Virgo Guy Too Sensitive

Hello everyone, I am Capricorn 39yrs, I have been dating a virgo man he is 39yrs old, for the past 3months. Everything was great. He would call everyday, everynight, and sometimes through out the day. He was very caring and sweet. We clicked very well, like we known each other are whole lives. And yes s*x is good. The last time I seen him he cooked dinner for me and was very sweet, but unfortunately I was out with my girls and by time I got to him I was a little intoxicated and I barely ate the food he cooked, and I was little mean when he wanted s*x and told him no, and then on top of it all I passed out on him. He woke up looking meaner than I ever seen him, so I left. After all that, he stopped calling everyday and rarely responding to my msgs. After two weeks now he say his still upset with me. I feel he took my one bad night too personal. I was too intoxicated too be good company so I just went to sleep. Why is that too hard to understand and let go? Why be so but hurt about it? Is he really over me or just trying to be mean to me too hurt me because I hurt his feelings? Im so confused by him. Should I say f**k him and move on, or will he be my sweet babe again. Im so confused.. please help need advice. I don't want to waste no more time with him if that night was a deal breaker for him.

He took you for a respectable woman and then you pass you out drunk at his place.

LOL@ you thinking you're the one wasting time with him. It's the other way around.

It wasn't a minor incident for him.

To you, it may just be "one bad night". But perhaps to him, it was the culmination of several smaller instances, and indicative of larger incompatibility issues.

I don't know though. I'm not him.

He's not too sensitive, he's smart to step back.

Well princess Virgo Males are like snow leopards. Easily spooked and very shy.

You have to understand that his feelings for you run very very deep and you slighted him in so many ways that he thinks this is your true self.

If you want him back you have your work cut out for you. But it is doable.

Most of all he has to see the women he fell in love with. And most of all grow up. If you love someone don't show up drunk unaffectionate and rude.

Posted by Damnata
He's not too sensitive, he's smart to step back.

+1

OP, the question isn't whether he's "too sensitive"; it's whether he's too sensitive for you.

If he gets the impression that he is too sensitive [for you], or that you view him that way, then Damnata is right. He is smart to step back.

From what I know about the Virgo man I've been seeing is they look for perfection, even if they aren't so perfect themselves. If you knew he was going to cook dinner for the two of you and you still went out and got drunk, maybe he took that as a sign of disrespect - I probably would feel disrespected if I made plans with someone and make an effort to do something nice for them and they show up late or don't express gratitude in what I did. Look to his actions and not necessarily his words (at least that's how the Virgo man in my life is) to figure out where you stand with him. If he was in communication with you a lot before this incident and now he's not, chances are he saw something in your behavior that night (or little things leading up to that incident) that he figured he didn't care for.

What are you referencing, CC?

He went to all that effort for you and then you didn't eat his food or respect the time he spent in preparing it. It was actually rude of you to go get drunk then show up like that.

I'd be mad at you too.

He has a right to be upset with you BUT....

He still asked for sex knowing you were intoxicated. Imo, that wasn't right either, and reads as if he would be okay, by now atleast, IF you had sex with him that night. Maybe you both need to take a step back. I mean, he has a right to be extremely upset but its not like he completely turned off by your behavior or didn't see something in it for him at the time.

Wow really. One bad night shouldnt define a person. I am a respectful woman. I carry myself very well. I guess im more of a understanding and realistic person. People do make mistakes. I went to sleep to try and save face. And I have told him I appreciate him and truly sorry. Wow don't judge me.

Sounds like he's done with you if he hasn't spoken to you much in two weeks.
Maybe he was looking for an out...

Hi capwoman39 how are you fellow cappie? 🙂

So seriously .... this guy is going to mentally punish you for weeks because you had a little too much to drink and fell asleep.? I'm sorry but I think that's completely ridiculous. It should be "I'm sorry babe i understand this is a sensitive issue with you and i'll be more careful of your feelings because i want this to work with you." DONE. What's next, divorce when you accidentally burn his dinner?

What do couples do that are together 50 years? They forgive, forgive, forgive. They go through deaths and births and tragedy and failure and ups and downs but they stick together and weather the storm. This guy can't even deal with this? Cappies need a soldier by their side seriously, one who's never gonna let them go. NEXT!!

