virgo man /scorpio woman

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Unregistered on Tuesday, July 30, 2002 and has 6 replies.
Anyone had experience with this relationship? I am a scorpio woman who fancies a sexy virgo (heart palpitating) and I would like to know some experiences. I am a typical scorpio , intense , passionate , and I have a NEED to know he cares as deeply as I do. He seems to exhibit the typical virgo traits of analyzing and being very critical. I can talk to him so easy and he makes me feel safe. I can't help but feel a bond here , but I am leary of giving in to my feelings too soon, as hard as that is. I don't want to mess a good thing up by getting all weird with my emotions (wink) to my fellow scorps who know where I'm coming from.
HEy babe. Look at the "virgo" compatibility page down below on (duncans) it states that there is a cOMMunication disorder with this pair. I am not sure... I am not either. Nor heard of such success. But..I can tell you most virgo's won't share how they feel inside unless you don't ask and the time is right. THEY ARE HUGE control freaks. AND ooooh their idea of critical is comparable to shredding your sweet innocent lil heart until it gets hard and cold and shrivels up(VERY Sweet and charming at first glance). Have experienced three loves with virgos. The only impression I am left with is of frustration. Hopefully you have a sweet and tender one. If there is truly such a thing.
Oh come on now. Virgos are some of the most caring and kind people in the zodiac. They are analytical and have a good way of seperating their mind from their emotions, which can be an advantage; it means they dont get involved in scenes of drama. They have an inner dignity which i have not seen in another sign and EVERY virgo i know has natural CLASS, not just the kind that money buys. Virgos dont fall in love easily, which is a good thing because it means that they are choosey.
I have two planets in virgo, venus and something else so believe me, i know this. I am also very close to the virgo cusp and my dad is a virgo. He's a picky bastard but when put back in his place, he's ok!!!
I say go for it scorpio lady. Trust your senses, if they are telling you the time is not right then listen to them. I hope you know when the time is right and dont miss your opportunity.
A kind poster.

Scorpio lady,

If that Virgo never experienced intense relationships before, your intensity might scare him away before he has a chance to know you. Virgos avoid drama stuff. So I will say take it slow.
I, a female Virgo, had come across an unforgettable Scorpion guy. I picked this guy intentionally because I wanted to find out why the astrological books said that these two signs are compatible but I never liked any Scorpion before. There is a natural understanding and bond. It is so deep that I felt my soul was completely stirred up by his intensity. Gee ! His intensity was so strong that it gave me headache...I meant physically. He wanted me to give up rationality and just followed my heart, which is very hard for Virgos to do, especially to a person we don't know much. Eventually, I decided to quit.
Scorpios have some traits that Virgos cherish. Virgos needs someone who is subtle and strong at the same time, who is serious to love, who is down to earth and who is sensual.
For some unknown reasons, we were drawn and repulsed to each other at the same time. I believe it was the difference of emotional levels of these two signs. That's what people called "communication problem." Scorpios are feelers and Virgos are thinkers. Virgos, when first encounter Scorpios, will try to analyze what is going on between these two creatures. Virgos will push Scorpios away because of the intensity and then come back for the intensity. The push and pull process might be too long for Scorpios to take.
One more thing, Virgos are smart enough to know Scorpio's mind games. Play some mind games to show your cleverness but too many will make Virgos distrust you.
Go for it. Take your time and be yourself. It will take longer time than you expected to know a Virgo. You will have a better chance to make something nice happen if that Virgo has experienced intense relationships. Be aware of your dramatized personality. (Don't take me wrong. I simply try to state the fact not take this opportunity to offend my lovely Scorpio friends.) Virgos are sensitive enough to get the subtle messages you send. We just need time to decide what to do next when it comes to relationship.
If something did happen between you and that Virgo. Congratulations! It would be the most intense and unforgettable experience you have ever had. You will have the chance to experience the intensity of Virgos that no so many people know.
I have chat with people who have/had Scorpio/Virgo relationships. They all talked about the strange and strong bond. I remember one Scorpio lady said that even she ended up with divorcing her Virgo husband after 11 years of marriage, she would not trade the world with this wonderful experience.
Virgos will die for their lovers just as Scorpios do. That's why Virgos don't fall in love easily.
Good luck, my dear.

