virgo men
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by desireejb112 on Wednesday, June 26, 2013 and has 16 replies.
lmfao it seems like these virgo men out here are driving these women crazy! having a virgo lover myself i understand my boyfriend and some of his ways can drive me completely insane. my question is for the virgo men why do you think people always go crazy with you?
lol it's true idk why but im curious to know xvll27 as a virgo when you like someone how do you flirt?
I'm not a Virgo but having been around them, I'm quite knowledgeable. I think people tend to go crazy with Virgos because they simply do not understand their nature. Granted, Virgos are mysterious but they're not at all that complicated. Women do not understand that looks, sex, and an amazing first few dates do not initially entice them, you have to appeal to their way of life long-term; they have to determine whether there's any compatibility in a wider spectrum outside of your panties. Then once that foundation and trust is earned, their heart will be wide open for you to see. These people are very VERY sensitive and emotional, contrary to their cool exterior. A lot of women expects a Virgo to act like other men when that's just not humanly possible with this species, they just simply do not "turn on" that way. Hence, the pace and actions a Virgo lacks in expressing during the courting stage leads women to act eagerly and think irrationally which then makes them act out emotionally towards the Virgo. The more these women react this way, the more recluse and nervous the Virgo becomes, and then the crazier the women become; thus, you get women going mad not understanding why his behavior doesn't align with their initial assessment - it's a case of too much too soon.
Posted by Nebulous_Cloud9
I'm not a Virgo but having been around them, I'm quite knowledgeable. I think people tend to go crazy with Virgos because they simply do not understand their nature. Granted, Virgos are mysterious but they're not at all that complicated. Women do not understand that looks, sex, and an amazing first few dates do not initially entice them, you have to appeal to their way of life long-term; they have to determine whether there's any compatibility in a wider spectrum outside of your panties. Then once that foundation and trust is earned, their heart will be wide open for you to see. These people are very VERY sensitive and emotional, contrary to their cool exterior. A lot of women expects a Virgo to act like other men when that's just not humanly possible with this species, they just simply do not "turn on" that way. Hence, the pace and actions a Virgo lacks in expressing during the courting stage leads women to act eagerly and think irrationally which then makes them act out emotionally towards the Virgo. The more these women react this way, the more recluse and nervous the Virgo becomes, and then the crazier the women become; thus, you get women going mad not understanding why his behavior doesn't align with their initial assessment - it's a case of too much too soon.
that is by far the clearest explication i have read till now!
Here it is in simple terms. Virgo male: Do not think Golden Retriever. Think Snow Leopard.
because were full of shit. and we dont even know it. so we believe or own bullshit and that leaves the woman confused and in some limbo realm of bullshit thats almost true just by power of delusion.
It's simple if you don't get a virgo....you don't GET the virgo.
I'm new here, I've enjoyed this site so much, I joined. So my question is... do you mean crazy in an upsetting way? or crazy as in why can't you stop thinking about us...because we can do both.
Eh. Its just that hurt people often come here to "rationalize" about "him" even though their minds have long been made up so I often get the impression that "she" is traveling in circles. And people go crazy when they get dizzy.
Posted by Loveorlust
I don't know about everyone else but I mean crazy in way that I can't get him off my mind. I can't figure him out. When I see him I go crazy like he is my drug! It really drives me CRAZY! I think I'm not alone after seeing so many post. Wether Virgo is good or bad for you also makes me crazy! Mine makes me want to be a better person most days then other days I fell like fuck him!
Wow I swear I've heard these exact same words from my Ex GF ("A Drug") LOL I feel like it a lot of it has to do with your partner's sign as well. She was a Taurus and we got along amazingly well! We often knew what the other was thinking and would act without words many times. We both had an appreciation for stability and finance. We also would dote on each other often...we really wanted to take care of each other. I think that was the drug part. NOw...the "I'm so ready to stab you in the eye" part was also mutual. Well more on her part. She was stubborn and expected me to agree with her whether she was right or wrong...Well being who I am I always tried to see both sides of a situation. To her it was a loyalty issue...to me it was "whats really right or wrong"...the truth! There were other issues that caused our breakup, but this was a big one. To tell you the truth, when I meet Taurus women now, I don't even have to ask what sign they are...I can guess it right about 80% of the time. I'm almost sure I"m going to marry one....someday
no me and my virgo have been dating for four years and it's crazy because im an aries. I mean to me virgo men along side cancer men have always seemed extremely complex to me. it's weird because he'll want his space but when i go he wants me back?
