Virgo Man MIA--Is it over?
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by PGirl on Saturday, May 11, 2013 and has 13 replies.
lol Yes. No recovery. He said he wants to be the best treetrunk of your life. That's code for He just wants it, not you. Please understand, a guy will sometimes say things to get into your pants. Esp a Virgo - to say anything in terms of feelings early on is like - I can fly to the moon - unheard of. Personally, I wouldn't bother. It'll just be a game from now on.
Posted by PGirl
thanks Kindleberry.
I guess we have been friendly for three months talking everyday and i just think if there is another girl, why lie? he told me about the other girls before?
thanks for saying you think it was just about sex. I disagree, cause if it was, we could have. he just kept saying he was scared. Now, i'm sure there is a girl visiting him or something, but should i push the issue and ask why he won't tell me? i don't want to push him away further, but i don't understand what happened to him being open and honest either.
let me know, you seem smart.
PGirl,
I feel we are on the same boat! I couldnt read your original post but my Virgo has been MIA also!! We are having amazing sex and he was so affectionate and suddenly gone! We were not serious but we were going out with my/his friends and he was making plans with me.. so I am so confused! I was told Virgo do this often. They just disappear! I feel there must be other girl that is keeping his attention away from me but I am also not chasing him! If we are meant to be together he will be back.. otherwise it is his loss! I like him a lot!!!! But I have my pride so I am not calling him but I am sure I will fall for him if he calls again lol!!
All the women who captured her Virgo, he stayed with her and never left her.
All the women who lost her Virgo, he left her and never came back.
If you are a female and you are experiencing a Virgo man disappearing on you, then it means he has moved away from you. So, do yourself a favor and quite pinning over a guy who doesn't want you.
The Virgo doesn't go MIA with the person he wants to be with. In fact, the Virgo, "In Love" is the most loyal man alive.
All the women who lost her Virgo, he left her and never came back.
If you are a female and you are experiencing a Virgo man disappearing on you, then it means he has moved away from you. So, do yourself a favor and quite pinning over a guy who doesn't want you.
The Virgo doesn't go MIA with the person he wants to be with. In fact, the Virgo, "In Love" is the most loyal man alive.
Posted by P-Angel
All the women who captured her Virgo, he stayed with her and never left her.
All the women who lost her Virgo, he left her and never came back.
If you are a female and you are experiencing a Virgo man disappearing on you, then it means he has moved away from you. So, do yourself a favor and quite pinning over a guy who doesn't want you.
The Virgo doesn't go MIA with the person he wants to be with. In fact, the Virgo, "In Love" is the most loyal man alive.
+1
Well what about their reflecting time P-Angel. I am a 14 year old Cancer and my bf is a 15 year old Virgo. We started dating in October of 2012. He is in the process of moving and is very upset about it. They are having a house built so they have to stay in a temporary place for about 5 months and then move to his permanent home. He already moved 3 times before that, and he has verbalized many times how upset he is. Recently he scheduled a kiss at school...it took a week and a half. That afternoon I saw him change before my eyes. He went from very close and talking to me to turning his back to me. It seems every time he takes this time out, he comes back closer. But his time outs are getting more frequent. I'm thinking it is stress with the move. He told me he keeps waking up in the middle of the night in his temporary residence.
P-Angel you made this statement:
Hi, v-lady ... welcome back. Obviously the Pisces man is history.
This is normal for Virgo men, and yes, we discuss it often. And being a woman, it's not easy to sit back with overwhelming emotional intensity for somebody ... but, this is their way.
Maybe this will ease you a tad .. the V man only pulls away and goes MIA when he is into a woman ... if he kept constant casual contact at this stage, then he's not into you.
Though, you want verbal validation .. if you let yourself realization that by not giving you the "verbal", and looking at the absence and what it really means for him to do this .. then you'll see that by his actions of withdrawing completely without contact actually means he likes you very much.
When dealing with Virgo men (opposite of the females who are verbal at these times) .. you have to register his actions as indicators. That was on 12/6/2007 12:45:25 PM verbatim.
P-Angel you made this statement:
Hi, v-lady ... welcome back. Obviously the Pisces man is history.
