Virgo Flirts
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by capris on Thursday, August 5, 2010 and has 24 replies.
Do Virgos mean what they say or is that just their way to get what they want? I have a virgo friend that just told me how nice and unique I am, how he always found me attractive and all that good stuff. He broke up with his girlfriend about 3 or 4 months ago of almost 2 years. I'm thinking he may just be bored and horny.
i dunno his charts.
Sept 15?
date of birth?
capris
Virgos always mean what they say and say what they mean, fail to understand it you??ll be the sufferer at the end of line.
Understand your Virgo first..!
Virgos always mean what they say and say what they mean, fail to understand it you??ll be the sufferer at the end of line.
Understand your Virgo first..!
It's no mystery when a Virgo is flirting with you. The warm schmexi stare with the mental calculations falling like dominoes behind that. See if he'd like to go out on a date *nudging*. He's courting you.
Posted by seksi
what are u looking for in a virgo plsssssss. they never initiate sex. why dont you let aquas deal with them. they are both mental signs, so let them waist their time together. they both dont like sex anyway. sex with this people comes with mind masturbation. invest on another cappy and you'll see what would happen xx
We don't like sex?
LMFAO.
You know nothing of Virgos.
Posted by Qbone
capris
Virgos always mean what they say and say what they mean, fail to understand it you??ll be the sufferer at the end of line.
Understand your Virgo first..!
I concur.
Posted by seavixen2
Virgos are closet freaks..but you have to do ALL the initiating which is so...tiresome
LOL, people say that exact same thing--word-for-word, about Pisces
Really Vix? It was him doing the bulk of that with the ex. I'd have to say 60/40 at the very least. Always seemed the man was pushing me somewhere for some personal time.
It really depends on the virgo you are with. While I wouldn't call it "initiating," I like it when guys lead me down that way because I have to like "snap" into that mood before I can let go. So, it can be anything as simple as a word or a touch, and then I can do a lot of the initiating. What I noticed that I do is that I will subtly mention something to see if the guy picks up on it or I might give him a look. It's kind of fun for me.
Posted by Qbone
capris
Virgos always mean what they say and say what they mean, fail to understand it you??ll be the sufferer at the end of line.
Understand your Virgo first..!
Qbone:
if this is accurate, explain this to me please.
Virgo man asks for my feelings and i express them in a very calm and forthright manner without tears or big drama. Immediately after stating them, Virgo man gets an angry tone and says some very hurtful comments which attack my integrity etc. Despite the fact that I know we have a close rapport based on trust, respect and deep affection, maybe even love.
So did he mean what he said and did he say what he meant, knowing that after he said it he was out of line and his words cut deep?
Now here's a post a Virgo guy wrote on this board sometime ago regarding how a Virgo reacts to someone he loves and how he communicates with her/him. To me, this post (i don't know who wrote it but it comes from this board), states just the opposite of what you said Q. So i'm a bit confused as to what really to believe.
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"When he (a virgo) truly loves someone, how does he show it?
Somebody else here wrote this, or I may have read it somewhere: You know for sure that a Virgo loves you, when he pushes you away ???No other comment is necessary, except to add that if we really love you, we are very very quiet in your presence, and if you try to communicate with us, we just go blank, become blocked and say the opposite of what we really want to say. BUT, our eyes always tell the truth!
As a recipient of that love from a Virgo man, how do you tell whether it is love or not?
Read the above again!
The above is true ONLY when we are in love with somebody, but we are not a couple.
Posted by Candeh15
It really depends on the virgo you are with. While I wouldn't call it "initiating," I like it when guys lead me down that way because I have to like "snap" into that mood before I can let go. So, it can be anything as simple as a word or a touch, and then I can do a lot of the initiating. What I noticed that I do is that I will subtly mention something to see if the guy picks up on it or I might give him a look. It's kind of fun for me.
Same. I will flirt a bit and if he flirts back I might kick it up a few notches, but (this might just be a personal choice) I will never ask a guy out. I just feel that's the guy's place, and would not respect the relationship if I have to be both the man AND the woman.
While you can use astrology as a sort of blueprint for one's personality, you really should see this person as an individual. Naturally, virgos are not very flirtatious people, however, we can be really flirtatious when we want to be. I would say just go with the flow, and don't place any expectations on your relationship with him. Virgo men when flirtatious, can be extremely so. He recently got out of a relationship so if I were you, I would give it some time to be sure that he is completely over her. Good luck with everything.