This isn't about people being together for 50 years, not even about people being committed in their relationship.

They dated for 3 months. If anything, the first months people are always on their best behavior so if she showed herself like that, I can see why he would've bailed quickly. This isn't a teenager, she's 39.
There are always consequences for your actions in life...what gets me the most about his story is how she thinks he is at fault for this and is being sensitive.

Posted by Damnata
This isn't about people being together for 50 years, not even about people being committed in their relationship.

They dated for 3 months. If anything, the first months people are always on their best behavior so if she showed herself like that, I can see why he would've bailed quickly. This isn't a teenager, she's 39.
There are always consequences for your actions in life...what gets me the most about his story is how she thinks he is at fault for this and is being sensitive.

I disagree Damnata.

She made a mistake. She had a little too much to drink and fell asleep and didn't have sex with him. If this happened on a regular basis then yes, it would be a problem.

If they are "committed" as you say, then why would he walk for something like that? That's not commitment. That is what you call a fair weather lover.

I completely agree that she should acknowledge his sensitivity to what happened. Perhaps say something along the lines of "babe, i'm so sorry this upset you so much. I really did make a mistake and i'm sorry. You made me dinner and went out of your way, once again. i'm so sorry I hurt you". And I feel that she did hurt him. I get that. But there should be room for some forgiveness in his heart as well.

In my opinion this should not be a "deal breaker" in a "committed" relationship.

She didn't break the "commitment". She didn't cheat, she made a human mistake.

The silent treatment for two weeks isn't cool. If you are done with the relationship, for whatever reason, then tell someone your done. He at least owes her that much after 3 months.

My whole point was they are NOT committed to each other. It's been only 3 months.

I agree with what you said if they were committed and more time had passed.

So.. The point if this thread: Are you trying to figure out where he's coming from? Or how long it'll take him to get over it and "come around" to your point of view?

well i do think she hurt his feelings poor thing, he must be super sensitive. Maybe he had her on a pedastal and he thought she would never do something like that.

Posted by Andalusia
So.. The point if this thread: Are you trying to figure out where he's coming from? Or how long it'll take him to get over it and "come around" to your point of view?

i think she is wondering is it over or will he forgive her and things will go back to how they were? 😢

Posted by capwoman39

Wow don't judge me.

If you practiced using your own sound judgment then others wouldn't have to.

Instead of doing that, you say several times that you're confused, when you're not confused at all. Are you retarded? If the answer is, "no" .. then you're not confused. You are using that for denial purposes so you don't have to own up to the fact that you did something stupid = you were suppose to be dinning with him, and instead you went out and now you feel guilty.

That is why you are saying how confused you are ... because you're not woman enough to own your own actions.

Use some fucking sound judgment like a woman your age is suppose to .... and maybe then you wouldn't get people like me telling you, you're a dickhead to do something like that to your boyfriend.

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Posted by KittenLaRouge
well i do think she hurt his feelings poor thing, he must be super sensitive. Maybe he had her on a pedastal and he thought she would never do something like that.

This isn't Hiroshima. She didn't eat his food and she didn't sleep with him. Get over it.

If it's a continuous issue I'd understand, but Christ almighty...finicky fussy men and their tantrums and him ignoring her is emotional manipulation ..it's a horrible thing to do and very immature.

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I agree 100% CC. see what I wrote above ----->

Hi capwoman39 how are you fellow cappie?

So seriously .... this guy is going to mentally punish you for weeks because you had a little too much to drink and fell asleep.? I'm sorry but I think that's completely ridiculous. It should be "I'm sorry babe i understand this is a sensitive issue with you and i'll be more careful of your feelings because i want this to work with you." DONE. What's next, divorce when you accidentally burn his dinner?

What do couples do that are together 50 years? They forgive, forgive, forgive. They go through deaths and births and tragedy and failure and ups and downs but they stick together and weather the storm. This guy can't even deal with this? Cappies need a soldier by their side seriously, one who's never gonna let them go. NEXT!!

yeah.. that wasn't so classy. 3 months in and you were already acting like that?? and he cooked for you too!? i've only cooked for two guys in my life, and those times were special occasions so.... not eating his food that he slaved over and passing out drunk... nope.