Thank you so much for your input. I really do try and keep my intensity to a minimum. We seem to be able to talk about so much. He seems to be the type of man who takes love and relationships very serious, and I can tell he does not rush in and give his heart away. At this point , I don't want to be in that sort of relationship anyway. I like the fact he makes me feel protected , and makes me feel like a friend. That's just what I need in a man now. I know they can be critical and analyze a lot. He does think about things constantly, and we can have conversations about so many things. I love a man with intelligence and who can carry a conversation. Well , I will stop rambling on about him smile. You virgos are lovely.
(from astrology-horoscopes.com)
Virgo with Scorpio
SCORPIO: Water ? Fixed ? Negative
Ruled by Pluto
Symbol: Scorpion & Eagle
Night Forces ? Feminine
VIRGO: Earth ? Mutable ? Negative
Ruled by by Mercury (also by the Planet Vulcan)
Symbol: The Virgin
Night Forces ? Feminine
Scorpios elude any sort of analysis. They do not like being nit-picked, nagged, or scolded and criticized. If Virgo will go easy on outright criticism, nagging, scolding, and hair-splitting, the two of them will get along famously and become unexpectedly close. Others may fear to plumb and probe Scorpio's secret nature and mantle of mystery, but Virgo has a curious, exploring mind, and although he or she won't reach up and rudely pull off Scorpio's mask, a gentle attempt will be made to uncover what is hidden from view. Virgos are somehow not as frightened or in awe of Scorpio as other Sun Signs often are, since Virgo frankly respects Scorpio's own critical and analytical abilities. The Virgin will frequently make a conscious effort, with an Eagle, to avoid controversial matters before they become actual disagreements, for a couple of reasons. First, Virgo trusts Scorpio to be as careful and cautious as he (or she) might be ? also wiser, more sensitive ? and so the Virgins believe that there's every possibility Scorpio's views may be the correct ones. Second, Virgo has already calculated the percentage possibility of winning a battle of wits with the Eagle and has decided there's not much of a chance, at best. Further, the Virgo man or woman is acutely aware of the almost certain unpleasant results if Scorpio is goaded too far or unnecessarily challenged ? and unpleasant confrontations are counterproductive to their common goals. Virgos are enormously practical about such things. It's this level-headed quality which makes Scorpio smile on the Virgins. They are nice, sensible sorts?smiling, bright-eyed, and polite creatures to have around, in no way a threat.
In some indefinable manner, Virgos seem to calm the Pluto spirit ? and where Virgos may cause others to be jumpy, or to feel slightly guilty for not being perfect around them, they have the opposite effect on Scorpio. In truth, Scorpios often feel strangely loose and relaxed in the presence of Virgo. It is no small feat to make a Scorpio feel "loose." This is a 3-11 Sun Sign Pattern, blending the Earth and Water elements. This means Scorpio will somehow feel that he or she has "found roots" in an association with Virgo ? and the latter will have a strong sense of being enriched in many ways from the Pluto contact. In some unexpected and unconventional way, Virgo will quietly and unobtrusively help to bring about Scorpio's hopes, wishes, and dreams ? also social success, prestige, and standing in the career or community. Scorpio will open Virgo's mind to many new vistas of thought and progressive theories, bringing to the Virgin an easy communication of ideas. More than any other person (except perhaps Taurus, Cancer, and Capricorn), Scorpio can check Virgo's tendency to worry and sulk, with the result that Virgos seem calmer, more tranquil, less restless and jittery around Scorpio. Virgo will never agree with another Sun Sign's description of the Scorpio as ruthless, cold, and dangerous. This is not the way Virgo sees the Eagle at all. In Virgo's eyes, the Pluto person is warm, generous, and protective ? as well as sympathetic and compassionate. Nor will Scorpio normally allow anyone to put down Virgo by calling the Virgins picky, fussy, and nervous. How can this be, when Scorpio is always cooler than usual, plus more peaceful, when a Virgo friend, relative, or mate is near? Once a tie between these two has been established, the Virgin will usually receive the full force of Pluto's protective powers, and will enjoy as well Scorpio's fierce loyalty, given to those who have earned it. If anyone tries to harm a Virgo who's already won th