virgo girl says she has boyfriend

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chlorophil1984
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I'm a Cancer guy and 5 weeks ago i met a Virgo girl at my workplace...She socially seemed quite confident once you start a conversation but personally she was very shy. At first she would always look away when we made eye contact, If i started a conversation she was very chatty, but otherwise she was very shy to initiate contact with me..if i wanted to talk to her i would have to email her first, or say hello in the corridor otherwise she would blank me practically.??Over time i would smile at her and she would give me an awkward smile back and our friendship began to slowly open up more and more, Weeks later it still feels like we grow closer every day, chatting and laughing about things...to be honest i really fell for her, perhaps a little too much for my own good.??The other day, amongst our chatting i complimented how beautiful her hair always was (she changes her style s quite regularly). She didn't respond or thank me for the compliment but she slipped in at the bottom of her message that she had a boyfriend...however they are not linked on facebook and i have no idea who he is, or even if he exists...although i doubt she would lie to me. I instantly took this as a warning to back off although it could have been accidental.??This did hurt me a bit that she was taken but i played a brave face and carried on. Weird thing is i can't shake this hunch that she is intrigued by me...she's starting to become more excited and a little teasing and competitive in the phone games and things we started to play, and when i Facebook message her, or email her in the workplace she always tells me she appreciates my messages. Shes so shy it's difficult to tell if shes interested or not but the boyfriend situation is obviously a killer.Does this sound familiar to anyone—I'm not too sure how a virgo girl thinks but what does this seem like—Could telling me she has a boyfriend be a test to see my reaction—Or should i just keep some distance from her and get over this? (I feel as a cancerian if i really like someone and i have to be careful to manage my emotional attachments at times)??Any Cancer tips on dealing with a virgo girl would also be much appreciated..apparently we are a good astrological match.
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Posted by HungVirgo
virgo women cheat so if you just want some ass go ahead



summed it up well for a nieve Cancer like I was one time.

but we really fancy what I call the "Female Virgo Laugh", really cute innocent and you know your joke is funny when they laugh.

The sex is good, I just like hearing that cute laugh everyday. It lowers my blood pressure.

Cancers and Virgos starting out as friend is always better, make her laugh and work your way to her heart!
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oh and Virgos are the most fascinating in the zodiac so your not wrong for wanting a Virgo Maiden as a Cancer. The Tragic Beautiful Virgo will fascinate your Cancer heart even as an old man.

Key with a Virgo is not to judge their past or even their current mistakes, they already are aware of it.

If you overlook it and be a better man they treat you like a King for life, seriously they will. Good homecooked meals and cleanest sheets to sleep on you could ever ask for.
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sorry i should have read a little more.

Basically patience is the key, that guy could be long gone if you stay nice and distant until she can make up her mind. Virgos come back around if you are stable.

Just dont go off the handle emotionally and you will be fine I promise

Here is some inspriation. Imagine your Cancer claws sculpting the ice for the Virgo.


Winona Ryder seems to have a Virgo placement somewhere to me at least.
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chlorophil1984
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Thanks for the helpfull comments. We are still emailing and chatting every day all day, I can only imagine she loves chatting to me as she always replies a giggles...I can make her laugh although admittedly she seems to giggle with everyone. If only I could see through that shyness and know what she was truly thinking...do you think it would be best to keep a little distance? Or should I let the trust develop and get to know her on a deeper level...currently she tends to dodge subjects that are a little to deep like her feelings on subjects...where I love to speak from the heart...would that appeal to her?
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Posted by HungVirgo
If she wanted you to stop and "respect her relationship" she would have told you, instead shes flirtying with you everyday. You dont need anymore signs than that, keep doing what youre doing and when she gives it up dont make her your girlfriend or you'll be making threads about how she did this too you next.



I must have missed the part where he said she was flirting? Does being friendly count as flirting?
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a virgo player?
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U have already answered your question. You said she was confident yet shy. Virgos can be very hard to read and they have some difficulty reading others as well. So what you have to do is ask. If u dont u will continue to get not so on purpose mixed signals. And tbh she prolly wants you to ask. About her relationship w her boyfriend that is. Is it serious? Maybe its an unstable relationship and she is looking for a reason to end it..IJS..