virgo man - moving fast then disappered

I met this virgo man a little over a month ago. He's an ex pro athlete, divorced, with 2 daughters. He is also 7 years older than me & we live in two separate states. When we first met - in my state - he told me right off the bat that I was going to be his wife. I laughed it off of course. Since meeting we would text non stop- he would send me long messages about how he felt about me and what he was looking for in a woman ( some messages made me feel a little overwhelm because it was so much to reply to and some things that I did not know how to respond). He was overly emotional for someone I just met. I honestly wasn't taking him too serious. He's attractive, ex pro athlete with money and I'm sure he woman all over him...

Our first disagreement came from when I did not call him back in an "appropriate time," he told me that I wasn't a woman of my word even though I called him. That was the first red flag. He really blew up - and called me a liar because he missed the call. When I stop responding back to him he apologized and asked me if I was available in the middle of the week for dinner. He flew out from Florida to Texas for one night to take me to dinner. I was a little shocked he did this which showed that he was really interested in me. At dinner I brought up the conversation about him calling me a 'liar' and let me know I did not appreciate it but I will forgive. He told me I was controlling ( I do have some controlling tendencies but I did not see how I was controlling by bringing up a past issue that I was not over yet). After he apologized & we got over that conversation the date went well and I started to really like him. At the end of the night he booked me a ticket to come out to Florida 5/21...

Since then we continued to talk on the phone and text. Since he's retired he text me non-stop throughout the day where as I - have a job and can't respond back to him at times. Which became an issue for him and he went an entire day without reaching out to me - to prove a point. I was so annoyed by him doing this and brought it to his attention. He wrote back this long message basically calling me controlling once again and said that I'm not taking him as serious as he's taking me. Then he told me that I don't have experience being in a relationship since I haven't been in one as recent as he's been in one. Since I couldn't respond back to his long ass text, I decided to call him - he wouldn't let me talk - he talked the entire time saying how this isn't going to work and I'm terrible at communication & anytime I would try to say anything he would dismiss me. I told him, ' I really don't want to argue with you,' he stopped me and said "you're always saying what you don't want" and kept calling me controlling. The conversation was so draining. He told 'I'm no longer investing in you' and hung up.

I reached out to him a day later after my emotions came down some to talk. He completely ignored me. He text back two days later saying ' I hope you have a great week.' I asked him about the trip and if he still wanted me to come and nothing. He ignores me. I don't know why I'm so bothered by it. I feel a little silly that I even reached out but damn are virgo men really like this? I don't know what else to think but to let him go...

Him:

Virgo Sun

Taurus moon

Virgo mer

Leo ven

Leo mars

Me

Virgo Sun

Cancer moon

Virgo mer

Virgo ven

Gem mars

Y'all Virgos lol

Sounds like you've met your match.

He was telling you how much he felt for you, you took it lightly and didn't believe him.

You say he's controlling even though you admit to be somewhat the same way- But one of you needs to be right and not play the victim, problem is you're both Virgos.

Then you don't call him when you say, but are annoyed when he doesn't answer the calls you grace him with, when you are available.

So whos emotions are more valid here? Yours or his?

Whose gonna win?

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He sounds controlling, egotistical, immature and emotionally manipulative.

He moved fast to secure his territory and then when he found out that it would take a lot of work with you, he dipped.

If you feel the emotional drain now, don't let him come back even if it's merc rx.

He moved way too fast for my liking - which was making me hesitant to take him a serious. Then the moment I give in a little he changed. He did tell me we argue too much - it was our 2 disagreement in the one month we knew each other. We both agreed that it was a little abnormal and maybe us being long distance doesn't help either.

I felt so emotional all last week, not all of it was because of him. He did play a role. Last night, I told myself to let it go and not to reach out to him. I deleted his number & social media.

I am laughing at him calling YOU controlling. The nerve.

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a few weeks in and he is calling you a liar, throwing tantrums when you are at work and not taking his calls, and being manipulative and petty. The red flags abound. I'd run fast and far far away. No dick is worth this headache and emotional abuse.

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Y'all Virgos lol

Sounds like you've met your match.

