Virgo ex. Trying to understand him.

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by QueenOfPentacles on Thursday, March 9, 2017 and has 2 replies.
Hi. I wonder why my virgo ex was so cold and so mean even if I gave my whole heart to him? He seemed to never care even if we were together for 6 years. He was cold and distant. And when I finally left him he is chasing after me for almost a year now and doesn't leave me alone even if I told him that I have zero feelings left for him and that he is dead to me. Like seriously. Why he never cared when I was with him and when I don't anymore he can't get over me? Is it common for virgos to be cold in relationship?
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Hi. I wonder why my virgo ex was so cold and so mean even if I gave my whole heart to him? He seemed to never care even if we were together for 6 years. He was cold and distant. And when I finally left him he is chasing after me for almost a year now and doesn't leave me alone even if I told him that I have zero feelings left for him and that he is dead to me. Like seriously. Why he never cared when I was with him and when I don't anymore he can't get over me? Is it common for virgos to be cold in relationship?
It didn't end on his terms.

It's a form of control & possession.

Cut contact. As much as you want to understand why. It's not worth it especially if he's harassing or obsessing over you. Trust me.
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Nooo. I definitely don't have any contact left with him. I was just curious. He isn't harrassing me. He is past this stage. Right now he is just whinning to every living creature who is willing to listen how much he misses me and how he would be the man I always wanted him to be. Me on the flip-side I have zero feelings for him left. Like absolutely zero feelings. I even stopped checking him on insta. And it says a lot Big Grin