Posted by Nebulous_Cloud9
I'm not a Virgo but having been around them, I'm quite knowledgeable. I think people tend to go crazy with Virgos because they simply do not understand their nature. Granted, Virgos are mysterious but they're not at all that complicated. Women do not understand that looks, sex, and an amazing first few dates do not initially entice them, you have to appeal to their way of life long-term; they have to determine whether there's any compatibility in a wider spectrum outside of your panties. Then once that foundation and trust is earned, their heart will be wide open for you to see. These people are very VERY sensitive and emotional, contrary to their cool exterior. A lot of women expects a Virgo to act like other men when that's just not humanly possible with this species, they just simply do not "turn on" that way. Hence, the pace and actions a Virgo lacks in expressing during the courting stage leads women to act eagerly and think irrationally which then makes them act out emotionally towards the Virgo. The more these women react this way, the more recluse and nervous the Virgo becomes, and then the crazier the women become; thus, you get women going mad not understanding why his behavior doesn't align with their initial assessment - it's a case of too much too soon.
When I read that first line, I admit I was ready to be skeptical. Damn, that was amazing. You were right on the money. Shhhh... Don't go around giving away our secrets.
@loverorlust. I agree with you. I don't share the same questions you posed with my VM, I would get a blank stare and a sigh.
I am learning to go with the flow everyday. It works some days, and some days when I feel my cancer moods turning up a notch, and I get into fret mode, it does not. As a person who's job it is to strategize, it is hard for me because the MV can be content with "we'll see, maybe, what comes, comes, lets deal with that later, and I don't know." The strategist in me is like, ah, no, I need details, I need to see it formed, I need clarity, I need specifics. lol
I laugh at myself.
I will say this - this whole journey with the virgo is teaching me patience. I wish I could say, "check, learned patience!" but something tells me I've only just begun the walk.
I am learning to go with the flow everyday. It works some days, and some days when I feel my cancer moods turning up a notch, and I get into fret mode, it does not. As a person who's job it is to strategize, it is hard for me because the MV can be content with "we'll see, maybe, what comes, comes, lets deal with that later, and I don't know." The strategist in me is like, ah, no, I need details, I need to see it formed, I need clarity, I need specifics. lol
I laugh at myself.
I will say this - this whole journey with the virgo is teaching me patience. I wish I could say, "check, learned patience!" but something tells me I've only just begun the walk.
@CluelessCancer That is a good question you ask.
However,I am as blunt as they come - I can't stand fakeness either. @PotHeadVirgo24
I have self-awareness. And I have control over myself. I understand what I can and can not control.
For example, Just cause my mind wants to know everything and get the answers to every "but why that goes through my head" doesn't mean I should or need to know. Just that is the flow my mind takes - in my mind. I can let things go. I don't have to press. I've learned that some people are only temporary in my life.
And I am who I am. I am content with myself. I am not pretending to be sweet with him and then under my breath as I walk away, muttering, that selfish piece of.... - if I couldn't stand him, I sure wouldn't want to be with him.
If he is annoying me, I'd tell him. For example, last night on the phone, while he was telling me how his symptoms were getting worse and the part of me that wanted to scream, "dude take a day off and rest and go see a doctor" said "babe, you are a stubborn mule, but I have to trust that you know yourself enough to know when to go get medical help because I know that you are a good father and would not let yourself die" Not much else I could do.
As I get older, I'm learning a lot. The younger me would want to analyze and ask questions until every stone was unturned. The mother in me learned that I could get my son to do things or reach his young male mind with humor, and I've learned how to get men to move by watching the way my mom talks to my brothers and other men in her life. She can move mountains and still make you laugh while you do the work.
I learned that there is power in the tongue, that I can cut someone down with sarcasm and wound their self esteem or I can lift someone up with words of kindness, and still get my point across.
