Virgo man wants just friendship?
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by highlighter on Thursday, May 2, 2013 and has 8 replies.
He's a loser. What's his friends name and number? Look him up.
Posted by tiki33
He's a loser. What's his friends name and number? Look him up.
+1 ... if he thinks he's not good enough for you then maybe he's not good enough for you. the problem with insecurity is it would pile up and they would do stupid stuff just compensate and satisfy that need of approval.let him be. give him the space.
Posted by highlighter
Hey there,
Maybe you could help me, so I am a Scorpio, rising sign Capricorn and moon in Taurus and he is a Virgo, 3rd dec.
We met 2 months ago, and everything has been going great, he asked me out I spend time at his, we cuddled(he always made the first move), he took care of me and was absolutely interested in everything I had to say and was absorbing it like a sponge. He has a great understanding for me, and noticed by himself that I have been hurt before, he did not mind to take things slow.
He is a bit insecure though like he asked me if he is handsome and some other things. He made sure a few times that I am not involved with someone else. I was never so sure about someone liking me. He did put me through a lot of tests and I did point out to him that I know he does it, and he said he is sorry about it but he had to do it. We only had a argument once, and he was so impressed with me for putting him in his place in a clam manner.
Anyways he did this one thing that did upset me, he tried to get me interested in one of his mates, as according to the Virgo he is richer and better looking than him. I said you know that's not what I'm like, and he said he knows but just wanted to make sure. I was very upset about this and ended up telling him hat I like him. He said that's a shock for him and we can only be friends, although he thought about more but that will not happen. After that he told me this LONG list of things he likes about me, I just though that is ridiculous after how he talks about me he must like me. It seemed a lot like he had to tell himself that he does not want more than friendship. He left it to me, if I do want his friendship he will be there as he does not want to lose me, but I'm not sure what to do, should I get in contact or not ? We have not been involved sexually.
Ive done this before (back in the day)(bold print) IMO....he doesnt think hes good enough for you in a relationship standpoint
Posted by tiki33
He's a loser. What's his friends name and number? Look him up.
LMMMMMMAAAAAAAAAOOOOOOOO!
Posted by highlighter
... and ended up telling him hat I like him. He said that's a shock for him and we can only be friends, although he thought about more but that will not happen. After that he told me this LONG list of things he likes about me, I just though that is ridiculous after how he talks about me he must like me.
Obviously, you read him wrong.
Just because a Virgo guy is insecure .. this makes him not worth it?
EVERY MALE VIRGO feels inadequate, it's the nature of the beast .... looks to me as though all you ladies can't get past your expectations enough to take a person as they come.
Your loss
His loss you dumb asshole...He pushed her off on a friend. Who does that? A loser
Hi highlighter! I do hope you are not the Cappy lady that came in the picture between me and the Virgo guy couple of months ago. Lol. Kidding aside, I had the same experience. We went out several times, he acknowledges my jealousy and assures me that there's nothing to be jealous about, we used to go shopping together like a real couple and he introduced me to several friends of his. In fact, one of his friends became attracted to me which caused a bit of a rift between them. And one time, both of us went out with one friend of his, a really close one to his heart and he went to the bathroom and left me alone with his friend. Then I saw him peeping at the door possibly checking if me and his friend are getting cozy while he was away.
He did tell me too that he can only offer me friendship for now. Although I did feel he likes me too as he gets jealous with guys that approach me and he tells me about it, I had to stick to the friendship thing which also confuses me every now and then.
He did tell me too that he can only offer me friendship for now. Although I did feel he likes me too as he gets jealous with guys that approach me and he tells me about it, I had to stick to the friendship thing which also confuses me every now and then.
I just let him be. It was tough at first as we fight because we have supressed emotions but it seems like he is wanting me back now. Like something better than before. He told me he wanted to hangout again. He wanted to explain some things to me face to face. So yeah. Well, I would suggest that you take his word. If he says friendship, then ok. Anyway, if he likes you, he likes you. If not, then you can't force it. You shouldn't worry. Let him realize things on his own. Get on with your life. Life is short to worry about such things. Confusion will stress you out and it's not right because there is nothing to be stressed about. Just be happy and eventually, things will fall in it's proper place. 
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