He was telling you how much he felt for you, you took it lightly and didn't believe him.

You say he's controlling even though you admit to be somewhat the same way- But one of you needs to be right and not play the victim, problem is you're both Virgos.

Then you don't call him when you say, but are annoyed when he doesn't answer the calls you grace him with, when you are available.

So whos emotions are more valid here? Yours or his?

Whose gonna win?

How could you feel so much for a person you just met? It was a little too much and slightly unbelievable.



I can admit to being controlling but he thinks he's mr. perfect. When I told him he was controlling he flip sh!t. I don't have any problem to being wrong or admitting when I'm wrong. I'm not sure if he could say the same.

I don't think two virgos (especially me & him) are compatible. I think my gem mars is not a fit for most virgo men either.

He called me while I was doing my hair. Then told me to call him back because I wasn't giving him 100% attention. I called him back when I finished - he didn't answer. Then text me this long as text about me not being a woman of my word. I was so confused, I called you sir— You didn't answer.. but whatever...

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Since it did a double post I'll add...

a few weeks in and he is calling you a liar, throwing tantrums when you are at work and not taking his calls, and being manipulative and petty. The red flags abound. I'd run fast and far far away. No dick is worth this headache and emotional abuse.

you're so right about that! I just feel so silly for even reaching out after he hung up in my face then to call his ass the next day...

Sis, the block and delete button are FREEEEEE

Use em lol.

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Y'all Virgos lol

Sounds like you've met your match.

He was telling you how much he felt for you, you took it lightly and didn't believe him.

You say he's controlling even though you admit to be somewhat the same way- But one of you needs to be right and not play the victim, problem is you're both Virgos.

Then you don't call him when you say, but are annoyed when he doesn't answer the calls you grace him with, when you are available.

So whos emotions are more valid here? Yours or his?

Whose gonna win?

How could you feel so much for a person you just met? It was a little too much and slightly unbelievable.



I can admit to being controlling but he thinks he's mr. perfect. When I told him he was controlling he flip sh!t. I don't have any problem to being wrong or admitting when I'm wrong. I'm not sure if he could say the same.

I don't think two virgos (especially me & him) are compatible. I think my gem mars is not a fit for most virgo men either.

He called me while I was doing my hair. Then told me to call him back because I wasn't giving him 100% attention. I called him back when I finished - he didn't answer. Then text me this long as text about me not being a woman of my word. I was so confused, I called you sir— You didn't answer.. but whatever...

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People fall in love at first sight all the time. You can’t invalidate his feelings just cause you don’t fall for someone the same way.

But the other stuff. A woman of your word? Why does that mean? Did you promise to answer your phone every time he called? People have lives.

And you two are Virgos. Isn’t perfection kind of your thing?

I guess only time will tell.

Mutable love. 🥰❤️💔❤️💔❤️

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Y'all Virgos lol

Sounds like you've met your match.

He was telling you how much he felt for you, you took it lightly and didn't believe him.

You say he's controlling even though you admit to be somewhat the same way- But one of you needs to be right and not play the victim, problem is you're both Virgos.

Then you don't call him when you say, but are annoyed when he doesn't answer the calls you grace him with, when you are available.

So whos emotions are more valid here? Yours or his?

Whose gonna win?

How could you feel so much for a person you just met? It was a little too much and slightly unbelievable.



I can admit to being controlling but he thinks he's mr. perfect. When I told him he was controlling he flip sh!t. I don't have any problem to being wrong or admitting when I'm wrong. I'm not sure if he could say the same.

I don't think two virgos (especially me & him) are compatible. I think my gem mars is not a fit for most virgo men either.

He called me while I was doing my hair. Then told me to call him back because I wasn't giving him 100% attention. I called him back when I finished - he didn't answer. Then text me this long as text about me not being a woman of my word. I was so confused, I called you sir— You didn't answer.. but whatever...

People fall in love at first sight all the time. You can’t invalidate his feelings just cause you don’t fall for someone the same way.

But the other stuff. A woman of your word? Why does that mean? Did you promise to answer your phone every time he called? People have lives.

And you two are Virgos. Isn’t perfection kind of your thing?

I guess only time will tell.

