virgo came back

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by scorpio24 on Wednesday, May 22, 2013 and has 17 replies.
so after i broke up with him, he initated contact with me every single day for a week. I FINALLY responded after exactly a week, he begged for me to come meet up with him, so i did, he balled his eyes out and we had a big deep and meaningful conversation & he wanted me back and promised it will be different & even said when he buys a house soon he wants me to move in. :/ anyway, after 2 days, the un-spoken tension/coldness slowly comes back, can feel it even when im not with him physically.
*sigh*. very confusing zodiac sign indeed.
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Ummmm forgive if I'm wrong but he is still talking about "himself"
When I buy a house, I want you to move in...
If he was dead serious...wouldn't it be...Do you want to marry me and we have a future together and buy a house?
If not...you'll make another thread soon!
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Lol @ you & your "deep and meaningful conversations"...you like to say that a lot. Truth is, its just talk (where's the action?) & some guys like to blow their gums just to get things their way. They say things that they know you want to hear & then go back to their same old selves the minute they get you hooked again. When a person knows you, they know which buttons to push to get the desired effect. I'm not gonna tell you what to do, but thats one of the relationship lessons you'll learn on your own. Is this your 1st relationship?
Young relationships are the trickiest...makes me remember all those guys I thought/hoped were the one, but werent. So much time wasted, but not in vain..learned a thing or two about myself & my likes/dislikes when it comes to dealing with men.
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Posted by sweethearts
Ummmm forgive if I'm wrong but he is still talking about "himself"
When I buy a house, I want you to move in...
If he was dead serious...wouldn't it be...Do you want to marry me and we have a future together and buy a house?
If not...you'll make another thread soon!



Sweethearts, THIS IS another thread, and there was another and another and another ... this dance she's been participating in has been going on for quite some time.
she has made thread after thread about this ... it's been going on so many times now that a discernible pattern has been established.

He acts like the normal Virgo male = introspective, emotionally controlled, independent
She gets upset because she's emotional DEpendent and is in need constant emotional support
She breaks up with him because she "can't deal"
He then comes running because she broke up with him
She ignores him until he's sufficiently begging (blowing up phone)
She then has a serious talk with him in an attempt to change him - he agrees
She fucks him to seal the deal
He 'acts' like a Virgo again =
rinse and repeat
For months this has been going on, and she makes threads for every step .... this isn't new news, this is her still playing, rather than being an adult and stepping the fuck away
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+1 with p-angel!
YOU CANT CHANGE HIM...SO STOP TRYING AND MOVE THE FUCK ON ALREADY!
how many times do you have to hear the same thing....its over! It was over the first time!
Nothing in this "relationship" will ever change...
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Posted by CluelessCancer
Posted by scorpio24
so after i broke up with him, he initated contact with me every single day for a week. I FINALLY responded after exactly a week, he begged for me to come meet up with him, so i did, he balled his eyes out and we had a big deep and meaningful conversation & he wanted me back and promised it will be different & even said when he buys a house soon he wants me to move in. :/ anyway, after 2 days, the un-spoken tension/coldness slowly comes back, can feel it even when im not with him physically.
*sigh*. very confusing zodiac sign indeed.


You broke up with him? This is news.

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How is this news? There is a thread for every step of the way lol
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Posted by scorpio24
so after i broke up with him, he initated contact with me every single day for a week. I FINALLY responded after exactly a week, he begged for me to come meet up with him, so i did, he balled his eyes out and we had a big deep and meaningful conversation & he wanted me back and promised it will be different & even said when he buys a house soon he wants me to move in. :/ anyway, after 2 days, the un-spoken tension/coldness slowly comes back, can feel it even when im not with him physically.
*sigh*. very confusing zodiac sign indeed.