Posted by capwoman39
Hello everyone, I am Capricorn 39yrs, I have been dating a virgo man he is 39yrs old, for the past 3months. Everything was great. He would call everyday, everynight, and sometimes through out the day. He was very caring and sweet. We clicked very well, like we known each other are whole lives. And yes s*x is good. The last time I seen him he cooked dinner for me and was very sweet, but unfortunately I was out with my girls and by time I got to him I was a little intoxicated and I barely ate the food he cooked, and I was little mean when he wanted s*x and told him no, and then on top of it all I passed out on him. He woke up looking meaner than I ever seen him, so I left. After all that, he stopped calling everyday and rarely responding to my msgs. After two weeks now he say his still upset with me. I feel he took my one bad night too personal. I was too intoxicated too be good company so I just went to sleep. Why is that too hard to understand and let go? Why be so but hurt about it? Is he really over me or just trying to be mean to me too hurt me because I hurt his feelings? Im so confused by him. Should I say f**k him and move on, or will he be my sweet babe again. Im so confused.. please help need advice. I don't want to waste no more time with him if that night was a deal breaker for him.

bolded that because first you make it seem as if it was an inconvenience for you to stop hanging with the girls to go see him... by the time you finally got to him? Then you said you where mean to him? and you wonder why he got upset? I think this has nothing to do with your drunkenness and telling him no to sex and everything to do with him feeling like you where rude, because you where and slighted by you when you where mean.

Doesn't matter if the guy was a Virgo or not, any dude would feel like shit if they are made to feel as if they are not important and especially if you are rude. More so for Virgos.

Posted by capwoman39
I was little mean when he wanted s*x and told him no,

Are so saying you were mean to him by saying no to sex or did you say mean things to him before saying no?

Posted by capwoman39The last time I seen him

Yes..^^^that is correct, find someone who doesn't give a shit, it'll be your best match.

smh

lmao! you guys are hardcore. Tossing three months out for one mistake? I understand though, everone is entitled to their opinion. I had a virgo BF once, a year or so ago, that drove me home, fed me soup and rubbed my feet after i had too much to drink after a dance performance. He was a real sweetie! 🙂

Oh ya, AND he carried me in my house because my feet were sore like a true stud-muffin lol 😛

You guys see one bad mistake.

But you need to stop and think that perhaps there is more to it than that. It seems to me that that night may have been the cherry on top of a whole bunch of other incompatibility issues, thusly triggering an abrupt abandonment.

Three months is more than enough time to figure out when a relationship will not last.


You need to know that Virgo likes to look ahead and if it looks good he is happy. If not than he'll simply move on and forge anew.

Posted by capwoman39
Wow really. One bad night shouldnt define a person. I am a respectful woman. I carry myself very well. I guess im more of a understanding and realistic person. People do make mistakes. I went to sleep to try and save face. And I have told him I appreciate him and truly sorry. Wow don't judge me.

Oh but hunny, didn't you know..judging is what they do best!!!

When I had been dating my boyfriend about 2-3 months in, we had plans one night to go to dinner and a movie. I went to a golf tournament one day. Everyone was sucking down drinks and I chose not to (was the only one sober by the middle of the afternoon). The reason I chose not to drink was because I didn't want to get drunk since I was going to be seeing him that night.

It's all about being responsible and making choices.

I'm starting to think all Virgo guys are way too sensitive! I think that if it was that serious he was offended it should have been discussed the next day when you got yourself together. All this childish behavior for what? Why give her the silent treatment? I swear these Virgo men something isn't right.. I've experienced the same bs with my Virgo. Two days ago he argued with me about taxes. He said he wasn't filing his taxes which makes no sense to me and can't you get fined for that?! So I tried to understand why he thought that was the best thing to do considering he complains about money soo much. If you need money why wouldn't you want that extra money. So we argued about that.... Really -_-... But puts the blame on me and said it was my fault for the argument. They never own up. They run and hide when confronted like little p****s . It's so annoying ... I would say take some time for yourself and have him come to you and he will then talk things out.. It's like the Virgo man wants you to just have no voice, just be a shadow. Don't confront them, if they get mad at you you have to make things right and they'll see if your worthy of them. Like their kings and were peasants type s***.... Bow down to your Virgo smh get the f*** outta here .... He may not be able to handle you, I don't think mine can emotionally. But you'll see you've only even together for 3 months..

