Virgo girls!!! In need of advise!!

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by taurus92 on Tuesday, August 4, 2015 and has 7 replies.


hi virgo girls..i know this may sound a little stupid to ask but can I please! have some advise about the personality or the characteristics of a virgo girl? I know it maybe different from 1 girl to the other but im pretty sure there are some points that you girls share the same common traits?


also, I would like to know that overall, those it take long for a virgo girl to fall in love? ( again i know it may be vary but overall, how fast does a virgo girl fall? ) and..when you girls fall..loyalty and faithfulness is a maximum?



again, i apologize coz i sound stupid. just need some help and advise.
Most common trait would be shyness. And you won't find a virgo woman who's manly.
Even when some of them may act in a manly way they would still come of as feminine.

Virgo women can fall in love quickly if she find someone to be really attractive and the
other person might not have to work at all to make her fall in love with them.

In my case i become so much attached to the person i love that i stay loyal.
I agree with Tanya. Especially on the loyalty. It's not even a question for me. I'm in love, I'm all yours and I expect you to be all mine. Shyness, yup. Been told that my whole life-don't ever tell me to go socialize, that shit pisses me off! I will when I'm good and ready, thank you! Sorry, off topic a little here, lol.
Anyway, sounds like you're pretty solid. If she's a little cold, she's got something buzzing through her busy Virgo mind.
On falling in love: personally I step lightly, trust must be earned before I will go full on "I love you". Even then, im reserved until I'm confident I won't get hurt. But once that happens, all is given. I'd do anything for the one I love and have a hard time letting go. I like doing small things, more practical things that probably go unnoticed (like your laundry/dishes). We Virgos tend to be people pleasers!
Traits: I don't know that other Virgos are as emotional as I am, but, I've been told I'm too emotional. I will analyze and overthink everything said to me and seek clarity IF I give a shit about you. I'm sure there's more to elaborate on here...
Posted by JustALeo
Tanya, if you don't mind me asking what is your opinion on the Virgo woman going cold situation?

I've been dating a Virgal for a month now...we met and she thought I was cocky at first until she got to know me. We started becoming good friends, talking about anything and opening up to each other, the fire was burning and one night I just grabbed her hand and we cuddled. Next thing you know I went in for the kiss and it was magic after that. After 2 weeks she was scared to tell me but she said she's falling for me and the week later she tells me she's in love with me. She even asked me how I got her to fall in love with me so soon...We help each other, appreciate each other and care for each other the same, the passion grows together. We haven't hit a rough spot until now.

She's been busy with work and personal life and just 2-3 days ago she started to become a little distant, even with her words. I'm fine with giving her her space and letting her do her own thing, but at the same time it kills me to know she's right there and we cant be close like we have been -_-

Any advice?


You need to have patience with her. It's only been 2-3 days that she has become bussy. You can message her though and tell how much you miss her.
Posted by mysteriousstargazer
I agree with Tanya. Especially on the loyalty. It's not even a question for me. I'm in love, I'm all yours and I expect you to be all mine. Shyness, yup. Been told that my whole life-don't ever tell me to go socialize, that shit pisses me off! I will when I'm good and ready, thank you! Sorry, off topic a little here, lol.
Anyway, sounds like you're pretty solid. If she's a little cold, she's got something buzzing through her busy Virgo mind.
On falling in love: personally I step lightly, trust must be earned before I will go full on "I love you". Even then, im reserved until I'm confident I won't get hurt. But once that happens, all is given. I'd do anything for the one I love and have a hard time letting go. I like doing small things, more practical things that probably go unnoticed (like your laundry/dishes). We Virgos tend to be people pleasers!
Traits: I don't know that other Virgos are as emotional as I am, but, I've been told I'm too emotional. I will analyze and overthink everything said to me and seek clarity IF I give a shit about you. I'm sure there's more to elaborate on here...




alright, noted on the loyalty part.


but this virgal isnt shy..at all..like totally not shy..she's very comfortable around me and things like that..we talked few days ago about our progress of this relationship. she told me that I'm not the right person for her now to be in a long run. i would also said that she's quite ahead of me in terms of certain thinking and maturity of understanding. I some how feel that Im not giving her the right security now. what a virgo wants in a man? P.S. yes all girls crave security and certain things in her man. but what are total turn offs? or what can I do to let me virgo girl know that I will always be there for her? her pillar of strength that she can ALWAYS count on. showing that I will always be there to help her when she needs it, emotionally, etc.



btw, taurus people are more senstitive and emotionally arent they? =/
Posted by Tanya Jones

In my case i become so much attached to the person i love that i stay loyal.







That's mega fucked up.

I'm willing to bet that you are clueless to that, though. You probably think it's a good quality.

lol

Posted by taurus92

..... it take long for a virgo girl to fall in love?

and..when you girls fall..loyalty and faithfulness is a maximum?






And so there you have your answer.

1. the Virgo girl falls in love so easily, according to Tanya, that the other person doesn't have to put any work on it. She is swooped away just because of attraction. No mention of values, terms or standards. You only have to be attractive to her ... that's the only criteria, apparently.

2. unfortunately, the loyal part can work against you, if you're expecting her to want to treat you that way because you are worth this honor. But, if you feel satisfied in knowing that you have her clinging to an attachment as means of keeping her ... then great for you. If you're desiring her to be loyal to you because she believes that this is the right way to treat a trusting and respectful partner, then you're out of luck.


Because not only did Tanya state this as Virgo traits .... other Virgos reiterated it.

So, the answer to your questions are: 1. be attractive to get her to yield to you, 2. get her to be dependent upon you to make her loyal

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