I predicted the two of you would get back together after you posted your last thread. I asserted that it appears as if the two of you were headed towards a reconciliation.
@Scorpio24-
The reconciliation does not have to be a 'speedy' trial.
You allow your emotions to cloud your judgment.
Carefully examine all the evidence that was exhibited in the past such as premature commitments, constant adulation during the initial stages, and remember how quickly it fizzled out.
This time around, when he attempts to rush to a reconciliation, simply slow him down, and tell him to "fall back."
Your emotions are at stake here too, remember this.
You're allowing things to be rushed because you want the same man you met in the beginning...
Attentive, impulsive, considerate, etc...
But he is NOT that person (just a good game front if you ask me)...but, nevertheless... This man obviously still has a genuine interest in you.
Make the most of it, and be re-introduced to each other slowly.
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OMG I really feel sorry for the Virgo now... He doesn't get a girlfriend but a lost little girl that needs his constant attention and love in order to be happy, that must be exhausting!!! No wonder he dumped her and will again in the future... **yawns**
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Posted by tiziani
Men don't act confused. People grow. Some have the patience to grow together. Others have to grow apart. There's a big difference. That article just seems very childish in the sense that it's selling the idea "if you can't make him grow up in this way, try the other door instead".
It's a get rich quick article when really we all have growing to do, alone. Patience is something far too rare today. Everyone in a hurry to find the quickest map to destination nowhere.


+1 on the whole post, especially the part about growing. Nobody is born knowing how to be in a relationship, you learn these things throu your mistakes & grow from there on. Everybody has their own pace of learning, or their own trigger that makes them want to improve. I'm not a fan of these articles for a reason.. they package everything in one box. We're individuals with good/bad experiences in life & those experiences affect us more than we know, making us to act a certain way. The actions might look the same to a stranger & be translated to whatever, forgetting the individual reasons behind the oh so familiar way of acting. Nobody is 100% "healthy" within, people have hangups, issues..whatever.
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Posted by tiziani
Men don't act confused. People grow. Some have the patience to grow together. Others have to grow apart. There's a big difference. That article just seems very childish in the sense that it's selling the idea "if you can't make him grow up in this way, try the other door instead".
It's a get rich quick article when really we all have growing to do, alone. Patience is something far too rare today. Everyone in a hurry to find the quickest map to destination nowhere.


THIS^^^^^ I never understand all this talk of a guy (or girl) being an azzhole because they simply aren't ready for the type of relationship you're ready for. If people really "loved" the person they were obsessing on DXP over they would exercise some patience and allow the other person room and space to grow. If it's meant to be it will be when its the proper time to be. If not then you pick yourself up and move on. Don't bitch about what an azz the person is as if you weren't a willing participant in the relationship and enjoyed the benefits just as much as he or she did. Instant gratification is ruining us.
Spot on @ P-Angel, not too harshly put either... :-)
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Posted by CluelessCancer
You broke up with him? This is news.




Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by LostinmyMind11
How is this news? There is a thread for every step of the way lol



but i thought he dumped her?

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Are you surprised that she's been very deceptive this whole time?
Like ..... only a few of us actually picked up on that?
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Posted by LostinmyMind11
+1 with p-angel!
YOU CANT CHANGE HIM...SO STOP TRYING AND MOVE THE FUCK ON ALREADY!
how many times do you have to hear the same thing....its over! It was over the first time!
Nothing in this "relationship" will ever change...



Word up man. This shit is boring now. Damn...water signs are fucking sap suckers. No wonder he acts the way he does...
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Posted by Sagtastic1
How come she hasn't responded yet?


havent been on here much smile
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So, she comes in to say she doesn't come here much, which was over 30 minutes ago ... but, doesn't address anything.

makes one think she only came to see how the drama unfolded
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Posted by P-Angel
So, she comes in to say she doesn't come here much, which was over 30 minutes ago ... but, doesn't address anything.

makes one think she only came to see how the drama unfolded



smile i live in australia, most of you live overseas, it's day time here and i am at work. i might respond later if i feel like it. i make threads cause i like second opinions, but i also am quite busy to reply to every single one most of the time. But thanks for your input
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Posted by Dafna79
OMG I really feel sorry for the Virgo now... He doesn't get a girlfriend but a lost little girl that needs his constant attention and love in order to be happy, that must be exhausting!!! No wonder he dumped her and will again in the future... **yawns**



+1
Nothing this virgo does...will ever be good enough for her! or any other person in the future...until she grows up....and even then it still might not be.
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Posted by MellyMel909
Posted by P-Angel
So, she comes in to say she doesn't come here much, which was over 30 minutes ago ... but, doesn't address anything.

makes one think she only came to see how the drama unfolded


And she only started this thread to gloat, me thinks... as a subtle "fuck you all, he DID come back, so I-was-right-and-you-were-wrong".
That was my first thought when I saw she'd created another thread, and her lack of response and recent use of smiley faces has only reinforced that original thought.
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I like how keen of a perception you have .... she's not only manipulating him, dxp too, and most people don't seem to notice.
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