This is normal for Virgo men, and yes, we discuss it often. And being a woman, it's not easy to sit back with overwhelming emotional intensity for somebody ... but, this is their way.
Maybe this will ease you a tad .. the V man only pulls away and goes MIA when he is into a woman ... if he kept constant casual contact at this stage, then he's not into you.
Though, you want verbal validation .. if you let yourself realization that by not giving you the "verbal", and looking at the absence and what it really means for him to do this .. then you'll see that by his actions of withdrawing completely without contact actually means he likes you very much.
When dealing with Virgo men (opposite of the females who are verbal at these times) .. you have to register his actions as indicators. That was on 12/6/2007 12:45:25 PM verbatim.
All the women who captured her Virgo, he stayed with her and never left her.
All the women who lost her Virgo, he left her and never came back.
If you are a female and you are experiencing a Virgo man disappearing on you, then it means he has moved away from you. So, do yourself a favor and quite pinning over a guy who doesn't want you.
The Virgo doesn't go MIA with the person he wants to be with. In fact, the Virgo, "In Love" is the most loyal man alive.
Kind of confused by the statement you recently made.
All the women who lost her Virgo, he left her and never came back.
If you are a female and you are experiencing a Virgo man disappearing on you, then it means he has moved away from you. So, do yourself a favor and quite pinning over a guy who doesn't want you.
The Virgo doesn't go MIA with the person he wants to be with. In fact, the Virgo, "In Love" is the most loyal man alive.
Kind of confused by the statement you recently made.
Posted by PGirl
thanks Kindleberry.
I guess we have been friendly for three months talking everyday and i just think if there is another girl, why lie? he told me about the other girls before?
thanks for saying you think it was just about sex. I disagree, cause if it was, we could have. he just kept saying he was scared. Now, i'm sure there is a girl visiting him or something, but should i push the issue and ask why he won't tell me? i don't want to push him away further, but i don't understand what happened to him being open and honest either.
let me know, you seem smart.
Virgos are confusing. They never know what they want. Personally I find they just want to do whatever falls in their lap.
btw if you have doubts there's a reason for those doubts. Women have good "guy feelings" at least mine's always on the spot. My Virgo is a notorious liar and cheater. He takes his secretive lies to grave but I know them all anyway lol when you know someone better than the back of your hand - you just know. I just pretend I know nothing but I know everything. When you finally admit to yourself that it's you and 3-5 other girls, you eventually get fed up or lose your attraction.
*gut
I don't think you can classify all Virgos the same....or anything for that matter. I should this post to my mom. She has a friend who was in LOVE with her from Jr. year of HS. He asked her out all the time...she always said, I love you like a brother. She told me he always took care of her. He made sure she got home safe at night...never tried to take advantage of her. His brother asked her out and then they ended up getting married. He didn't talk to both of them for 3 years. He is now married and takes care of his wife who has Lupus. He is my god father/uncle. My mom says he has a good soul and would give the shirt off his back for people he loved. He has a huge heart. She only figured out he was a Virgo when we were researching stuff on how a girl should date a guy in HS. I tried the being bitchy to him approach...he didn't take well to that at all...he said I was being mean and he couldn't handle it. He took a week break. He is my first bf and I see the same qualities in him as my uncle. He helped a kid from sixth - eighth grade get his lunch everyday because he was in a wheel chair....he didn't tell anyone about it. His dad went to school one day, saw him doing it, and the teacher confirmed he did it everyday for all that time.
Well, my Virgo man is back. I guess he needed to regroup. We are all good once again. I think I get this Virgo pattern thing. I am a Cancer girl...I do not want sex, we haven't even french kissed yet....I am just not ready and he said he would go slower...and he has. I love my Virgo man!!!! 
4 days.
Before I was trying to figure him out...I didn't want to get hurt so I was very mean to him. A week went by...at school he was cold, (but I was mean), he texted me saying he needed a break because I was so mean to him and he couln't handle it. A week and a half went by...he texted...my break is over. I understand what he needs now!!! With the 4 day break, I feel him so close to me now!!
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