Mutable love. 🥰❤️💔❤️💔❤️

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I guess you're right about that. It was just too much for me but it didn't scare me off.

The whole 'woman of your word,' thing comes from him not receiving my call. He called me a liar because the call didn't come through on his phone. So I sent him a screen shot of me calling him and he was still in denial...

Then when I told him about the name calling - he was like I didn't call you a liar, I said you was lying - like wtf?

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Sis, the block and delete button are FREEEEEE

Use em lol.

lol! They are being used now!

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Y'all Virgos lol

Sounds like you've met your match.

He was telling you how much he felt for you, you took it lightly and didn't believe him.

You say he's controlling even though you admit to be somewhat the same way- But one of you needs to be right and not play the victim, problem is you're both Virgos.

Then you don't call him when you say, but are annoyed when he doesn't answer the calls you grace him with, when you are available.

So whos emotions are more valid here? Yours or his?

Whose gonna win?

How could you feel so much for a person you just met? It was a little too much and slightly unbelievable.



I can admit to being controlling but he thinks he's mr. perfect. When I told him he was controlling he flip sh!t. I don't have any problem to being wrong or admitting when I'm wrong. I'm not sure if he could say the same.

I don't think two virgos (especially me & him) are compatible. I think my gem mars is not a fit for most virgo men either.

He called me while I was doing my hair. Then told me to call him back because I wasn't giving him 100% attention. I called him back when I finished - he didn't answer. Then text me this long as text about me not being a woman of my word. I was so confused, I called you sir— You didn't answer.. but whatever...

People fall in love at first sight all the time. You can’t invalidate his feelings just cause you don’t fall for someone the same way.

But the other stuff. A woman of your word? Why does that mean? Did you promise to answer your phone every time he called? People have lives.

And you two are Virgos. Isn’t perfection kind of your thing?

I guess only time will tell.

Mutable love. 🥰❤️💔❤️💔❤️

I guess you're right about that. It was just too much for me but it didn't scare me off.

The whole 'woman of your word,' thing comes from him not receiving my call. He called me a liar because the call didn't come through on his phone. So I sent him a screen shot of me calling him and he was still in denial...

Then when I told him about the name calling - he was like I didn't call you a liar, I said you was lying - like wtf?

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Lmao at the liar comment.

Well it all seems to be cleared up. You guys are famous for ignoring folks when you’re upset.

Guess both of you can’t do the same thing at once though 🥴😏

So instead call him and give him a piece of your mind.

Let him have it.

He will quietly sit back and enjoy, while thinking about how much you care enough about him, to cuss him out. 🙄

Get that apology you’re owed 😩😂🤣😅

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Since it did a double post I'll add...

a few weeks in and he is calling you a liar, throwing tantrums when you are at work and not taking his calls, and being manipulative and petty. The red flags abound. I'd run fast and far far away. No dick is worth this headache and emotional abuse.

Virgo dick is 🤣🤣🤣 😫💅🏽

It's not your gem mars ppl can't handle it's your cancer moon/venus virgo on again off again non consistent approach.

The amount of ego in him with is leo parts arent going to allow him to accept anything less then consistancy which is why he is being a dick.

Believe me, you were just one of many of the same countless stories that I’m sure he told to other women. Believe me I am very familiar with the Jocks behavior. Lmfao about MOVING FAST. I love women like you ❤️❤️❤️❤️😂😂😂😂

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It's not your gem mars ppl can't handle it's your cancer moon/venus virgo on again off again non consistent approach.

The amount of ego in him with is leo parts arent going to allow him to accept anything less then consistancy which is why he is being a dick.

This is some solid ass advice!

It's a good thing she's getting it from you, since Virgo men don't articulate well when they are inside of a relationship. If only it could be that easy!

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Y'all Virgos lol

Sounds like you've met your match.

He was telling you how much he felt for you, you took it lightly and didn't believe him.

You say he's controlling even though you admit to be somewhat the same way- But one of you needs to be right and not play the victim, problem is you're both Virgos.

Then you don't call him when you say, but are annoyed when he doesn't answer the calls you grace him with, when you are available.

