someone instantly and have a great rapport with them, then the next day or over a period of time stop talking to them because I don't feel enough of a connection to keep going or because I'm just tired of talking to them.
And at the same time, I can grow distant if I sense something from the other person or if I feel like I might fail that person's expectations.
Posted by AllTimeLoserYou can ask for his birthday, then when you say yours, say your date of birth and where you were born. He might say where he was born too. And for the time, just guess. That's how I got someone's info..Posted by LilianniUnderstandable. I don't feel like I'm close enough to him to ask his place of birth and exact time of birth without giving off the impression that I'm obsessive. ‚
Maybe its another aspect in his natal chart. I know for a fact that I'm a Virgo sun, but I have Venus square Uranus, so I could click with someone instantly and have a great rapport with them, then the next day or over a period of time stop talking to them because I don't feel enough of a connection to keep going or because I'm just tired of talking to them.
And at the same time, I can grow distant if I sense something from the other person or if I feel like I might fail that person's expectations.click to expand
Posted by leow31I'm actually very independent and I do give him space; I'm not rushing him to reply and begging him to give me attention or anything. I'm not worried about the lack of replies, I just want to know what could be on his mind. And I may be a bit younger, but I'm not that far back from him. Neither of us are in school, we both live with our parents, he has a job and I'm currently trying to get one, neither of us party, and we both go to McDonald's every Saturday night to hang out with our nerdy friends.
Virgo men ... shut down when they have too much going on, don't take it personally - give him his space and learn to be independent ...they don't like clingy girls and you will learn the hard way. Also 17 and 21 ..it's not that its a big age gap it's just that you're not in the same "place" in your lifeline. 4 weeks isn't long enough for you to start worrying if you guys are indeed "dating" ...give him his space, get busy as well. Good luck.
A lot of you are assuming I'm clingy, but I'm really not. I'm not concerned about the lack of replies at all, we both have lives to live, I'm just wondering what's on his mind because it was a really sudden change.
And yeah, I'm four years younger than him, but we're really not as different as you would think. Believe me.
And yeah, I'm four years younger than him, but we're really not as different as you would think. Believe me.
Posted by exxtasyxI'm not being clingy or suffocating him. I reply once and patiently await his response.
I don't understand when people pull away and then the other person tries to suffocate them with even more attention. Let him pull away, you back off too when you notice this, and eventually he'll come to you. Calm down, you don't have to be so clingy.
Posted by exxtasyxThing is, our conversations don't really end. But, he usually is the one to initiate them on the rare occasion that we actually say goodnight before bed or goodbye before work. He's often the one to strike up the conversation with me. I've only done it maybe twice.Posted by AllTimeLoserDon't initiate anymore conversations with him, let him initiate them with you from now on. See if he tries to.Posted by exxtasyxI'm not being clingy or suffocating him. I reply once and patiently await his response.
I don't understand when people pull away and then the other person tries to suffocate them with even more attention. Let him pull away, you back off too when you notice this, and eventually he'll come to you. Calm down, you don't have to be so clingy.click to expand
Posted by virgotruthPosted by WestsidekodakSaying its bad advice without providing good advice ............. great job at being helpful.Posted by virgotruthBad advice.
We analyze everything, and if you get too clingy or crazy we are out. Some of us get a bad rap for being bullshyters which i somewhat agree with, but the only time I bullshyt a female is when shes not my type after i figure out something I dont like about her, and I let her down easy. If I notice a wants to get clingy too fast, or shows signs of being crazy, or has character issues, im out.If you contact him and be very direct about how you feel, he will give you a direct answer. Let him know you can take it and wont get emotional or crazy about his answer and he'll tell you how he feels about you. Maybe he doesnt want to be in a relationship and just wants FWB, at 21, I couldnt see myslef getting too serious. Hes 21 and having fun, he prob doesnt want to get too serious right now and prob understands you want close attachment and a full commitment and hes not going to be able to give that to you. If you dont mind being his FWB until hes ready to settle, I would say dont get too serious or emotional about the situation hes prob looking for a girl to have fun with ............ but thats all.click to expand
I haven't read further yet, so maybe the Cancer answered you. I will answer for him, since I agree with him.
Your counsel above is telling her play games with him. To ignore someone just to get their goat, for any reason, especially a romantic one .. is fucked up.
So stop doing it, and stop telling other people that to manipulate a response out of another person is using sound judgment.
