Virgo + Display of Emotion

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Brown69 on Wednesday, September 8, 2010 and has 48 replies.
Do you as a Virgo display emotion readily? Or does someone have to drag it out of you? What Gets you all misty eyed?
*Open to Virgos or those who know how to get a Virgo all misty eyed* :-)
Posted by Brown69
Do you as a Virgo display emotion readily? Or does someone have to drag it out of you? What Gets you all misty eyed?
*Open to Virgos or those who know how to get a Virgo all misty eyed* :-)



nothing really i was little i was a big baby now im all cried out lol.
things that get to me are deaths and people that go thru hardships and that are less fortunate than me.

after that i can give to shits about anything.
Some virgos will open up if you go throw their defenses, which many women find too much to handle, so they leave.
Other virgos will open up if you are independent, which they find you to be a person who will not judge their character and allow their nervous instabilities to calm, so they can open up correctly without showing flaws.
Last, there are some virgos who want partners who can keep up with them, and they\'ll open up.
Pretty much, virgos need to know what you are made out of emotionally before they can throw you their emotional underwear at you.
Emotional underwear, that's a good phrase.
Virgos aren\'t afraid of their emotions, we see it as something like underwear to cover ours ass with whenever we slip out on our diarrhea communications. ;D
Posted by DyTryin

B69...
Your Sun & Moon are in Cancer?
NO Virgo Man is ever going to be "emotional enough" for you.
But, you probably need that restraint in a guy.
I haven't boo-hooed since my Mother passed away in 1996.
OTOH, when I do show emotion, it's genuine.


Yeah, I am a die hard Cancer aren't I? lol! But my rising is Libra. Does that count?
Posted by sorti-fantastic poney
Virgos aren\'t afraid of their emotions, we see it as something like underwear to cover ours ass with whenever we slip out on our diarrhea communications. ;D


That's nasty. Shame! lol!:-P
Posted by sorti-fantastic poney
Some virgos will open up if you go throw their defenses, which many women find too much to handle, so they leave.
Other virgos will open up if you are independent, which they find you to be a person who will not judge their character and allow their nervous instabilities to calm, so they can open up correctly without showing flaws.
Last, there are some virgos who want partners who can keep up with them, and they\'ll open up.
Pretty much, virgos need to know what you are made out of emotionally before they can throw you their emotional underwear at you.


Yeah, I don't know if my now ex ( I told his azz to catch wind today) will ever open up with that Capricorn rising on top all that Virgo. My Cancer azz didn't do it for him I guess. I think he will open up, I just don't think I was the person that would get the job done. Sucks. Almost 4 years down the drain.
Good thing i'm still fly!!!!!!! Big Grin Oowt, Oowt!
^^^ Wise words...truly wise.
I think its much more subtle still though. Women are too often looking for the hugs, kisses, and I loves yous sort of thing. But, Virgos are a rather reserved in this respect. It's been said and I think it is true, it is their behavior, not their words, one must pay closer attention to. I get a lot of playful attention, but he's not going to grab me and kiss me just because (like I do to him). Then again, maybe I'm reading such behavior wrong...
@25th, trust me I know, I play right back smile
(I'm getting more comfortable doing so anyway)
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I think its much more subtle still though. Women are too often looking for the hugs, kisses, and I loves yous sort of thing. But, Virgos are a rather reserved in this respect. It\'s been said and I think it is true, it is their behavior, not their words, one must pay closer attention to. I get a lot of playful attention, but he\'s not going to grab me and kiss me just because (like I do to him). Then again, maybe I\'m reading such behavior wrong...


You are a capricorn though and a virgo will naturally open up to you than any other sign besides leo....In this case, i should create a thread about this!
Posted by 25thDecan
You'll see emotion and genuineness when I see it in YOU. If I don't, why should my psyche, time and attention be spent on you if yours isn't spent on me? So no. Not much emotion from many virgo men unless we're pissed. You want to see emotion, step out of the usual "I'm a woman and I'm already emotional" box. Seriously, many women make this mistake with ALL men. It's that somehow being YOU entails emotion when you seek his presence- be it a rendezvous or a date or some form of intimacy-. But does it really? No. It's going through motions. EMOTION is much deeper. If it's a bonding of psyches you want, it takes time, patience and real intimacy-little stuff done together. But wait...people are warning against me because I curse and "attack" on the internet. So....fuck you. Lmao


That's true and only logical. When he's upset...Oh you get emotion! At that point you might not want the particular emotion he's giving. B/c of him, I hide my emotions and he says i'm "cold" No, he just doesn't respond well to my emotions, so why bother? You want me to be an emotional mess while you appear cool, calm, and collected? Right....
What? You were actually being human in the beginning, then you realized it and retreated back into your own Azzhole. Wow that's talent. lol!
Love ya :-)
Posted by 25thDecan
Lildol- at the risk of being attacked for NOT GIVING A MOTHERFUCK- no, you're not reading his actions wrong at all. Like most men, remember that as you see him "open up" don't diminish how he shows you this. And don't dismiss it as "wrong" or "not the right way"...especially since it's positive, dig? The last thing any guy worth his salt wants is to begin to show a woman the best way he can how he feels and she diminishes or dismisses it. A positive display of affection and feelings and emotion is good. Let it grow.
Fuck scorpio bitches....


