Virgo man said i love you while making out for the first time

So we made out and admist of what we were doing he said he loved me, he hasnt ever said it before, but generally he isnt commiting to me and we are not in a relationship.

Is this a prank to fuel me into having sex with him ( because we have not had sex yet, i am a virgin) or is it that he actually means it? his moon is in gemini and sun in virgo

Posted by cheekyfaerie
If you're not in a relationship then what is it? You said you communicate all the time, see each other two or three times a week and now you're saying there's no sex involved. Six months of this? He's sticking around for something.

what is that something?

is he in love with me??

he very hot and cold. sometimes he talks to me with such affection and sometimes doesnt even respond to my text or call. he is way more good looking than me and he gets to go out and party in the nights. I am not allowed. i only get to meet him in the evenings. Im afraid he will get irritated and will cheat on me. I will never get to know.

I try to speak to him about his feelings but he doesnt respond very well, he says that his friends find him intolerable and that he can be terrible at times and he cannot be bad to me that is why he is not calling what we have a relationship.

Also i usually flirt him but he isnt very responsive to that.

If he likes me so much then why is he so afraid of commitment or calling us a relationship?

I love you, when having sex?

How many men say this?

It isn't love, it's lust

Sometimes he does things that make me feel like he is in love with me and sometimes it feels like i am just another option in this like, something is better than nothing sorts. And that he is not commiting is because he wants to keep his options open with the hope that he can find better.

Posted by kart
Sometimes he does things that make me feel like he is in love with me and sometimes it feels like i am just another option in this like, something is better than nothing sorts. And that he is not committing is because he wants to keep his options open with the hope that he can find better.

Seems to be you are answering your own questions but just need validation from us.

The best way to clear up confusion is to ask him and have a talk. If it's a relationship that you guys want, set goals for meeting up, talking, etc.

If he doesn't, I would give him his choice and try to move on and not linger around.

Just my thought.

Posted by magma
I'll be surprised if you're not getting played. Hot and cold usually adds up to failed relationship. Sure, it's been 6 months with you, but players by definition aren't celibate. As usual, I hope I'm wrong.

I spoke to him. like generally talking and i mentioned that he would want sex and one day he will give up trying, he said he wants me to take his time. Then we had a steamy conversation generally but i stopped just saying that ' i think its not right to talk like that cus we arent dating or snything and i dont want you to get uncomfortable' he said what is wrong with you, are you crazy nd all. he was like if you want i will come down and meet you right now nd stuff and that i am acting wierd.

he got defensive. what does that say about a virgo man? Do they get defensive like this?

Scary

I love you. Big words right there.

Posted by kart
So we made out and admist of what we were doing he said he loved me, he hasnt ever said it before, but generally he isnt commiting to me and we are not in a relationship.

Is this a prank to fuel me into having sex with him ( because we have not had sex yet, i am a virgin) or is it that he actually means it? his moon is in gemini and sun in virgo

Lol it's his dick in his pants! Lol

He met me for a while again, and admist the talking he generally said 'thats bc you dont love me enough" playfully and i was taken aback. idk i thought he was not into me and was exploring other options. Virgos are crazy. He keeps on calling me stupid and crazy and mad and all. Bc i flirt with him and he cant flirt back (he's bad at it).

Omg i should just give up on this guy. He is really confusing me.