Soo my Virgo ex, sent me an email a week ago now after a year and a half of absolutely no contact. The email basically said that she's been meaning to drop me a note for some time and since she had had a dream about it that it was about time to stop holding it off. Anyway, she goes on to say that she was wondering if I'm okay and that she's sure I am, and that she didn't think I would mind if she contacted me and that in no way is she expecting a reply or that it was to anger me. Just so that I know someone in the world is thinking and wishing me well?
My question is what does she want after almost 2 years of nothing? I stopped all communication about 3 months of a rollercoaster. Break up, get back together, rinse repeat cycle. What gives? I thought Virgos walk away and never look back? She's even said those words to me herself.
I sent a reply back a few days later saying Thanks for the note, things are great. Glad to hear you're doing well.
Should I expect something back, or is this like the done deal now? So confusing. I don't want anything to do with her, not even on a friendship basis (we had a very unhealthy relationship that went past it' own expiry date) but I'm not to type to send people packing in a mean way either.
Any thoughts?
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Feb 15, 2011Comments: 24 · Posts: 5059 · Topics: 66
She may be regretting her decision & wanting to mend the relationship. If it was an unhealthy one, I'd advise you to just let it go. It won't get any better.
Real talk, that's some real talk!
Maybe it's me, I just don't get the whole 1.5 thing?? Did you really think I'd be waiting around for a second throw down? Delusional is the word that comes to mind. lol
She's the one that taught me how to hate a bitch! lol Obvi we weren't in the same relationship.
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Jan 19, 2011Comments: 2 · Posts: 540 · Topics: 11
Someone might have dumped her on her butt hard .She might have been calling to see if you were either free or that she was sorry about what happened between you two.Immaturity you can work with,crazy you can't. The only thing comes to mind;run.
You see THAT right there is why I like you :p More air than earth..Cheers my friend!