Virgo man...UGGH - Virgo man...MMMM

This board has been such a great tool for me. Thanks to all you Virgo's that share your plethora of knowledge.

For 4 yrs I've been waiting for this man to even give the slightest hint that he loved me. Four years of gazing into those baby blues. I finally get my answer. Not an, "I love you". No, "I've loved you all along was just afraid to tell you". What I did get was a "I'm addicted to you". 5 months later, AFTER we've had a falling out, he comes out with it. After I was over it. After those feelings are gone. Does he want what I think he wants?

Posted by SweetSag101
This board has been such a great tool for me. Thanks to all you Virgo's that share your plethora of knowledge.

For 4 yrs I've been waiting for this man to even give the slightest hint that he loved me. Four years of gazing into those baby blues. I finally get my answer. Not an, "I love you". No, "I've loved you all along was just afraid to tell you". What I did get was a "I'm addicted to you". 5 months later, AFTER we've had a falling out, he comes out with it. After I was over it. After those feelings are gone. Does he want what I think he wants?

What a waste of 4 years eh? Bet you won't do that agin! A dog can get addicted to you..why would you even think this Virgo wants something? When they fall for someone, it doesn't take them 4 years to say I love you..trust me on that. If there was a falling out and he really wanted you, I dare say the actual words would've came out if he felt it. Addicted? not so much.

lol..meant *again!

being addicted to anything is bad. that should tell you something.

Oh, he wants something alright. He's just not gonna get it. You're correct in saying that I will NOT be doing that again. This has been a long, heady yet passionate, sordidly addictive relationship. I've been trying to forget him for over a year now. Thing is, he told me loved me two months into the relationship. I didn't reciprocate with words, so I guess, in some way, I deserve this.

You make no sense: original post says you waited 4 yr to hear I love you... And then when Let it Be gives a viable opinion you say he told you he lived you right away.. Virgos don't like liars... Sounds to me like you may be full of shite! Did I miss something??

Posted by Shescomeundone
You make no sense: original post says you waited 4 yr to hear I love you... And then when Let it Be gives a viable opinion you say he told you he lived you right away.. Virgos don't like liars... Sounds to me like you may be full of shite! Did I miss something??

I was wondering same thing.. Shit makes no sense.

Posted by SweetSag101

For 4 yrs I've been waiting for this man to even give the slightest hint that he loved me.

Posted by SweetSag101

.... he told me loved me two months into the relationship.

You might think you are fooling someone .... but, those someones aren't in dxp.

That contradiction sent lights flashing in my head also, to indicate that you're a liar.

Posted by SweetSag101

"I'm addicted to you". 5 months later, AFTER we've had a falling out, he comes out with it.

An addiction of anything doesn't wait 5 months ... but, you would write this in here, thinking you're fooling people here.

Posted by SweetSag101

Oh, he wants something alright. He's just not gonna get it.

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It all boils down to this ^^^^ .... this thread was made in dedication of you wanting to tell us that he wants your body, you even threw addiction in there to try and make us believe you are all that.

Whores are everywhere, and will give up the snatch with little, if any, effort .... I see that by virtue of creating this thread, in where you try to make us believe that you are fuck-worthy enough for a guy to seek you out - that you have equated yourself with a whore in self value.


Way to go !!!

If I loved someone it wouldn't take 4 years to figure that out. It would be 4 years of playing with a toy until the right one came along. Just saying...

I don't see anywhere in here where "love" was being presented ... I recognize where this Sag was trying to make us believe that she's a prize.

Ha! I apologize for the misinterpretation based on my poor wording usage above. This Sag here is by no means a prize. Obviously. There are a lot of details I purposely left out to considerately spare those with either a short attention span, or for those that are completely uninterested in my story. Yes, he did say he loved me two months into the relationship. But who does that? Who "loves" someone two months in? And our "falling out" was me ending things due to him being a walking contradiction. Words don't mean anything when there's no action backing them up. So yes, I was a toy for 4 long years. But , I don't think those years were wasted. I grew and learned from this. Time to move on now.
My intentions were to thank you all for your insight. It really helped me deal with his bullbutter. And as much as P-Angel amuses me, I think you might just be batsh** crazy! But have made some very insightful judgements and opinions. Just not this time. But thank you anyway. My apologies for coming off as "treetrunk worthy". lol
My last ditch effort for some hope........

I wish you the best of luck. Finding a keeper is a hard task.

I don't know why people say the "I love you" so quickly. I think so many mistake love for lust especially when younger. The "Falling in love" phase is lust in my humble opinion. It either leads to love or it doesn't. I'm a strong supporter of being friends first because of the close bond it builds.

I don't know if it will help you or not but I was given a book a long, long time ago and I still go back and read it sometimes. It's called "The Road Less Traveled". It really breaks down what love is.

Again, good luck to you.

I'm a virgo and to be honest reading this I think sweetsag101 still has feelings for this guy but your hurt for some reason or another by the way he handled the relationship, clearly things must have been good for you to be there for 4 years, I'm a virgo and I told my sag that I loved her within a month, I had no hesitation, she said it too and we told each other daily near enough, 6 years of this, you know in your heart when its right to say I love you, my sag wasnt afraid of that and she gave me her heart on a plate.