VIRGO LOVES VIRGO

IM A VIRGO VERY INTERESTED IN ANOTHER VIRGO. WE PLAY A LOT OF FLIRTING GAMES WITH EACH OTHER, WELL SHOULD I SAY MINES IS NOT A GAME, I REALLY LIKE THIS GUY, WE WORK IN THE SAME BUSINESS, BUT KEEP OUR RELATIONSHIP AS FRIENDS. EXCEPT HE WILL DO STRANGE THINGS LIKE CALLING AND NOT SAYING ANYTHING, THEN ILL CALL BACK AND DO THE SAME. WHEN HE CAME TO TOWN HE CALLED ME 7 IN THE MORNING. I DIDNT RETURN HIS CALL TILL LATER THAT EVENING. HE DIDNT ANSWER, THEN HE CALLS ME 1 AM IN THE MORNING TO MEET HIM, AND WE DID AND WE TALKED. WE WERE BOTH SOME WHAT SHY OF BEING ALONE TOGETHER. THEN TWICE HE WAS SUPPOSE TO MEET ME BUT NEVER SHOWED AND NEVER CALLED. I DONT UNDERSTAND HIM. HE IS IN TOWN AND I DESPERATLY WANT TO TALK TO HIM AND SPEND TIME WITH HIM BEFORE HE LEAVES, BUT TOO STUBURN AND PRIDE REFUSE TO LET HIM STAND ME UP AGAIN. BUT REALLY WANT ADVICE HOW TO SPEND POSSIBLY GET SOME TIME ALONE WITH THIS GUY. ANY HELP!!!

3 strikes and I'd suggest kicken' him to the curb if he stands you up again!

VLC, I assume this is a long-distance relationship, he's from out of town? The virgo/virgo relationship is an all-or-nothing prospect. 50/50 chance of success, so you might as well go ahead and flip a coin to see if you can overcome your stubburness/pride to ask himout again.

What odd creatures we Virgos are, LOL. YOu two baffle me.

What you're going to have to do is STOP playing tag with each other, while pretending it to be funny ... if what you want is a mature relationship.

It appears to me that a tone has been set to suggest that this is indeed just a game of being silly, and whether it's a desire on your part, or not, is irrelevant if you participate with this game. A person cannot "play" and then claim that they aren't, if they are. If your intentions are not to play this game .... then why the deception? Why falsely display yourself?

He's not going to repsond back seriously, if the relationship between the two of you is immature, little kid games like this ... for him to take you seriously, you first have to behave like an adult looking for a mature relationship, rather than playing tag, and hide and seek.

The reason why he isn't showing up when plans are in place is because the pace has been set that this is all about playing a game with each other .... he's not taking you seriously because this the terms of the relation. Pretty simple to comprehend ... it's reflective.

oh gawd virgo/virgo is nutso haha me august 27th and my ex august 30th... it's always a battle of the wits. we would end up in bed talking about sex rather than doing it but when we did have sex... hot damn! :-P