So whos emotions are more valid here? Yours or his?

Whose gonna win?

How could you feel so much for a person you just met? It was a little too much and slightly unbelievable.



I can admit to being controlling but he thinks he's mr. perfect. When I told him he was controlling he flip sh!t. I don't have any problem to being wrong or admitting when I'm wrong. I'm not sure if he could say the same.

I don't think two virgos (especially me & him) are compatible. I think my gem mars is not a fit for most virgo men either.

He called me while I was doing my hair. Then told me to call him back because I wasn't giving him 100% attention. I called him back when I finished - he didn't answer. Then text me this long as text about me not being a woman of my word. I was so confused, I called you sir— You didn't answer.. but whatever...

People fall in love at first sight all the time. You can’t invalidate his feelings just cause you don’t fall for someone the same way.

But the other stuff. A woman of your word? Why does that mean? Did you promise to answer your phone every time he called? People have lives.

And you two are Virgos. Isn’t perfection kind of your thing?

I guess only time will tell.

Mutable love. 🥰❤️💔❤️💔❤️

I guess you're right about that. It was just too much for me but it didn't scare me off.

The whole 'woman of your word,' thing comes from him not receiving my call. He called me a liar because the call didn't come through on his phone. So I sent him a screen shot of me calling him and he was still in denial...

Then when I told him about the name calling - he was like I didn't call you a liar, I said you was lying - like wtf?

Lmao at the liar comment.

Well it all seems to be cleared up. You guys are famous for ignoring folks when you’re upset.

Guess both of you can’t do the same thing at once though 🥴😏

So instead call him and give him a piece of your mind.

Let him have it.

He will quietly sit back and enjoy, while thinking about how much you care enough about him, to cuss him out. 🙄

Get that apology you’re owed 😩😂🤣😅

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I no longer have the energy to entertain him anymore lol. I deleted his number....

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Y'all Virgos lol

Sounds like you've met your match.

He was telling you how much he felt for you, you took it lightly and didn't believe him.

You say he's controlling even though you admit to be somewhat the same way- But one of you needs to be right and not play the victim, problem is you're both Virgos.

Then you don't call him when you say, but are annoyed when he doesn't answer the calls you grace him with, when you are available.

So whos emotions are more valid here? Yours or his?

Whose gonna win?

How could you feel so much for a person you just met? It was a little too much and slightly unbelievable.



I can admit to being controlling but he thinks he's mr. perfect. When I told him he was controlling he flip sh!t. I don't have any problem to being wrong or admitting when I'm wrong. I'm not sure if he could say the same.

I don't think two virgos (especially me & him) are compatible. I think my gem mars is not a fit for most virgo men either.

He called me while I was doing my hair. Then told me to call him back because I wasn't giving him 100% attention. I called him back when I finished - he didn't answer. Then text me this long as text about me not being a woman of my word. I was so confused, I called you sir— You didn't answer.. but whatever...

People fall in love at first sight all the time. You can’t invalidate his feelings just cause you don’t fall for someone the same way.

But the other stuff. A woman of your word? Why does that mean? Did you promise to answer your phone every time he called? People have lives.

And you two are Virgos. Isn’t perfection kind of your thing?

I guess only time will tell.

Mutable love. 🥰❤️💔❤️💔❤️

I guess you're right about that. It was just too much for me but it didn't scare me off.

The whole 'woman of your word,' thing comes from him not receiving my call. He called me a liar because the call didn't come through on his phone. So I sent him a screen shot of me calling him and he was still in denial...

Then when I told him about the name calling - he was like I didn't call you a liar, I said you was lying - like wtf?

Lmao at the liar comment.

Well it all seems to be cleared up. You guys are famous for ignoring folks when you’re upset.

Guess both of you can’t do the same thing at once though 🥴😏

So instead call him and give him a piece of your mind.

Let him have it.

He will quietly sit back and enjoy, while thinking about how much you care enough about him, to cuss him out. 🙄

Get that apology you’re owed 😩😂🤣😅

I no longer have the energy to entertain him anymore lol. I deleted his number....

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But he loved you lol

What did you make the post for?