Capwoman39

My Virgo once got alittle upset with me when I wouldn't give him sex right away.. But I was telling him where's the damn foreplay you can't just want it like that can we make it alittle intense get me into it first. It's like when they want it that's it don't tell them no don't push them away. It was kinda weird. Normally when you tell a man no they should back off and be cool about it. But instead they get mad... And idk if he will go back to being sweet it takes them a long time to get over bs. They hold grudges like its nothing. It's very stupid I stressed to my Virgo I could die tomorrow and your dumb a** would still e holding a grudge on me and since your givin me the silent treatment you wouldn't even no I'm gone. It's like cherish wtf you have and stop the dumb s***.. Virgos a hard wok

** Virgos are hard work. You have to be the patient one! You have to sacrifice. They don't put enough effort when things are bad! When things are good they will be good to you. But when things are bad and they are tested they don't want to be around for that. Kinda like they don't want to fight.. You'll see how much bs the Virgo will put u through.. But if you want him to be sweet again you'll have to suck up your pride and you'll have to be the man and take the lead to make things right. You'll have to hold your tongue to the bs they do. He will blame you for everything he does wrong. It's your fault because 3 months ago you did this smh... He'll never forget what you did even if it's bs to you and nothing to fight over. To him it's serious.. He might use this against you for a long time.. Oh and god forbid if you have an argument. He'll shut down and really not speak to you. I'm starting to think no one is a good match for the Virgo man... They can't handle strong minded women. They need a woman like a Muslim walks behind her man a shadow.

#lulzwhat?

Says the one that flipped over an ex's bathrobe... you guys are still together?

Some people just don't understand Virgo's and they never will.

@justagirl
The robe should of never been there to begin with. I still believe any women would of felt the same way. I strongly think I was right for snapping out.
Yes we're still together. He still gets mad at me over the dumbest s***.. I'm Starting to get fed up with all his bs. I'm trying to understand the Virgo but y'all weird! It's like the Virgo male is backwards. He gets mad at stuff you don't even think twice about. Your extremely petty.. Even Capwoman39 sees it. She doesn't know how to go about it bcuz it's ridiculous. If your soo logical mr Virgo explain why you think your behavior doesn't alter the relationship? Your silent treatment.. What's the logical explanation for that? Do you think things will get better by ignoring the issue? Get a f****in clue! If you don't like what a person did to you talk it out don't ignore the person, stop calling them as often, if you have a problem address it and move the f*** on.. No one has time for you manipulative mind f***s... Grown ass men still acting like little ass boys.. Just like Michael Jackson a child mind in an adult body..

@PiscesGoddess
So I have an update. Last Friday I got a new revelation from him as he actually gave me a whole lot of text back and forth. He tells me its not about my behavior that night its about me slamming his door leaving that morning. ok, I get it, be pissed at me, but to be upset this long, for real life too short. and I have apologized. But what he expect. He got up after that night telling me he going to church in order to get me to leave, and he knew we planned to spend the night and next day together. So evidently it was about that night also. Oh he had a lot to say. He say he don't got time for childish, spoiled a** little girls. So I got so frustrated with his comments, I told him since he so d**m grown, tell me its over. It took him 2hrs to text back and say "Im good on u u childish, so of course I told him no im good on u u too sensitive. I may be a littled spoiled but far from childish. Im too grown, and has always carried myself well around him. Im thinking that's probably why he liked me. Im just in shock and sad, something so good between us could go this bad over one bad night. Only thing im guilty of is not having any patience for petty sh**t. And when you talk sh**t to me I may talk back, just to clear the air. I don't hold onto bad feelings, its not good for your health. I make peace with a person and move on. I have never in my life met someone like him, UUGGGG. Honestly tho, I miss him like crazy. I think I should just let it go for now, and maybe text him in couple weeks. I need help?? What should I do about him? It was too good between us to let it go for good. Yall think its over for good?? I need serious advice.

Simple.
You are 39, I think you are old enough to decide what you need to do.

Why listen to a bunch of random strangers about your life & relationship? That is a serious question.

