So I met a Virgo man (28, I'm 27) online and we hit it off straight away. He came on very strong and intense and passionate.
He said he was extremely sexually attracted to me the second he saw my photos but very very quickly after we started chatting he realised there was so much more to me and said that I stimulate his mind.
We texted all day and talked for hours on the phone all night for 3.5 weeks and he pushed and pushed to see me. He told me he loved me after about 10 days of talking but before that kept saying how he was falling for me and he hadn't felt like this in so many years. He would say things like he hopes we work out and he would love for me to be the last woman he ever makes love to and he means every word he says.
So he drove 3 hours from his city to my city to meet me.
The date a few nights ago went really really well and he ended up sleeping together and he told me loved me many times and used his pet names for me. He told me my photos don't do me justice and I am far more beautiful in person and he loves making me smile.
But the next morning before he had to drive back he kissed me and said he will definitely see me again but he didn't tell me he loved me (first day he hadn't said it since he started) and contact was noticeably less than usual but he was still texting back etc.
I asked him this morning if he decided he didn't love me anymore or wanted to back peddle a bit on anything he had said to just be direct with me and he said he wanted to back peddle a bit. I told him I still love him and if he doesn't want me anymore to just come out with it so I can move on. He gave me a long message about how he thinks long distance relationships are really really hard to maintain and thinks we won't be able to work out because of that but I think there is something more that he isn't telling me.
He said it was his fault because it became very real very fast and it scared him off a bit and he feels very hurt by it all and doesnt mean to break my heart and break his promises he made to me. I asked him to call me tonight for a few minutes so we could talk for a bit and he said he would (but I dont know if he really will).
Do Virgo men do this? Come on strong and then back right off and break things off? Do they mean what they say when they tell someone they love them? After some time will be reappear in my life wanting to try again??? I really fell hard for him and loved his company... I would love a second chance.
Give up while you are ahead!
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Apr 12, 2015Comments: 1423 · Posts: 3710 · Topics: 58
Hes right long distance is too hard to maintain.
Sure you might have a stalker climbin in your window late at night to steal Your panties.. but thats not love anymore.
Find a virgo more close to you get better results
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Feb 11, 2010Comments: 252 · Posts: 38715 · Topics: 473
If he was an honest man, he would have brought up the mindset about the distance before having sex with you.
He didn't.
There is no "he is scared" here. There is no "he has worries about managing things".
I did long distance and I could do it again. It helps with my need for space. But when I did it, I cared about that person and had a plan figured out. We ended up moving together after 2 years. I wouldn't even entertain the notion if I knew it wouldn't work out.
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Apr 12, 2015Comments: 1423 · Posts: 3710 · Topics: 58
Dont ever give up sex on first date with virgo poor way of establishing anything solid..
he will flip/flop down the road as a possibility it may only be for sex mind you.. it wont be too much more then that.. he is currently back tracking so you agree and let go dont even be friends lose anything connecting to him.. name, number, facebook blah blah blah..
Get over it start fresh keep away from internet relations.
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Apr 12, 2015Comments: 1423 · Posts: 3710 · Topics: 58
They dont mean a damn thing if there isnt a solid rock that its established on.. anyone can talk swoon say I love you.. coming on strong from a virgo I would consider a cautious sign they are usually slow as funk getting to know a person and establishing a strong stable bond.
You got your ear talked off by a bad egg.
Well i'm swearing off guys for a while and definitely not getting back in with a Virgo!
I wonder what the best sun sign is out there for genuine guys, i mean i know if a guy is going to be a player he's going to be one, regardless of his sign but still, i wonder...
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
The title says: Virgo man fell hard for me
.... when in reality, he didn't fall at all. You're so deluded that you have no awareness that he never even fell for you, much less hard.
You're not exactly smart, now are you? ... that's a prerequisite for any Virgo. He probably realized early on how dumb you are, and so figured it would be easy to get your panties off. And he was right, wasn't he?
Afterall, you said you had values in not sleeping with him, then fucked him anyway. He knew you were going to fuck him, that's why he drove 3 hours to get that nut.
any guy, not just a Virgo, would disregard an easy piece of ass as ...... an insignificant piece of ass. Because he is in full knowledge that you'll fuck on first date if the guy says the right words.
How easy that was for him. he only had to say the word "love" and you fell to your knees ready to suck him off.
I"m sure he's literally disgusted at you when thinking about finding a decent woman worthy of his time.