And Virgos got all day for the clown behavior! Who are you trying to fool! It's y'alls favorite past time 😆 😛

Posted by Weeds

It's not your gem mars ppl can't handle it's your cancer moon/venus virgo on again off again non consistent approach.

The amount of ego in him with is leo parts arent going to allow him to accept anything less then consistancy which is why he is being a dick.

Yes I agree. I can be a little inconsistent in the beginning but once I'm attached - I'm a clinger and it's hard to get rid of me - or hard for me to let go.

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Since it did a double post I'll add...

a few weeks in and he is calling you a liar, throwing tantrums when you are at work and not taking his calls, and being manipulative and petty. The red flags abound. I'd run fast and far far away. No dick is worth this headache and emotional abuse.

Virgo dick is 🤣🤣🤣 😫💅🏽

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Not the one I had 🥵 damn I feel cheated 😭

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Since it did a double post I'll add...

a few weeks in and he is calling you a liar, throwing tantrums when you are at work and not taking his calls, and being manipulative and petty. The red flags abound. I'd run fast and far far away. No dick is worth this headache and emotional abuse.

Virgo dick is 🤣🤣🤣 😫💅🏽

Not the one I had 🥵 damn I feel cheated 😭

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I only dated 2 and I give them high marks in that department. 😆 It was the other shit that I didn't care for.

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Posted by saggurl88

Y'all Virgos lol

Sounds like you've met your match.

He was telling you how much he felt for you, you took it lightly and didn't believe him.

You say he's controlling even though you admit to be somewhat the same way- But one of you needs to be right and not play the victim, problem is you're both Virgos.

Then you don't call him when you say, but are annoyed when he doesn't answer the calls you grace him with, when you are available.

So whos emotions are more valid here? Yours or his?

Whose gonna win?

How could you feel so much for a person you just met? It was a little too much and slightly unbelievable.



I can admit to being controlling but he thinks he's mr. perfect. When I told him he was controlling he flip sh!t. I don't have any problem to being wrong or admitting when I'm wrong. I'm not sure if he could say the same.

I don't think two virgos (especially me & him) are compatible. I think my gem mars is not a fit for most virgo men either.

He called me while I was doing my hair. Then told me to call him back because I wasn't giving him 100% attention. I called him back when I finished - he didn't answer. Then text me this long as text about me not being a woman of my word. I was so confused, I called you sir— You didn't answer.. but whatever...

People fall in love at first sight all the time. You can’t invalidate his feelings just cause you don’t fall for someone the same way.

But the other stuff. A woman of your word? Why does that mean? Did you promise to answer your phone every time he called? People have lives.

And you two are Virgos. Isn’t perfection kind of your thing?

I guess only time will tell.

Mutable love. 🥰❤️💔❤️💔❤️

I guess you're right about that. It was just too much for me but it didn't scare me off.

The whole 'woman of your word,' thing comes from him not receiving my call. He called me a liar because the call didn't come through on his phone. So I sent him a screen shot of me calling him and he was still in denial...

Then when I told him about the name calling - he was like I didn't call you a liar, I said you was lying - like wtf?

Lmao at the liar comment.

Well it all seems to be cleared up. You guys are famous for ignoring folks when you’re upset.

Guess both of you can’t do the same thing at once though 🥴😏

So instead call him and give him a piece of your mind.

Let him have it.

He will quietly sit back and enjoy, while thinking about how much you care enough about him, to cuss him out. 🙄

Get that apology you’re owed 😩😂🤣😅

I no longer have the energy to entertain him anymore lol. I deleted his number....

But he loved you lol

What did you make the post for?

And Virgos got all day for the clown behavior! Who are you trying to fool! It's y'alls favorite past time 😆 😛

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haha! So I was trolling him on his social media then I pulled away - he must really feel some type of way to continue to ignore me after 5-6 days now *rolls eyes*

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Y'all Virgos lol

Sounds like you've met your match.

He was telling you how much he felt for you, you took it lightly and didn't believe him.

You say he's controlling even though you admit to be somewhat the same way- But one of you needs to be right and not play the victim, problem is you're both Virgos.

Then you don't call him when you say, but are annoyed when he doesn't answer the calls you grace him with, when you are available.

