Virgo Ex Making Zero Sense
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Scorpheartbreak24 on Sunday, May 26, 2013 and has 5 replies.
Scorp/virgo relationship
My virgo ex and I broke up about a year ago. I was going through a rough period in life and decided to use him as my punching bag. After a year of not speaking at all, to minimal speaking, to trying to be friends, to not we are in a weird but interesting place. Fairly recently we finally broke down our relationship he told me what hurt him, i understood. We decided to try to be friends and get our friendship to how it was (2 years til we started dating), but I realized fairly recently that I still had feelings for him when he started opening up to me (which he does not do) about his relationship after me. I got really jealous (like a scorpio) and told him it made me uncomfortable and maybe I was not ready for friendship. For the past three hours he has been trying to convince to remain friends with him and at least try to rebuild the friendship we had prior to dating.
I guess I don't understand why he is pushing for this friendship so hard. He is not being malicious and told me that he apologizes for not being tactful about the girl. I just am not sure, because not even 6 months ago the sight of me made him angry. Now he is starting to open up??? and fight to keep me around! Confused HELP PLEASE!!!
IF YOUR GOING TO BE SARCASTIC AND RUDE PLEASE DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME COMMENTING.
My virgo ex and I broke up about a year ago. I was going through a rough period in life and decided to use him as my punching bag. After a year of not speaking at all, to minimal speaking, to trying to be friends, to not we are in a weird but interesting place. Fairly recently we finally broke down our relationship he told me what hurt him, i understood. We decided to try to be friends and get our friendship to how it was (2 years til we started dating), but I realized fairly recently that I still had feelings for him when he started opening up to me (which he does not do) about his relationship after me. I got really jealous (like a scorpio) and told him it made me uncomfortable and maybe I was not ready for friendship. For the past three hours he has been trying to convince to remain friends with him and at least try to rebuild the friendship we had prior to dating.
I guess I don't understand why he is pushing for this friendship so hard. He is not being malicious and told me that he apologizes for not being tactful about the girl. I just am not sure, because not even 6 months ago the sight of me made him angry. Now he is starting to open up??? and fight to keep me around! Confused HELP PLEASE!!!
IF YOUR GOING TO BE SARCASTIC AND RUDE PLEASE DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME COMMENTING.
I think us Virgos are very practical. We understand the need to make the best out of every situation, and we won't cling onto memories if we believe it's a waste of our time and energy. Scorpios are the opposite. They have the habit of stubbornly clinging to emotional attachments. He might feel like your intuitive nature makes you a better person to confide in with his relationship life. I do, however, think it's a bit selfish of him to expect you to simply forget everything you guys have been through, just to help him with his problems.
For me to have a better understanding of what he might be feeling: could you explain why you got together and why you broke up?
For me to have a better understanding of what he might be feeling: could you explain why you got together and why you broke up?
Sure! Well basically we had been friends for about two years. Talked about everything, etc. Then we dated for about six months. I had been diagnosed with depression and was just mentally taking it out on him til finally he said enough I am done. Much like my scorpio nature I got very vengeful said and did some mean things. Finally, I just left him alone. I don't think hes being selfish because he at first did not want to tell me about the girl, but I kind drug it out of him. He would simply say "Im stressed, but I don't really want to talk about it" and today I finally got him to open up about his health issues and of course the girl. Even prior to I took care of him when he was sick, and vice versa and we were barely talking.
I guess I am just confused as to 1.) Why he is making being friends such a big deal, especially after I hurt him so badly. 2.) I know he isnt using me for himself, but why me. he even stated he doesnt have anything to do with any of his exes.
I guess I am just confused as to 1.) Why he is making being friends such a big deal, especially after I hurt him so badly. 2.) I know he isnt using me for himself, but why me. he even stated he doesnt have anything to do with any of his exes.
I told him ill try but we will have to go slow
As a Virgo, I have the tendency to remain loyal to people despite the problems we may've had. I hold grudges and I won't forget the negative situations you've put me through, but if I care about you enough, I'll forgive you and move on from them. Virgos are not social butterflies or popular; they usually have a small group of friends who they consider trustworthy and real. So when someone does us wrong, we can't just replace them out of the blue. We're not like Geminis who are emotionally detached and become friends with everyone. Maybe he doesn't know someone who is as understanding & as wise as you. You obviously put him through a lot of stress, but he's not going to live in the past. He clearly moved on from the obstacles you guys had, and now wants to develop a closer friendship with you. I had a Scorpio friend who talked about me behind my back. But she was so smart, hilarious, and one-of-a-kind. We still remained friends, and now our relationship has grown so strong. I'm the only person who understands her, and she's one of the only people I can be myself around. You clearly possess qualities that he believes make you worthy of staying in his life, despite what your relationship was like. Don't take it too seriously, because I don't believe this is romantic in anyway.
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