Virgo host is driving me nuts, help

I am genuinely asking for advice.

My Virgo male friend is my host/travel partner during a volunteer trip in his country. Unfortunately, he is driving me up the wall.

Before we came here, he said he would drive and we would stay at a house while I was volunteering on weekdays (since where I volunteer is in a remote place), and during weekends we would move to the city and stay at a hotel. Sounds good. Well once we get here, that's changed. We're always* moving hotels, never staying somewhere more than 2 nights. He also changed his mind about driving so now we're cabbing everywhere. He's indecisive, insecure and nervous. Killjoy as well. I'm usually a positive person 😢

On top of that, he's also hitting on me "jokingly". Where we are, massages are very inexpensive. He'll joke and say "if a girl massages me, are you going to get jealous"? The first few times I laughed it off, but now I roll my eyes and say "NO, do whatever you want." It's happening daily now. It's getting awkward. I'm going to try to ignore him because we've been here for 1 week and it's gotten almost to the point of uncomfortable fighting twice.

1) How do I get him to dial it down on the flirting without causing a big fight and embarrassing both of us?

2) When I'm feeling mad, if I just ignore him and stay silent, will he get the hint?

3) If I just go off and work on my project and limit my time spent with him, will he get offended?

Thank you.

Dude sounds like he doesn't masturbate with all that tension he's harboring. Men tend to become weird when they don't cum for a while so he needs to shoot that load off.

Just be up front. If you don't then he'll think you're playing hard to get and he'll try harder

Thanks for all the replies.

I've said all variations of "this is making me uncomfortable", "I'm not interested", "stop it" etc.

So in order to preserve my sanity I'm going to do a combination of alone time, silence, and if he still flirts I'm going to have fun with it. No point in getting frustrated!

Just give it up to him. You won't regret it... trust me 🙂

So long as you respond to him, he is going to believe that you want his banter.

Make the decision to value what he says ... then ignoring his antics would come naturally and he'll back off because he will realize that you don't give a shit.

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