I agree with you. I know he loves me even though he doesn't show it the traditional lovey dovey way. I take it more serious I think b/c he doesn't. I want for nothing, and I know he could place his efforts elsewhere. Whe he does show me the affection I need It feels so much more important.
On the other hand would you starve yourself so that the next time you ate food would taste that much better. He emotionally starves me. I shouldn't have to wait on rations. That's why I gave his ass his walking papers. I really have a love hate relationship with Virgo men.
Scorpio women rock! lol! :-P
Posted by virg_goki
Posted by Brown69
Posted by sorti-fantastic poney
Some virgos will open up if you go throw their defenses, which many women find too much to handle, so they leave.
Other virgos will open up if you are independent, which they find you to be a person who will not judge their character and allow their nervous instabilities to calm, so they can open up correctly without showing flaws.
Last, there are some virgos who want partners who can keep up with them, and they\'ll open up.
Pretty much, virgos need to know what you are made out of emotionally before they can throw you their emotional underwear at you.


Yeah, I don't know if my now ex ( I told his azz to catch wind today) will ever open up with that Capricorn rising on top all that Virgo. My Cancer azz didn't do it for him I guess. I think he will open up, I just don't think I was the person that would get the job done. Sucks. Almost 4 years down the drain.
Good thing i'm still fly!!!!!!! Big Grin Oowt, Oowt!



Well you could wait for Cajun to come here for his 2 cents. He's a cappie rising so he's pretty much someone whose feedback you could value. Whats your VG's venus and mars?
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Where's Cajun? He does always have some good insight! I put his stats below.
Him- Capricorn Ascendant
Sun Virgo
Moon Virgo
Mercury Libra
Venus Virgo
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Scorpio
Saturn Libra
Uranus Sag
Neptune Sag
Pluto Libra
True Node Cancer
Chiron Taurus
Posted by sorti-fantastic poney
Virgos aren\'t afraid of their emotions, we see it as something like underwear to cover ours ass with whenever we slip out on our diarrhea communications. ;D


^5 Slipped that one under the radar. Excellent work.
You know 25th, you make excellent sense till you start hitting the 'F' button.
@ Virgo_goki
Yes I feed him very well. I love to see him eat too! lol! He does so enjoy food...
BLAH - (on the topic of Virgo emotion) My Virgo said he can't ever marry me because we can't agree on whether the toilet SEAT should be put down or left up!
(no, marriage has NEVER been discussed - he jokes these days about he or us being in love, but other than that, nah, nadda)
Posted by 25thDecan
You know TAURUS maybe you and Brown and other internet personalities should open your eyes and realize that I love to shock people. Because its fun, hilarious and I feel like doing it. What's even more fun is how many of you internet women ASSUME that's all there is to me. My.....how "quick" and judgemental of all of you who try and respond as if you need an argument from me to the contrary. See truth and genuineness and let the rest be legitimately what it is.......but alas SOMEONE is gonna raise my middle finger.
And Brown scorpio BITCHES DON'T ROCK!


You must have a small penis... I just figured it out
Whoop! Whoop!
Posted by lildol
BLAH - (on the topic of Virgo emotion) My Virgo said he can't ever marry me because we can't agree on whether the toilet SEAT should be put down or left up!
(no, marriage has NEVER been discussed - he jokes these days about he or us being in love, but other than that, nah, nadda)


I lost the toilet seat battle many moons ago. I just gave him his own bathroom, worked out perfect! They want compromise.
Mine is long gone. I don't negotiate with terrorists...
Posted by 25thDecan
You know TAURUS maybe you and Brown and other internet personalities should open your eyes and realize that I love to shock people. Because its fun, hilarious and I feel like doing it. What's even more fun is how many of you internet women ASSUME that's all there is to me. My.....how "quick" and judgemental of all of you who try and respond as if you need an argument from me to the contrary. See truth and genuineness and let the rest be legitimately what it is.......but alas SOMEONE is gonna raise my middle finger.
And Brown scorpio BITCHES DON'T ROCK!