He initiates the flirtation 95% of the time and I just go along with it. Well..I'm a capricorn and I don't really flirt. I kinda just respond. I don't even give him compliments back when he throws one my way. I just say, "thanks." The thing is we had hooked up before about 3 yrs ago and he started dating another girl. I moved on and didn't talk to him for awhile, then about 1 or 2 months later he apologized, and we kept in touch. i forgave him and kept our friendship. So we continued our friendship mostly online and once in about 6 months we'll meet up for lunch until one day he just blurted out that he is no longer with his gf. That's when he's flirting started getting more intense. He flirted with me a little bit when he was w/ his gf, but I thought it was just my mimd playing with me. I guess I'm a little confuse of what he wants now. I actually asked him why is he doing this on our online chat one day, but he just said, "what do u mean?" I felt awkward and told him that he dodged me a few yrs ago and again he apologized...so I never really got a straight answer. That's why I'm thinking maybe he is just bored, lonely, or horny.
Posted by capris
He initiates the flirtation 95% of the time and I just go along with it. Well..I'm a capricorn and I don't really flirt. I kinda just respond. I don't even give him compliments back when he throws one my way. I just say, "thanks."
I actually asked him why is he doing this on our online chat one day, but he just said, "what do u mean?" I felt awkward and told him that he dodged me a few yrs ago and again he apologized...so I never really got a straight answer. That's why I'm thinking maybe he is just bored, lonely, or horny.
I bold'ed the problem.
I personally need to be motivated and encouraged by the woman I am thinking of dating.
Capricorns need to be chased, hence, why I am unlikely to ever be with one and probably the reason why he "dodged" you.
Since we're one step closer today than 3 yrs ago, he told me why. He was working things out with his xgf at that time.
Posted by seavixen2
Virgos are closet freaks..but you have to do ALL the initiating which is so...tiresome
True .. definitely.
And in all areas of life .... physical, mental, emotional.
If a Virgo is angered, they are then eager to express .. if they are any other mood, then they refrain from expression.
Gemini64, I hear what you're saying ... if a Virgo put even a smidgeon of energy into loving as they do hating .. then they wouldn't have to play victim so often and might actually be happier.
Gemini64, I hear what you're saying ... if a Virgo put even a smidgeon of energy into loving as they do hating .. then they wouldn't have to play victim so often and might actually be happier.
Posted by capris
Do Virgos mean what they say or is that just their way to get what they want? I have a virgo friend that just told me how nice and unique I am, how he always found me attractive and all that good stuff. He broke up with his girlfriend about 3 or 4 months ago of almost 2 years. I'm thinking he may just be bored and horny.
It's only a flirt from your perspective because you want it to be. If you didn't want it to be a flirt, then your perspective would be different ... like perhaps, annoying.
It's highly possible that it meant absolutely nothing more than him just thinking you are nice an unique, and he felt like telling you with no strings attached.
Posted by P-Angel
If a Virgo is angered, they are then eager to express .. if they are any other mood, then they refrain from expression.
Gemini64, I hear what you're saying ... if a Virgo put even a smidgeon of energy into loving as they do hating .. then they wouldn't have to play victim so often and might actually be happier.
thanks P Angel. what you wrote makes sense. i guess for me, when i'm angry with someone, I may say something hurtful, but I also take into effect the merit of what that person said; especially if it's in response to MY inquiry in the first place. i feel if you're going to ask someone a personal question, you should be cordial when hearing their response. You can disagree with their answer, but still be understanding and considerate. At least that's how I try to deal with people. Even ones I strongly disagree with on occasion.
It's ironic that the sign who comes off so aloof and cold hearted at times can't stand anyone criticizing them. I know, I know, virgo's are harder on themselves than the rest of us.
Sorry, I don't buy that. I'm hard on myself. I'm often a perfectionist. And it's frustrating to me when I can't accomplish everything I would like to to a very high standard that I set.
Honestly, I would think a virgo would look at me and my passion for doing things well, and openly embrace my convictions rather than cut me down with words and attack my desire to strive for more than just good.
I can understand being angry with someone IF they say something that comes off rude, condescending or just plain stupid beyond belief. I don't understand berating someone because you either don't agree with their feelings, or you can't deal with feelings, even when spoken in a calm manner. To me, it's all about respect no matter what sign you may be.
