Virgo guy wants to see me but then says nothing to me when he does
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Foreign_flower on Sunday, November 10, 2019 and has 10 replies.
This Virgo guy is confusing me. Long story- short: after being friends for 3 years I started feeling for this guy and decided to tell him that I am interested. He said he is very surprised to hear about my romantic interests and that he always thought that I dislike him and find him annoying. He rejected me saying we have bad chemistry and he doesn’t want to ruin a friendship for a failed attempt of relationship. I took it very well, said it makes sense to me and we agreed to stay friends.
Problem is that he put his guard on and is hard to approach even as a friend now. I thought he is doing it because he freaked out I said I like him and I just went with it trying to be nice and talk to him occasionally... taking things slow. Now, from a mutual friend of ours, I know that he has been asking about me and that he has been very interested to meet with me. So we went out yesterday with friends and he didn’t say a single word to me for the whole time. Our friends were late so we had to stay alone waiting for them for like 10 min. He literally sat down and said nothing to me, looking at his phone... I had to pull out the words out of his mouth... it was really surprising since I knew he wanted to see me. What do you think is going on in his mind?
I am a Scorpio girl btw
Problem is that he put his guard on and is hard to approach even as a friend now. I thought he is doing it because he freaked out I said I like him and I just went with it trying to be nice and talk to him occasionally... taking things slow. Now, from a mutual friend of ours, I know that he has been asking about me and that he has been very interested to meet with me. So we went out yesterday with friends and he didn’t say a single word to me for the whole time. Our friends were late so we had to stay alone waiting for them for like 10 min. He literally sat down and said nothing to me, looking at his phone... I had to pull out the words out of his mouth... it was really surprising since I knew he wanted to see me. What do you think is going on in his mind?
I am a Scorpio girl btw
He rejected you and said that you guys didn’t have good chemistry, you still want to be friends, which is cool, but then alone waiting on the group he had no words to say to you.
He doesn’t seem interested, even in friendship. If he is he would make a move. You should leave him alone completely. Don’t even try for the friendship at this point.
Ignoring him and focusing on other people in the group may get him to wonder about you.
Right now he probably just still can feel the interest and doesn’t want to be bothered.
He doesn’t seem interested, even in friendship. If he is he would make a move. You should leave him alone completely. Don’t even try for the friendship at this point.
Ignoring him and focusing on other people in the group may get him to wonder about you.
Right now he probably just still can feel the interest and doesn’t want to be bothered.
Posted by saggurl88Actually he is interested in a friendship. He specifically said that he wants to stay friends and that he really values that. I let him make the first step after so he did initiated conversations. My bday is coming up and I know from our mutual friend that he was asking if I am celebrating and told him that they should get me something and take him out. This is why I got confused... he was showing interest consistently in front of my friend and texted me before we met with the group and then he just went super cold when we met in person.
He rejected you and said that you guys didn’t have good chemistry, you still want to be friends, which is cool, but then alone waiting on the group he had no words to say to you.
He doesn’t seem interested, even in friendship. If he is he would make a move. You should leave him alone completely. Don’t even try for the friendship at this point.
Ignoring him and focusing on other people in the group may get him to wonder about you.
Right now he probably just still can feel the interest and doesn’t want to be bothered.
You said :
"He rejected me saying we have bad chemistry and he doesn’t want to ruin a friendship for a failed attempt of relationship."
So... Why would you believe he's now magically willing for more ..?? Regardless of what you friend said.
Let's say he is... Wouldn't you at least expect him to talk to you and tell you himself?
Don't do this to yourself.
Believe what he told you and don't play these childish games.
"He rejected me saying we have bad chemistry and he doesn’t want to ruin a friendship for a failed attempt of relationship."
So... Why would you believe he's now magically willing for more ..?? Regardless of what you friend said.
Let's say he is... Wouldn't you at least expect him to talk to you and tell you himself?
Don't do this to yourself.
Believe what he told you and don't play these childish games.
Posted by Foreign_flowerI think you should take a step back, enjoy your birthday with friends and don’t have any expectations of him.Posted by saggurl88
He rejected you and said that you guys didn’t have good chemistry, you still want to be friends, which is cool, but then alone waiting on the group he had no words to say to you.
He doesn’t seem interested, even in friendship. If he is he would make a move. You should leave him alone completely. Don’t even try for the friendship at this point.
Ignoring him and focusing on other people in the group may get him to wonder about you.
Right now he probably just still can feel the interest and doesn’t want to be bothered.
Actually he is interested in a friendship. He specifically said that he wants to stay friends and that he really values that. I let him make the first step after so he did initiated conversations. My bday is coming up and I know from our mutual friend that he was asking if I am celebrating and told him that they should get me something and take him out. This is why I got confused... he was showing interest consistently in front of my friend and texted me before we met with the group and then he just went super cold when we met in person.click to expand
Sometimes people meddling as a go between can do more harm then good. He is aware of your interest, since you told him firsthandedly, so let him come to you.
At your birthday just chill out and socialize and let him actually show you he’s interested. It’s your day, let him come to you.
Be the queen you are on your day and the peasants will come! 😋
Posted by Lone-WolfYeah but is it after you told someone you weren’t interested? This is a pretty important part.
The not talking very much is something I usually do. Even with people I like lol. I rarely talk unless it’s something It’s a topic I’m super interested lol. Then you can’t get me to shut up 😂
Then the friend telling her otherwise and that’s who she believes, because she likes him and wants to believe this.
Men aren’t this shy, especially if he’s being friendly and joking with the friend.
Posted by Lone-WolfYou're too stinkin cute lol
The not talking very much is something I usually do. Even with people I like lol. I rarely talk unless it’s something It’s a topic I’m super interested lol. Then you can’t get me to shut up 😂
If he rejected you he meant it. Virgo men are blunt and brutal. He analyzed you and determined you arent relationship material for him. Theyre naturally awkward so dont read into it too much, they hate confrontation.
Posted by saggurl88In complete agreement. She made it awkward for him. Now he's uncomfortable and likely feels burdened.
He rejected you and said that you guys didn’t have good chemistry, you still want to be friends, which is cool, but then alone waiting on the group he had no words to say to you.
He doesn’t seem interested, even in friendship. If he is he would make a move. You should leave him alone completely. Don’t even try for the friendship at this point.
Ignoring him and focusing on other people in the group may get him to wonder about you.
Right now he probably just still can feel the interest and doesn’t want to be bothered.
Posted by BasorexiaExactly!
You said :
"He rejected me saying we have bad chemistry and he doesn’t want to ruin a friendship for a failed attempt of relationship."
So... Why would you believe he's now magically willing for more ..?? Regardless of what you friend said.
Let's say he is... Wouldn't you at least expect him to talk to you and tell you himself?
Don't do this to yourself.
Believe what he told you and don't play these childish games.
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