Ummm, geeeee, errmmmmmm, come closer to me 25th. No, closer... DUH DUDE! And if you knew ME, you overinflated, pompous ass you would realize that I have had NO argument with you. None, zero, zip, zilch and nada. If you'd like to have a discussion like a rational adult, fine. If you'd like to keep flogging this dead damned horse in the interest of 'humor', that's fine too. But turn that lovely mirror back on yourself man, because you certainly made assumptions about me and my character. Anyone with two flipping brain cells to rub together could see that you enjoyed shocking people. PLEASE.
You wish. And I still continue to have a non-issue with you.
is this another example of 25th's "sense of humor"?
@ 25Decan
I got your goat huh? lol! Too easy! I could care less about you're little flap. You say you DGAF, but still continue to respond to the cattle prodding. You're such an easy character. See, person that truly doesn't GAF, would abandon the thread. You're predictable, and sir i'm sorry to inform you that you do GAF. Give it up You're a sweet Virgo. I know it cause I can get you going like every other Virgo I know! Ha!
Speaking of Sandy Beaches!!! You remind me of a SANDY BEACH!
@ Pandorasbox
No you don't have to be an emotional display of sorts, but so often I look at my mom and she seems ok, but then she'll call me and I can tell she's upset b/c she's complaining about everything and climbing on the cross " Well I so tired, but I just went ahead and did it.." I just think sometimes, geez climb down off the cross we need the firewood. If she feels tired I would rather hear her say that instead of not being able to tell what the heck is going on. My boyfriend/ex boyfriend is the same way...Sometimes I just look at him and wonder what's going on in that head. My drive is to "fix it" lol! If I don't know what's wrong I can't fix it! I'm always itching to fix, correct, console, repair....So nerve racking.
25thDecan, so if a women shows to much emotion that a turn off for virgo men?
I tried to tell you guys about this chump a week or so ago ... and every person who decided they didn't like me because I voice my own opinion decided to come in and infer that this guy isn't fucked up for being such as asshole .. that he is fine and it's me who is not understanding him.

Yeah ... learn the hard way then .. don't say I didn't warn you.

A repeat from my thread ::::: shakes head at all the stupid people :::::
Posted by 25thDecan
And in case anyone thought I was done being who I am....FUCK SCORPIO WOMEN. LMAO AND FUCK YOU TOO BROWN69 YOU LITTLE SELF SERVING ORAL FIXATION FROM A SANDY BEACH FULL OF PARASITIC VENOMOUS MUTED SIGN WOMEN


you seem pretty emotional for an "unemotional" virgo right now......just sayin`
@25thbacon
Okay quit rambling old man...No one cares anymore. Go do some situps....
I remember quite clearly the thread P-Angel created saying that Virgos readily express anger more than any other emotion.
Posted by Amandus
I remember quite clearly the thread P-Angel created saying that Virgos readily express anger more than any other emotion.




It's the truth, Jason ... look around just in here. You might find a few who express normally, but, the majority remain silent, unmoved, unless mad.

Posted by 25thDecan
Not much emotion from many virgo men unless we're pissed.

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And people want Virgos to be approachable even when happy.
Posted by Brown69
Do you as a Virgo display emotion readily? Or does someone have to drag it out of you? What Gets you all misty eyed?
*Open to Virgos or those who know how to get a Virgo all misty eyed* :-)


I can but it depends on the topic and who I am with.
In regards to anger, I'm a bit odd about it. Big stuff doesn't really piss me off. I find more often I get pissed about small stuff. In complete honesty, almost all of the fist fights I've ever been in (there have been A LOT) all revolved around stupid small things.
Another example would be the "Puppies being Thrown in the River" incident that I posted in the MISC forum. That one REALLY bent me out of shape. I was raging pretty hard about that one.
Posted by BellaBulleautiful
My advice to women who have a hard time getting their Virgo to give them the sex....


WINNER, WINNER! CHICKEN DINNER smile
Hey Bells smile
Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Hey stud pants long time no see! smile


Hows tricks? smile You better be doing well.
Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Hey stud pants long time no see! smile


Ya, well smile
I tend to come and go as I please. A vice most of the time Tongue
Posted by BellaBulleautiful
My advice to women who have a hard time getting their Virgo to give them the sex....
squirt your Virgo in the face with a master blaster h20 gun,then yank down his pants and move quickly away.as he's yelling and reaching down to pull up his pants,stomp on his toes hard,yank his pants back down and step aside.he should be getting an anger erection by this point.since his pants are still down,he can't see due to the water in his eyes...go ahead and shove your Virgo to the ground.you now have a small window for mounting your Virgo,you must act quickly!


lol,oh well.....I amuse myself anyway. Big Grin


LMAO Bella
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I tried to tell you guys about this chump a week or so ago ... and every person who decided they didn\'t like me because I voice my own opinion decided to come in and infer that this guy isn\'t fucked up for being such as asshole .. that he is fine and it\'s me who is not understanding him.

