Virgo does not feel good enough for me??

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tauruslove88
@tauruslove88
14 Years

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It's been 5 months since i knew this Virgo guy everything was awesome in the begining..he would tell me how crazy he was about me.. Then one day he finally came to see from Miami to west palm which is an hour away..we had a great time..then I went to Miami to see him..we went to a concert then clubbing and we ended up having sex..at night and the morning..everything was fine..the next day I went home and texted him..I didn't get a reply till the next night..I asked him why didn't he text me the other day.. He said he was busy with work...basically distant with me for a whole week...then one night we talked..and I asked him did he want to get into a relationship.. Then he finally told me that he is not ready for a relationship.. He is still hurt from his ex.. It really crushed my heart.. He said that it wasn't me..it's just the way he feels...ok so we decided to still talk as friends..and we talk everyday and text..so a month went by and his job was basically cutting his hours...so of course he was taking it hard..and I was there for him as a freind...its crazy cause it's like we like each other very much but he seems afraid..so a month later..I asked him again..about us being together...and he said he doesn't feel that he is good enough for me... And that I'm beautiful with a nice voice..(I sing)..and he said he is going through a lot with his job..and right now he is not happy with his self so why would I be 😢 I told him I loved him...and he said..he doesn't believe it..he said that he does not think I would like him if we stayed together... Oh I forgot to mention..I'm 23 he is 31..but why would he feel he is not good enough for me—
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lnana04
@lnana04
15 Years5,000+ Posts

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I just wanna say I love how aggressive you are in asking him about the two of you being together. To a Taurus it seems to make no sense in liking eachother, talking everyday, having chemistry, and not being together.

I personally think he really likes you but is honest in being insecure.

"I told him I loved him...and he said..he doesn't believe it."

The "I don't believe it" sounds like a prove it to me comment. This sounds like someone who is pushing you away but REALLY wants you to stick around. He enjoys you just his actions. The texting til the sun comes up etc. doesn't sound like someone who has no interest.

Since it sounds he is insecure, it probably is best to pull back as much as you can emotionally. Although I feel he's being honest, he could eventually dump his insecurities onto you making it an unhealthy relationship in the long-run, which can also be why he feels you wouldn't like him if yall got together.