So whos emotions are more valid here? Yours or his?

Whose gonna win?

How could you feel so much for a person you just met? It was a little too much and slightly unbelievable.



I can admit to being controlling but he thinks he's mr. perfect. When I told him he was controlling he flip sh!t. I don't have any problem to being wrong or admitting when I'm wrong. I'm not sure if he could say the same.

I don't think two virgos (especially me & him) are compatible. I think my gem mars is not a fit for most virgo men either.

He called me while I was doing my hair. Then told me to call him back because I wasn't giving him 100% attention. I called him back when I finished - he didn't answer. Then text me this long as text about me not being a woman of my word. I was so confused, I called you sir— You didn't answer.. but whatever...

People fall in love at first sight all the time. You can’t invalidate his feelings just cause you don’t fall for someone the same way.

But the other stuff. A woman of your word? Why does that mean? Did you promise to answer your phone every time he called? People have lives.

And you two are Virgos. Isn’t perfection kind of your thing?

I guess only time will tell.

Mutable love. 🥰❤️💔❤️💔❤️

I guess you're right about that. It was just too much for me but it didn't scare me off.

The whole 'woman of your word,' thing comes from him not receiving my call. He called me a liar because the call didn't come through on his phone. So I sent him a screen shot of me calling him and he was still in denial...

Then when I told him about the name calling - he was like I didn't call you a liar, I said you was lying - like wtf?

Lmao at the liar comment.

Well it all seems to be cleared up. You guys are famous for ignoring folks when you’re upset.

Guess both of you can’t do the same thing at once though 🥴😏

So instead call him and give him a piece of your mind.

Let him have it.

He will quietly sit back and enjoy, while thinking about how much you care enough about him, to cuss him out. 🙄

Get that apology you’re owed 😩😂🤣😅

I no longer have the energy to entertain him anymore lol. I deleted his number....

But he loved you lol

What did you make the post for?

And Virgos got all day for the clown behavior! Who are you trying to fool! It's y'alls favorite past time 😆 😛

haha! So I was trolling him on his social media then I pulled away - he must really feel some type of way to continue to ignore me after 5-6 days now *rolls eyes*

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He'll come back around lol At least you guys have a sense of humor!

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Posted by saggurl88

Y'all Virgos lol

Sounds like you've met your match.

He was telling you how much he felt for you, you took it lightly and didn't believe him.

You say he's controlling even though you admit to be somewhat the same way- But one of you needs to be right and not play the victim, problem is you're both Virgos.

Then you don't call him when you say, but are annoyed when he doesn't answer the calls you grace him with, when you are available.

So whos emotions are more valid here? Yours or his?

Whose gonna win?

How could you feel so much for a person you just met? It was a little too much and slightly unbelievable.



I can admit to being controlling but he thinks he's mr. perfect. When I told him he was controlling he flip sh!t. I don't have any problem to being wrong or admitting when I'm wrong. I'm not sure if he could say the same.

I don't think two virgos (especially me & him) are compatible. I think my gem mars is not a fit for most virgo men either.

He called me while I was doing my hair. Then told me to call him back because I wasn't giving him 100% attention. I called him back when I finished - he didn't answer. Then text me this long as text about me not being a woman of my word. I was so confused, I called you sir— You didn't answer.. but whatever...

People fall in love at first sight all the time. You can’t invalidate his feelings just cause you don’t fall for someone the same way.

But the other stuff. A woman of your word? Why does that mean? Did you promise to answer your phone every time he called? People have lives.

And you two are Virgos. Isn’t perfection kind of your thing?

I guess only time will tell.

Mutable love. 🥰❤️💔❤️💔❤️

I guess you're right about that. It was just too much for me but it didn't scare me off.

The whole 'woman of your word,' thing comes from him not receiving my call. He called me a liar because the call didn't come through on his phone. So I sent him a screen shot of me calling him and he was still in denial...

Then when I told him about the name calling - he was like I didn't call you a liar, I said you was lying - like wtf?

Lmao at the liar comment.

Well it all seems to be cleared up. You guys are famous for ignoring folks when you’re upset.