All of your backpedaling accounts for shit ... since those are answers that you thought about, calculated and deliberate responses.
The OP tells the accurate story ... the one where you didn't know what obstacles would be in the way, so you spoke freely ... and it tells the story of a girl, so insecure in having her emotions constantly supported that she cannot even manage one hour of being expected to have control over herself.
A Virgo cringes at other people who attempt to hold them responsible for their own feelings.
Most likely, he's just hanging around thinking that a young twat like that is probably tight ... and so just biding his time for several months (as certainly, you've dangled this promise in front of his face by mentioning your conditions for sex AND your birthdate).
A couple months of having to juice up the woman's head to get to the pudding is something a man does on the regular. Every time they want to get laid by a new person who isn't a whore, actually.
There's no way this guy is into you - emotionally. A Virgo would rather cut off his left arm than have a girl hanging on him, and his every move/word.
Posted by P-AngelNo what im telling her is that she is 17, he is a 21 year old college aged student who is having fun and probably not taking the situation as serious. What im telling her is she should either walk away or be his sex buddy, which nothing is wrong with either depending on your view on life. She is too you to try to pursue something serious with this older guy, long term it prob wont work just being honest. She should wait a few years to pursue someone that much older than her, her mind and emotions arent fully developed. ................. thats all. Anything negative you took from that, is something you and cancer created in your own minds.Posted by virgotruthPosted by WestsidekodakSaying its bad advice without providing good advice ............. great job at being helpful.Posted by virgotruthBad advice.
We analyze everything, and if you get too clingy or crazy we are out. Some of us get a bad rap for being bullshyters which i somewhat agree with, but the only time I bullshyt a female is when shes not my type after i figure out something I dont like about her, and I let her down easy. If I notice a wants to get clingy too fast, or shows signs of being crazy, or has character issues, im out.If you contact him and be very direct about how you feel, he will give you a direct answer. Let him know you can take it and wont get emotional or crazy about his answer and he'll tell you how he feels about you. Maybe he doesnt want to be in a relationship and just wants FWB, at 21, I couldnt see myslef getting too serious. Hes 21 and having fun, he prob doesnt want to get too serious right now and prob understands you want close attachment and a full commitment and hes not going to be able to give that to you. If you dont mind being his FWB until hes ready to settle, I would say dont get too serious or emotional about the situation hes prob looking for a girl to have fun with ............ but thats all.
I haven't read further yet, so maybe the Cancer answered you. I will answer for him, since I agree with him.
Your counsel above is telling her play games with him. To ignore someone just to get their goat, for any reason, especially a romantic one .. is fucked up.
So stop doing it, and stop telling other people that to manipulate a response out of another person is using sound judgment.click to expand
Posted by WestsidekodakIf matters that much to speak on avoiding it, instead of just avoiding, you should speak on better advice ...............Posted by virgotruthI did. Avoid your crappy advice. That's the most helpful thing I see.Posted by WestsidekodakSaying its bad advice without providing good advice ............. great job at being helpful.Posted by virgotruthBad advice.
We analyze everything, and if you get too clingy or crazy we are out. Some of us get a bad rap for being bullshyters which i somewhat agree with, but the only time I bullshyt a female is when shes not my type after i figure out something I dont like about her, and I let her down easy. If I notice a wants to get clingy too fast, or shows signs of being crazy, or has character issues, im out.If you contact him and be very direct about how you feel, he will give you a direct answer. Let him know you can take it and wont get emotional or crazy about his answer and he'll tell you how he feels about you. Maybe he doesnt want to be in a relationship and just wants FWB, at 21, I couldnt see myslef getting too serious. Hes 21 and having fun, he prob doesnt want to get too serious right now and prob understands you want close attachment and a full commitment and hes not going to be able to give that to you. If you dont mind being his FWB until hes ready to settle, I would say dont get too serious or emotional about the situation hes prob looking for a girl to have fun with ............ but thats all.click to expand
Posted by virgotruthActually ......Posted by P-AngelNo what im telling her is that she is 17, he is a 21 year old college aged student who is having fun and probably not taking the situation as serious. What im telling her is she should either walk away or be his sex buddy, which nothing is wrong with either depending on your view on life. She is too you to try to pursue something serious with this older guy, long term it prob wont work just being honest. She should wait a few years to pursue someone that much older than her, her mind and emotions arent fully developed. ................. thats all. Anything negative you took from that, is something you and cancer created in your own minds.Posted by virgotruthPosted by WestsidekodakSaying its bad advice without providing good advice ............. great job at being helpful.Posted by virgotruthBad advice.
