Virgo Male - Am I deluded?

I've read a lot of posts about Virgo males that are uncannilly similar to my situation (see previous long post). I fell for a thirty something Virgo guy about 6 months ago and it has been slow moving to say the least, slower than anyone elses experience on here. I am afraid it has ended before it has even begun and I haven't even figured it out yet. The last time I saw him I casually said we should go out on a date (he has been hanging out at mine when he can, he works most evenings) after we spent some intimate time together. I felt like we had gotten a lot closer. I haven't seen him since (6 weeks ago) and have had minimal communication from him on the phone. He has been ignoring me up to a point as well. I know Virgos pull back and you need to be patient with them but this takes the piss. I'm afraid that I have gotten too hung up on the fact that he's a virgo and have made too many excuses for his rudeness. I just refuse to believe he isn't interested coz the connection i feel with him is unlike anything I have felt before and I have been in love once before, but this is different. It feels more solid (when we are together). I would wait as long as it takes if I knew there was any chance. I guess I have to tell him how I feel, but i feel silly when we have never spoken about 'us' in any sense and I haven't seen him for so long. I am currently waiting for him to let me know when he is free for a drink.
I keep telling myself he is scared or emotionally immature, but mates tell me he is probably a player, but my instincts tell me that isn't it. so confused! Can any Virgo men shed any light?

"I am afraid it has ended before it has even begun
I haven't seen him since (6 weeks ago) and have had minimal communication from him on the phone.
He has been ignoring me up to a point as well.
I am currently waiting for him to let me know when he is free for a drink."

maybe you should start trying for interest in other people. those statements speak for themselves.

I'm not interested in seeing anyone else. this one fits me like a glove. I am not even looking for a relationship (I am quite fond of my freedom, love being single) I just like this guy, he got to me, not many men do.

what I meant was, generally I do not look for a relationship, I just wait until that special someone comes into my life that I think is worth giving up singledom for. I think I have made it clear that I at least want to get to know him better, I have pursued him gently. but he is not allowing even that to happen. should I bite the bullet and call him and get this over with? I need to know one way or the other if he is interested in me for more than just sex. Just don't wanna scare him off or show all my cards. I feel vulnerable now...