Dear Libra,
you have so much going for you shouldn't be wasting anymore time with him.
I understand it hurts and it is disappointing, but in time you will heal from this too. Trust me, I know it feels like when Heathcliff cries out : I cannot live without my life, I cannot live without my soul!
But after some healing time later..it turns into OMG what a waste of time..yet AGAIN what was I thinking?? :p
But one advice abt virgo men : if they say they have been in love before, there is often not room for you in thst relationship. Some tend to reflect on lost love to a point it blinds them. And some go on about them too..now rest assured miss.next will hear of you.
But if he isn't able to recognice love starring him in the eyes, fighting for him..he isn't open to love, and that's a match you cannot win even if he think he is.
Libra men and women can be guilty of reflect on old lovers too, but in another way. More like sweet sentiment but not comparing one to another.
This is just personal observation.
I see most libra girls I know in longterm with Sags actually.
Before that they have tried and failed and won some love matches..but to me it seems very often to be the sag that settle down for a long term for the libra girl.
Good luck sweetheart!
are you sure you miss him? maybe you just miss the security that he provided .. and have you ever dated a libra?
Oh boy!
Haha I think that comes from him being young and stupid. Geez! Not a good first impression at all..
Love isn't easy huh?
I see we're the same age, so I am guessing the aries has been relatively young too. I'd opt for over 30 at least.
But yeah you can get the ego boyish one the shy selfconsious one..
But they really are the same types. The male aries is in need of some reassurance now and then, because he is actually very hard on himself. That's why I think some very immature aries guys seem like a douche. If you can understand the little boy in him, you'll see he means no harm at all.
Aries are actually one of the most loyal signs, following taurus.
I don't think you should avoid one if you get the chance to find one you like.
I can be superserious in business meetings one second, sympathizing with someone the next and declare a watergun fight all in one day.
Our mood is very stable, and we are always the same even if we seem to juggle dependable maturity with a serious peter pan syndrome : p
But..enough of that :p
I do feel for your situation! but try to think, as hurtful as it is, that the universe spared you the agony of being with someone who wasn't receptive enough to your effort and love, and since you didn't do anything about it, they saw no other way than to make him pull the plug.
Life is so full of lessons, this one has thougt you what you do and don't deserve in the future.
Lets hope he twirls in agony 1 year from now for being blind to your love. That doesn't mean he was meant for you still..but maybe je needed a lesson aswell.
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Aug 09, 2014Comments: 17 · Posts: 1335 · Topics: 35
why would you hide your post but yet make a thread?
Yup you got yourself a bachelor virgo who is always searching for perfection in everything and anyone.
why would you even give him money if he isn't married to you let along on a student budget?
You definitely got used up now he is on to the next he thinks your mentally weak and he know he would walk all over you so he tried to "LET YOU DOWN EASILY" without trying to feel guilty.
You're flighty and he's selfish yeah try a sag or a leo guy.
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Aug 12, 2009Comments: 0 · Posts: 4771 · Topics: 30
I was able to read the OP's initial post (despite the deletion) from other posters who quoted her.
The Virgo's indecisiveness was simply 'mirrored' through the OP's actions.
1. She didn't want a commitment, but accepted the committed relationship 'perks' that came with it (ie, the meeting of the friends, family members, all the attention, holidays, trips, and etc.)
2. She didn't want a committed relationship, just honesty, but felt slighted when he chatted with other women.
After the wedding, the smoke clears, and the 'mirroring' is over...
The Virgo realizes,
1. He doesn't want to enter into a permanent union based on superficiality. Attempting to impress a woman using financial resources will eventually have an expiration date.
2. He wants to keep his options open, and take on the dating offers from the women he was chatting with.
The OP may never admit this, (stating he was materialistic...and stating that she, herself, was quite the contrary was nothing but hogwash).
If anything meaningful developed through that union, he wouldn't have felt the need to impress her, and he would have immediately thought about her after hearing those wedding vows.
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Aug 09, 2014Comments: 17 · Posts: 1335 · Topics: 35
I have a libra brother and know a few libra and if I learned anything they are not compatible with earth or water (depending other placements in the chart) stick to fire and air. Also, every story they tell is always twisted to their liking they always turn the situation into being victims of things they caused.
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Aug 09, 2014Comments: 17 · Posts: 1335 · Topics: 35
Your feelings will not be spared on this website if you wanted to vent you could just a call a friend. Yea sure some are mean and some will just give straight up honesty if you don't want honesty then don't post anything at all. Libra hate honesty that's been my observation you guys get defensive and throw tantrums because no one is feeling sorry for you.