We analyze everything, and if you get too clingy or crazy we are out. Some of us get a bad rap for being bullshyters which i somewhat agree with, but the only time I bullshyt a female is when shes not my type after i figure out something I dont like about her, and I let her down easy. If I notice a wants to get clingy too fast, or shows signs of being crazy, or has character issues, im out.If you contact him and be very direct about how you feel, he will give you a direct answer. Let him know you can take it and wont get emotional or crazy about his answer and he'll tell you how he feels about you. Maybe he doesnt want to be in a relationship and just wants FWB, at 21, I couldnt see myslef getting too serious. Hes 21 and having fun, he prob doesnt want to get too serious right now and prob understands you want close attachment and a full commitment and hes not going to be able to give that to you. If you dont mind being his FWB until hes ready to settle, I would say dont get too serious or emotional about the situation hes prob looking for a girl to have fun with ............ but thats all.
I haven't read further yet, so maybe the Cancer answered you. I will answer for him, since I agree with him.
Your counsel above is telling her play games with him. To ignore someone just to get their goat, for any reason, especially a romantic one .. is fucked up.
So stop doing it, and stop telling other people that to manipulate a response out of another person is using sound judgment.click to expand
.... this is the quote I thought you said,
" If you want, you can test him by ignoring his texts for a day, and you'll see how crazy he'll go just to talk to you."
... which prompted me to comment. As I go back and re-read (since your comment back to me didn't make sense), I realized that you didn't say the above.
My bad, sorry dude .....
@OP- Here is an example where age plays a part. It's important to know how old someone is & how they act. No way. So why are you lowering your standard expectations for some dude. That's not old enough either.
This situation you need for yourself is going to school and concentrate on studying the behavior of different people's characteristics so you know. What's good or not in the meantime.
Is this what 17 years old do? is get on FB or what's app.. What happened to getting a job, college, and your own place by 22.
You are going to crush alot. So learn to control emotions.
This situation you need for yourself is going to school and concentrate on studying the behavior of different people's characteristics so you know. What's good or not in the meantime.
Is this what 17 years old do? is get on FB or what's app.. What happened to getting a job, college, and your own place by 22.
You are going to crush alot. So learn to control emotions.
Posted by AllTimeLoserGreat. Well you should take it slow and get to know him alot better. You should wait until you are 18 or 19 to start getting more serious. Just because he doesnt answer you back immediately doesnt mean hes not thinking about you. Hes older, so work or school may be taking up his time.Posted by virgotruthI understand what you're saying, but he's actually the one who talked me into the relationship because I wasn't trying to get involved with anyone like that. He's also pretty set on waiting before having sex. Like, I can see why that wouldn't be believable, but trust me when I say this because I'm a pretty big skeptic and I'm not quick to trust people, but he's a true gentleman. He doesn't want that kind of intimacy right now.
We analyze everything, and if you get too clingy or crazy we are out. Some of us get a bad rap for being bullshyters which i somewhat agree with, but the only time I bullshyt a female is when shes not my type after i figure out something I dont like about her, and I let her down easy. If I notice a wants to get clingy too fast, or shows signs of being crazy, or has character issues, im out.If you contact him and be very direct about how you feel, he will give you a direct answer. Let him know you can take it and wont get emotional or crazy about his answer and he'll tell you how he feels about you. Maybe he doesnt want to be in a relationship and just wants FWB, at 21, I couldnt see myslef getting too serious. Hes 21 and having fun, he prob doesnt want to get too serious right now and prob understands you want close attachment and a full commitment and hes not going to be able to give that to you. If you dont mind being his FWB until hes ready to settle, I would say dont get too serious or emotional about the situation hes prob looking for a girl to have fun with ............ but thats all.click to expand
Posted by SensitiveBluesDude, I'm 17. My life hasn't even started yet and his is barely starting. We also live in a really small town. There's not much to do here.Posted by AllTimeLoserWhat a life. Damn. So this is what you hope to achieve in life. Mcdonalds on a Saturday night.Posted by leow31I'm actually very independent and I do give him space; I'm not rushing him to reply and begging him to give me attention or anything. I'm not worried about the lack of replies, I just want to know what could be on his mind. And I may be a bit younger, but I'm not that far back from him. Neither of us are in school, we both live with our parents, he has a job and I'm currently trying to get one, neither of us party, and we both go to McDonald's every Saturday night to hang out with our nerdy friends.