Guess both of you can’t do the same thing at once though 🥴😏

So instead call him and give him a piece of your mind.

Let him have it.

He will quietly sit back and enjoy, while thinking about how much you care enough about him, to cuss him out. 🙄

Get that apology you’re owed 😩😂🤣😅

I no longer have the energy to entertain him anymore lol. I deleted his number....

But he loved you lol

What did you make the post for?

And Virgos got all day for the clown behavior! Who are you trying to fool! It's y'alls favorite past time 😆 😛

haha! So I was trolling him on his social media then I pulled away - he must really feel some type of way to continue to ignore me after 5-6 days now *rolls eyes*

He'll come back around lol At least you guys have a sense of humor!

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Lol! I have the sense of humor - he's way more serious lol but we will see...I won't hold my breathe.

Run. Very fast and very far. Do not look back.

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It's not your gem mars ppl can't handle it's your cancer moon/venus virgo on again off again non consistent approach.

The amount of ego in him with is leo parts arent going to allow him to accept anything less then consistancy which is why he is being a dick.

Is the issue really her “inconsistency” or is it his lack of emotional security? 🤔

Where in her post did you pick up on her being inconsistent? Is it because she didn’t reply to his text immediately when he wanted her to?

Remember back in the good old days when we had landline phones and had to actually be patient until someone had the time to call us back? Instead of the heavy expectation of an IMMEDIATE response? Maybe I’m showing my age but i wonder how people managed back then. 🤔 lol

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I had a whole wall of text all typed out but all put it simply.

When it comes to fire placements you better be ready to give the same amount of effort/energy. It's just how they are and I'm sure it's not just the phone call I'm for certain there were alot of things he was picking up on which hurt his feelings because he wanted to be given what he was putting in.

Run tf away. He acts entitled, disrespectful, and ignorant of your time. He wants things when he wants them, nevermind that you work and have a schedule. He is using his money and ability to try to woo you, but look past that and all you have is a selfish controlling jerk. He's used to women jumping when he says. That's probably why he's divorced. Why is he single with such seemingly good attributes? Because he's a child. His way or the highway. Taurus and Leo placements don't make it any better. Those are 2 of the most self centered, egotistical signs period. You have to work to make your living, but there is no respect for you. Answer when he says, reply when he says. You're fucking grown, you don't follow anyone else's timeline. And who writes 4 paged letters to someone they just met? He didnt even let you reveal yourself naturally. He just assumed who you were and told how he felt about it. He doesn't even know you all that well. HUGE red flags around the board. Run tf away.

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It's not your gem mars ppl can't handle it's your cancer moon/venus virgo on again off again non consistent approach.

The amount of ego in him with is leo parts arent going to allow him to accept anything less then consistancy which is why he is being a dick.

Is the issue really her “inconsistency” or is it his lack of emotional security? 🤔

Where in her post did you pick up on her being inconsistent? Is it because she didn’t reply to his text immediately when he wanted her to?

Remember back in the good old days when we had landline phones and had to actually be patient until someone had the time to call us back? Instead of the heavy expectation of an IMMEDIATE response? Maybe I’m showing my age but i wonder how people managed back then. 🤔 lol

I had a whole wall of text all typed out but all put it simply.

When it comes to fire placements you better be ready to give the same amount of effort/energy. It's just how they are and I'm sure it's not just the phone call I'm for certain there were alot of things he was picking up on which hurt his feelings because he wanted to be given what he was putting in.

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Gotta have patience for people instead of acting like they have to jump when told. Everyone has their own lives and are busy too. If they can't respect that they need to fuck off and be alone.

Thanks for all of the comments!

I haven't talked to him in over a week now and he never replied back to any of messages, which is fine.

It's a little strange/funny that he is now watching my social media stories and he does not follow me. It's like he's lurking on my page throughout the day...

I don't want to think much into it, but why ignore me but watch my social media??

Do virgo women not stalk?

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Do virgo women not stalk?

Hahaha, I mean...I'll visit your page, examine your pictures and comments... but I will not watch your stories especially when I don't follow you. I don't want to leave my evidence behind while I 'stalk' you... That's a little bold to me.