Posted by capwoman39
Hello everyone, I am Capricorn 39yrs, I have been dating a virgo man he is 39yrs old, for the past 3months. Everything was great. He would call everyday, everynight, and sometimes through out the day. He was very caring and sweet. We clicked very well, like we known each other are whole lives. And yes s*x is good. The last time I seen him he cooked dinner for me and was very sweet, but unfortunately I was out with my girls and by time I got to him I was a little intoxicated and I barely ate the food he cooked, and I was little mean when he wanted s*x and told him no, and then on top of it all I passed out on him. He woke up looking meaner than I ever seen him, so I left. After all that, he stopped calling everyday and rarely responding to my msgs. After two weeks now he say his still upset with me. I feel he took my one bad night too personal. I was too intoxicated too be good company so I just went to sleep. Why is that too hard to understand and let go? Why be so but hurt about it? Is he really over me or just trying to be mean to me too hurt me because I hurt his feelings? Im so confused by him. Should I say f**k him and move on, or will he be my sweet babe again. Im so confused.. please help need advice. I don't want to waste no more time with him if that night was a deal breaker for him.

Actually he should be the one to say f**K you and move on.

You pretty much put on a disgusting display of drunkenness, took him for granted and treated him like dirt. He has a right to be upset and step back from you. He needs to think and process if you are the right person for him. 3 months is probation time even if sex is involved. You had no right to go to his place drunk when you had plans to begin with. It's not like he asked you to come by when you had other plans. That's taking him for granted. He's not your father nor your furniture. I can't believe you are so insensitive to not see that. I bet you wouldn't want him doing that to you. You would call him on it immediately.

Posted by lnana04
He has a right to be upset with you BUT....

He still asked for sex knowing you were intoxicated. Imo, that wasn't right either, and reads as if he would be okay, by now atleast, IF you had sex with him that night. Maybe you both need to take a step back. I mean, he has a right to be extremely upset but its not like he completely turned off by your behavior or didn't see something in it for him at the time.

He may have not known she was drunk enough to pass out until it happened.
She sat down and ate some of his food.
Anyhow, many men try to have sex with drunk girls.
And within 3 months she is still getting to know what type of guy he is.
Well now she is starting to find that out.
As he realized what type she is.

Posted by truecap
When I had been dating my boyfriend about 2-3 months in, we had plans one night to go to dinner and a movie. I went to a golf tournament one day. Everyone was sucking down drinks and I chose not to (was the only one sober by the middle of the afternoon). The reason I chose not to drink was because I didn't want to get drunk since I was going to be seeing him that night.

It's all about being responsible and making choices.

A person using sensibilities keeps their partner.

Posted by PiscesGoddess

... They can't handle strong minded women.

You're a fucking idiot ....

capwoman39 ... you are also an idiot



Neither one of you have the ability to recognize your errors ... that renders both of you useless to any other person in a partnership, considering it takes two using considerations of each other, and both of you only think of yourself.

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Posted by lnana04
He has a right to be upset with you BUT....

He still asked for sex knowing you were intoxicated. Imo, that wasn't right either, and reads as if he would be okay, by now atleast, IF you had sex with him that night. Maybe you both need to take a step back. I mean, he has a right to be extremely upset but its not like he completely turned off by your behavior or didn't see something in it for him at the time.

He may have not known she was drunk enough to pass out until it happened.
She sat down and ate some of his food.
Anyhow, many men try to have sex with drunk girls.
And within 3 months she is still getting to know what type of guy he is.
Well now she is starting to find that out.
As he realized what type she is.

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Someone mentioned something earlier about her being a respectable woman. My thing is, he's not much of a respectable guy if he saw opportunity in her being intoxicated.

They BOTH sound exremely childish.....extremely! Im starting to notice this with compatible hookups.

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Posted by lnana04
He has a right to be upset with you BUT....

He still asked for sex knowing you were intoxicated. Imo, that wasn't right either, and reads as if he would be okay, by now atleast, IF you had sex with him that night. Maybe you both need to take a step back. I mean, he has a right to be extremely upset but its not like he completely turned off by your behavior or didn't see something in it for him at the time.

He may have not known she was drunk enough to pass out until it happened.
She sat down and ate some of his food.
Anyhow, many men try to have sex with drunk girls.
And within 3 months she is still getting to know what type of guy he is.
Well now she is starting to find that out.
As he realized what type she is.

Someone mentioned something earlier about her being a respectable woman. My thing is, he's not much of a respectable guy if he saw opportunity in her being intoxicated.

