Virgo Guy versus Sag Lunatic...Advice Needed!

Hello good people of cyber-Sag-dom

I would very much appreciate some good advice from Sag women on interpreting my current predicament (I use this word in the sweetest possible sense).

The Background:

I am 30, male and Virgo with Libra Moon Sign

She is 27, Sag with Leo Moon Sign (if I remember correctly...had too much wine)

We are both from the same Med country and both 'professionals' (I really hate this word but it seems everyone is using it) and both earning good money, with good potential in a major British city.

The 'Story'....(accompanied by drums and loud, agonised screams haha)

We met 'online' on Sunday 9th, at a dating site where we are both registered. It was late at night and she IM'd me. I replied, and we ended up exchanging wittisms for 4 hours until about 2 am (we both had work the next morning...both wasted haha). During our chat, we exchanged tel numbers and I proposed that we meet for coffee/lunch.

Fast forward last Sat (15th) and we meet centrally at 8pm. I take her to a lovely Italian where we enjoy a nice dinner with 2 bottles of house white (split 1.5/0.5 for me/for her). We leave at 11 and she is a bit drunk. I escort her to her flat, which is about 20 minutes away on the tube. She invites me in (it's too late, you may not get a train back etc etc). I say Yes of course, and we actually have coffee (haha the twist e? coffee really means coffee ahem).

All through the date, we have fantastic chemistry with constant teasing both ways and kissing/cuddling. She is a sweetheart and I cannot have enough of her (neither can she of me).

Then while we are all over each other in her flat, I tell her I never have sex on the 1st date. This is true, and it's one of my principles. I tell her that if a woman offers, she falls a lot in my regard. She then retorts 'so I have fallen down on your scale', to which I reply 'No, because we did not do it' (you nympho...thought but not said of course haha).

Long story short...we have some heavy kissing and cuddling throughout, and she attempts to mount me (this sounds like a cheap paperback e? sorry for offending any horse lovers out there haha) 2 more times. I valiantly resist, and after the last attempt she even asks me if I am a virgin (!!!). I reply Baby, I may be a Virgo but I ain't no Virgin let me assure you. I again explain the psychological barrier to sex on the 1st date principle and hopefully now she gets it.

We spent the rest of the night chatting and listening to good music (no more alcohol involved?I am only human and may drop my guard against this sweet lunatic). In the course of this, she tells me that she is not sure what she wants right now (ding dong!), that she technically has a bf of 2.5 years back home and that the main reason for flying back home is to break it off with him (she has not been back for 6 months). She also tells me that she has been on 2 more dates originating from that dating site, but these did not work.

I keep telling her how much I like her and how I want to be with her?and she replies that ?I do not know her, so how can I be like that'.

She says that she is being honest with me, that she must see what happens with her ?current' boyfriend after she comes back next week. I have made it very clear that I will not give up the chase, and that I can see as being an item and painting the city red with our passion.

I have never before met someone with the same effect on me?someone so chilled and yet so fidgety at the same time. So unpretentious and witty, with none of the social hang-ups that most take for granted and accept.

We have this amazing chemistry?whereby we tease and ?push' each other all the time. Then, in instances where I or she say something which makes the other person momentarily angry, we look at each other, smile and then hug and kiss like mad rabbits haha.

Well, what do you think about this? What's the prognosis, Doc?

If I get burned, then so be it. This is one fire in which I am willing to jump with no logical thought, just pure emotion and instinct (just how it should be). Call me a dreamer and romantic, there is no other way I can be?

The funny thing is that Virgo is supposed to be the logical and reserved one, but in our case I am launching a full attack on all fronts and she keeps trying to rationalize the situation and tell me that I should apply logic and take it slowly (?you don't know me, I have a past, etc etc etc).

All input will be greatly appreciated at this time of great social unrest in the Vir-Sag kingdom (our own little piece of the universe).

F

Apologies...I first posted this on the Sag forum, so please substitute 'Sag' and 'women' in the above with 'Virgo' and 'men' (women even, I will not turn down good advice).

Sorry for the C+P sloppiness!

Peace XXX