Yeah ... learn the hard way then .. don\'t say I didn\'t warn you.

A repeat from my thread ::::: shakes head at all the stupid people :::::


Nobody cares for your opinion.
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I remember quite clearly the thread P-Angel created saying that Virgos readily express anger more than any other emotion.




It\'s the truth, Jason ... look around just in here. You might find a few who express normally, but, the majority remain silent, unmoved, unless mad.


Nah, many express \"normally\", but what is normally? Care to explain or are you going to remain vague?

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Not much emotion from many virgo men unless we\'re pissed.

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And people want Virgos to be approachable even when happy.

Thank goodness I\'m happy!
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I remember quite clearly the thread P-Angel created saying that Virgos readily express anger more than any other emotion.




It\'s the truth, Jason ... look around just in here. You might find a few who express normally, but, the majority remain silent, unmoved, unless mad.


Nah, many express \"normally\", but what is normally? Care to explain or are you going to remain vague?

http://freeproxyserver.net/index.php?q=aHR0cDovL3d3dy5keHBuZXQuY29tL29waW5pb24vbWVzc2FnZXMuYXNwP3A9MSZpZD0yMTYwMjU5IzIxNjA4NzU% 3D#essages.asp?p=1&id=2160259#2160875\">Posted by 25thDecan
Not much emotion from many virgo men unless we\'re pissed.




And people want Virgos to be approachable even when happy.
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Thank goodness I\'m happy!
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Then the rat fish quotes a part of what I said. Way to follow fish BROAD. However, like DY said...wtf do you know besides bandwith and your inconsitent problems with your spouse? Also...bandwith. Nothing. Take your windchimes and old yellow english witch mother dress and your mostly toilet crawling, cartilage rat body elsewhere. You are Jung, Freud or even a Dr. Judy, yet somehow you believe your validation is in the shit you type on me. Fuck off.


P-angel is the typical piscean that needs to teach people lessons, but she only does it to control people...
and begins to belittle the intelligence of others because she is not having control, so she begins to start criticizing, and it only makes people who don\'t take this site to seriously to laugh... Big Grin
Ah well, fuck it right!
It doesn't take much to make them happy... they don't have to look happy to be happy as Pandora pointed out. (kinda like Caps)
Posted by Brown69
Posted by 25thDecan
Lildol- at the risk of being attacked for NOT GIVING A MOTHERFUCK- no, you're not reading his actions wrong at all. Like most men, remember that as you see him "open up" don't diminish how he shows you this. And don't dismiss it as "wrong" or "not the right way"...especially since it's positive, dig? The last thing any guy worth his salt wants is to begin to show a woman the best way he can how he feels and she diminishes or dismisses it. A positive display of affection and feelings and emotion is good. Let it grow.
Fuck scorpio bitches....


I agree with you. I know he loves me even though he doesn't show it the traditional lovey dovey way. I take it more serious I think b/c he doesn't. I want for nothing, and I know he could place his efforts elsewhere. Whe he does show me the affection I need It feels so much more important.
On the other hand would you starve yourself so that the next time you ate food would taste that much better. He emotionally starves me. I shouldn't have to wait on rations. That's why I gave his ass his walking papers. I really have a love hate relationship with Virgo men.
Scorpio women rock! lol! :-P

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LOL @ "I shouldn't have to wait on rations"
So, I'm looking for a new job... this morning I told him I worked on my resume' last night until midnight, after I told him what I was doing, described the positions I was applying for, how I was feeling about the whole situation and so on and so on, he told me he was my biggest supporter. That meant the world to me...
(of course, tonight it's I need a job with better pay so I can take care of him... but, whatever! smile)
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Poney- I agree! Fuck it, too! Lmao



I\'m surprised she mentions you; I think she e-hates the hell out of me. She doesn\'t even mention, but she always talks about you man. I think she likes you secretly because you and her husband share the same birthday, but i guess we can only assume who is the bigger man...
she doesn\'t even mention me*
\"It doesn\'t take much to make them happy... they don\'t have to look happy to be happy as Pandora pointed out. (kinda like Caps)\"
Ring-a-ring-a-ding-ding! You got yourself a prize, now choose which one you want to have??? *teddy, trolly or dolly*
hahaha, yeah true that man.
Who knows maybe the reason she mentions you so much is because she wants you...
LOL!

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