They BOTH sound exremely childish.....extremely! Im starting to notice this with compatible hookups.

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Regarding compatibility hookups; I have read this before that there is a tendency to take the other for granted due to the comfort level. I also think due to the special attraction between the two it causes people who don't know how to deal with that chemistry to automatically sabotage.

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Posted by lnana04
He has a right to be upset with you BUT....

He still asked for sex knowing you were intoxicated. Imo, that wasn't right either, and reads as if he would be okay, by now atleast, IF you had sex with him that night. Maybe you both need to take a step back. I mean, he has a right to be extremely upset but its not like he completely turned off by your behavior or didn't see something in it for him at the time.

He may have not known she was drunk enough to pass out until it happened.
She sat down and ate some of his food.
Anyhow, many men try to have sex with drunk girls.
And within 3 months she is still getting to know what type of guy he is.
Well now she is starting to find that out.
As he realized what type she is.

Someone mentioned something earlier about her being a respectable woman. My thing is, he's not much of a respectable guy if he saw opportunity in her being intoxicated.
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And to address the first half.
I think after 3 months they have discovered a flaw within each other.
Pretty par for the course, 3 months is when immature couples tend to fizzle out.

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Posted by lnana04
He has a right to be upset with you BUT....

He still asked for sex knowing you were intoxicated. Imo, that wasn't right either, and reads as if he would be okay, by now atleast, IF you had sex with him that night. Maybe you both need to take a step back. I mean, he has a right to be extremely upset but its not like he completely turned off by your behavior or didn't see something in it for him at the time.

He may have not known she was drunk enough to pass out until it happened.
She sat down and ate some of his food.
Anyhow, many men try to have sex with drunk girls.
And within 3 months she is still getting to know what type of guy he is.
Well now she is starting to find that out.
As he realized what type she is.

Someone mentioned something earlier about her being a respectable woman. My thing is, he's not much of a respectable guy if he saw opportunity in her being intoxicated.

They BOTH sound exremely childish.....extremely! Im starting to notice this with compatible hookups.

Regarding compatibility hookups; I have read this before that there is a tendency to take the other for granted due to the comfort level. I also think due to the special attraction between the two it causes people who don't know how to deal with that chemistry to automatically sabotage.

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Oh gosh, if this isn't the truth!

@capwoman39
Seriously your Virgo is upset with you because you slammed a "door"!!!!!!—! You were drinking you may not have known you slammed it. So what!! Get mad for something real not this bs. But this is the s*** Virgo men put us through. Holding grudges over bs... You gotta be kidding me.. I thought I was the only one experiencing this with my Virgo but now it's so clear something is wrong. Next he'll not talk to you for a month because you forgot to screw the cap on the toothpaste all the way... Smh pure f***ery..
It's def not over but u have to decide if u want to deal with the bs. The Virgo man is very childish from what I'm experiencing. They hold grudges,
they run away from problems, pretty much anything relating to communication and confronting issues he won't know how to handle it especially if you blow up on him.
He's not going anywhere.
But for you just think if he holds a grudge bcuz you slammed a door wtf else is he going to hold a grudge on!?
It's like they act like females and when we tell them your girlin they get bent outta shape. You're emotional about a door but you're not towards anything else -_-
It's clear he likes playing games
It's like we have to write a book to help the Virgo male..y'all just don't know wtf to do. Getting mad about a door, get mad over something more real. this kills me bcuz my Virgo is the same. It's ridiculous
Ur probably going to have to address him about the issues in a manner that doesn't come off as "attitudey" if u raise your tone omg he'll have a fit lol... He'll crawl up in a ball bcuz he can't handle it. So if you want to discuss anything do the opposite of me, try to be nice and kiss their a** and mb they'll stop holding grudges... Gtfoh!!!! Virgo men need to take the sticks out of their a**es and chill out. If you have a problem Virgo man tell her instead of ignoring her wtf how will that solve anything. Your so logical "oh ima give her the silent treatment bcuz she upset me." But how is that going to solve anything she doesn't understand why the f*** your mad dumb a**...

@justagirl
The age means absolutely nothing. She's on here for advise. Is she suppose to have all the answers because she's older -_-

Why can't the viro man just be understanding. She's drunk she's mb not wanting sex just mb take care of her. Stop being so damn petty get over yourself