Virgo men ... shut down when they have too much going on, don't take it personally - give him his space and learn to be independent ...they don't like clingy girls and you will learn the hard way. Also 17 and 21 ..it's not that its a big age gap it's just that you're not in the same "place" in your lifeline. 4 weeks isn't long enough for you to start worrying if you guys are indeed "dating" ...give him his space, get busy as well. Good luck.click to expand
Get your education, that's very important. I get you really like this Virgo but I thought I saw you mention you dropped out...you have.other more important things to focus on.
Posted by SensitiveBluesI have no interest in furthering my education as I already have the knowledge necessary to do what I want to do with my life. Everybody keeps bringing up my age and that I should focus on my education, but you don't know me or my plans for myself. You guys are way off topic.Posted by Westsidekodakat 17 i was taking SAT's ...working at Safeway as a bagger...running Track to get lettered...and working on my college applications...Posted by SensitiveBluesShe's 17 on a saturday, it's better than no friends sitting alone in your house. Or freebasing cocaine off a toilet seat.Posted by AllTimeLoserWhat a life. Damn. So this is what you hope to achieve in life. Mcdonalds on a Saturday night.Posted by leow31I'm actually very independent and I do give him space; I'm not rushing him to reply and begging him to give me attention or anything. I'm not worried about the lack of replies, I just want to know what could be on his mind. And I may be a bit younger, but I'm not that far back from him. Neither of us are in school, we both live with our parents, he has a job and I'm currently trying to get one, neither of us party, and we both go to McDonald's every Saturday night to hang out with our nerdy friends.
Virgo men ... shut down when they have too much going on, don't take it personally - give him his space and learn to be independent ...they don't like clingy girls and you will learn the hard way. Also 17 and 21 ..it's not that its a big age gap it's just that you're not in the same "place" in your lifeline. 4 weeks isn't long enough for you to start worrying if you guys are indeed "dating" ...give him his space, get busy as well. Good luck.
it's not like my immigrant parents were going to help me with my applications.click to expand
Posted by GreenteaThis post has nothing to do with my education. Yeah, I dropped out, but I'm well educated enough to pursue the goals I've set for my future. I have no interest in furthering my education in a school that's actually more of a danger to my mental health than a benefit to my knowledge.
Get your education, that's very important. I get you really like this Virgo but I thought I saw you mention you dropped out...you have.other more important things to focus on.
Posted by DonnaElvira77Posted by AllTimeLoserThis post had nothing to do with my education and my future goals. All of you that are talking about my education are way off topic.I already have the knowledge necessary to do what I want to do with my life.Then wud you asking us about anything for?click to expand
Posted by DonnaElvira77He actually came over today since it's his day off. We had a great time. We're fine. I didn't make this post because I was worried about how things are between us, I made it because I'm curious about Virgos and how they think. He went from hot to cold all of a sudden, as Virgos sometimes do, I was just curious about what he might be thinking about.
Well I hope your mental health is doing better. I don't know why you chose the name by the way...but it's not true ok promise :-)
He doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. That's why he is being distant. Now he realizes you are not ready. He should not have played with your feelings that was a really shitty thing to do with someone who might be vulnerable. And you don't want to be with a guy like that.
You are right you do have your whole life ahead of you. Don't hang around with boys who upset you. I wish i had learned that at your age. There will be plenty of fab boyfriends in the future.
If he is not giving you attention ..he is not worth it. And to be honest if he was...i would worry.
I am sure you have a bright future ahead of you. :-) In life and relationships. :-)
Don't worry about him whatever happens.
Posted by DonnaElvira77Some replies have helped. A lot of people just want to comment on my education, our age difference, and assume and accuse that I'm being to clingy. I haven't spoken to him in three hours and I'm fine. It was just a question of curiosity.
especially since you feel the replies on here are clueless ...which they can be ..so ...sorry about that :-/
Thank you though. c:
Posted by AllTimeLoser
Yeah, I dropped out
Posted by AllTimeLoser
I have no interest in furthering my education
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You're a loser.
Your name suits you ...
Posted by P-AngelIt is my name for a reason, darling.Posted by AllTimeLoser
Yeah, I dropped out
Posted by AllTimeLoser
I have no interest in furthering my education
You're a loser.
Your name suits you ...click to expand
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