If someone truly cares about you, they should consider your feelings and appreciate the fact that you had the fortitude to share them when others couldn't. It's sad that it seems a demonstration of anger for most virgo's (my personal experiences) came so naturally, and without any analytical thought process that virgo's are known for. On the opposite end,
it takes them days, weeks even months, to analyze a gesture or a comment by someone they may be attracted to and to act on it. Is it any wonder virgo's are an enigma? LOL
Posted by gemini64Posted by P-Angel
If a Virgo is angered, they are then eager to express .. if they are any other mood, then they refrain from expression.
Gemini64, I hear what you're saying ... if a Virgo put even a smidgeon of energy into loving as they do hating .. then they wouldn't have to play victim so often and might actually be happier.
thanks P Angel. what you wrote makes sense. i guess for me, when i'm angry with someone, I may say something hurtful, but I also take into effect the merit of what that person said; especially if it's in response to MY inquiry in the first place. i feel if you're going to ask someone a personal question, you should be cordial when hearing their response. You can disagree with their answer, but still be understanding and considerate. At least that's how I try to deal with people. Even ones I strongly disagree with on occasion.
It's ironic that the sign who comes off so aloof and cold hearted at times can't stand anyone criticizing them. I know, I know, virgo's are harder on themselves than the rest of us.
Sorry, I don't buy that. I'm hard on myself. I'm often a perfectionist. And it's frustrating to me when I can't accomplish everything I would like to to a very high standard that I set.
Honestly, I would think a virgo would look at me and my passion for doing things well, and openly embrace my convictions rather than cut me down with words and attack my desire to strive for more than just good.
I can understand being angry with someone IF they say something that comes off rude, condescending or just plain stupid beyond belief. I don't understand berating someone because you either don't agree with their feelings, or you can't deal with feelings, even when spoken in a calm manner. To me, it's all about respect no matter what sign you may be.
If someone truly cares about you, they should consider your feelings and appreciate the fact that you had the fortitude to share them when others couldn't. It's sad that it seems a demonstration of anger for most virgo's (my personal experiences) came so naturally, and without any analytical thought process that virgo's are known for. On the opposite end,
it takes them days, weeks even months, to analyze a gesture or a comment by someone they may be attracted to and to act on it. Is it anyclick to expand
damnit.
I said ...
I know and it's very hard for someone trying to have a relationship with a Virgo who can tell you in a second that you're wrong, or that they don't like .... and then take ages, if ever, to say that they like or approve.
A person trying to have a relationship with a Virgo has no option except to tell themselves everyday all the good things about themselves and that they love themselves .. if they plan on having encouragement, rather than discouragement.
Nature of the beast.
I said ...
I know and it's very hard for someone trying to have a relationship with a Virgo who can tell you in a second that you're wrong, or that they don't like .... and then take ages, if ever, to say that they like or approve.
A person trying to have a relationship with a Virgo has no option except to tell themselves everyday all the good things about themselves and that they love themselves .. if they plan on having encouragement, rather than discouragement.
Nature of the beast.
Posted by P-Angel
If a Virgo is angered, they are then eager to express .. if they are any other mood, then they refrain from expression.
Gemini64, I hear what you're saying ... if a Virgo put even a smidgeon of energy into loving as they do hating .. then they wouldn't have to play victim so often and might actually be happier.
Please people, speak to Virgos on the board if you want to know more about how they feel/who they are--jacka.ss bi.tches who've been used for sex by Virgos will spout nothing but words of hatred for the sign, and will lead you astray.
Taking advice on Virgos from a jaded Pisces...well, put it this way, would you trust your mechanic to do your dental work? Would you trust your hair stylist to do open heart surgery on you? No. No you would not.
She's been hurt by Virgos and probably used for sex more times than anyone can count; she fell for smooth talk, and instead of faulting herself has made it the rest of her miserable little life's mission to bash the sign wherever she goes, so please be warned that if you take her advice, it's advice you got IN the Virgo section, but from a bitter old Pisces. Don't blame us Virgos when it fails to work.
She knows nothing of Virgo nature, and thinks her many years of being on her knees swallowing the cum of the ones who've used her as a blow-up doll has made her an expert. Please note that she speaks as if she IS one. Clearly delusional. Taking it up the a.ss by someone of a certain sign does not make you an honorary member, but nice try P.enisbreath Angel.
Please be careful where you get your advice on Virgos from
Cheers.
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