Can I be a whiny Cancer - you bet. But I can't stand whiny people myself, so I keep myself in check - if I am whiny, I check myself with my virgo daughter - "I'm I being impossible?" and she usually says, "really, seriously you asking that, go lock yourself up in your room, here, here is some chocolate".
I control my attitude - no man does. I am not going to react like popcorn being popped just because a man does or says something to me. (learned that lesson by being in an awful marriage)
I control my happiness - with or without this virgo man in my life, I am determined that there happiness in my future. If he is in it -that's c
However,I am as blunt as they come - I can't stand fakeness either. @PotHeadVirgo24
I have self-awareness. And I have control over myself. I understand what I can and can not control.
For example, Just cause my mind wants to know everything and get the answers to every "but why that goes through my head" doesn't mean I should or need to know. Just that is the flow my mind takes - in my mind. I can let things go. I don't have to press. I've learned that some people are only temporary in my life.
And I am who I am. I am content with myself. I am not pretending to be sweet with him and then under my breath as I walk away, muttering, that selfish piece of.... - if I couldn't stand him, I sure wouldn't want to be with him.
If he is annoying me, I'd tell him. For example, last night on the phone, while he was telling me how his symptoms were getting worse and the part of me that wanted to scream, "dude take a day off and rest and go see a doctor" said "babe, you are a stubborn mule, but I have to trust that you know yourself enough to know when to go get medical help because I know that you are a good father and would not let yourself die" Not much else I could do.
As I get older, I'm learning a lot. The younger me would want to analyze and ask questions until every stone was unturned. The mother in me learned that I could get my son to do things or reach his young male mind with humor, and I've learned how to get men to move by watching the way my mom talks to my brothers and other men in her life. She can move mountains and still make you laugh while you do the work.
I learned that there is power in the tongue, that I can cut someone down with sarcasm and wound their self esteem or I can lift someone up with words of kindness, and still get my point across.
Can I be a whiny Cancer - you bet. But I can't stand whiny people myself, so I keep myself in check - if I am whiny, I check myself with my virgo daughter - "I'm I being impossible?" and she usually says, "really, seriously you asking that, go lock yourself up in your room, here, here is some chocolate".
I control my attitude - no man does. I am not going to react like popcorn being popped just because a man does or says something to me. (learned that lesson by being in an awful marriage)
I control my happiness - with or without this virgo man in my life, I am determined that there happiness in my future. If he is in it -that's c
..If he is in it -that's cool, if not, that means there is someone better, because I know that my future days will be better than my past. Will I cry if he is not, yep. I will. I will go through all the wondering why. But I know eventually I will pick myself up, go have a drink and move on.
So no, don't fake anything. I don't. I am the same person I am with him that I am with my kids or with my friends. Now with my girlfriends we might start talking about guys in a rauchy way, that I wouldn't want my kids to hear and with my virgo, I might be more sensual than with my friends but I have the same face.
One thing I do with all relationships is make sure I am pure and honest, because if I am not - it eats up me inside.
I've learned that just because I have something to say or I got wounded by the words you said doesn't mean I have to act on that this very moment. I can wait. And I can let it go.
lol that took many man years of learning. The saying, you can catch more fly's with honey than you can with vinegar... well. I've learned that I can still be my sarcastic self and speak my mind but with a attitude that doesn't put someone down. I can speak my mind to someone, without destroying their character. I only say that know because I've a sharp edged tongue, I know how to slice a person up with words. I grew up like that. I hard to learn to tone it down. Going to church helped. When I heard I have to give an account for all my words, I started thinking, man, I've been mean.
Do I ever blow my lid? Yep but I really am slow to anger. I'd get angry fast if someone hurt my kids or my mom. But if someone called me the B word (and that has happened) it doesn't mean I am going to fly off the handle.
I will most likely laugh because I am a strong minded, strong willed, independent woman who has been blessed and no man (only God) can take credit for that. I know that someone's words to me don't define who I am as a person. It only defines where they are at.
I am who I am said pop eye
and me, except I will not eat a can of spinach.
So no, don't fake anything. I don't. I am the same person I am with him that I am with my kids or with my friends. Now with my girlfriends we might start talking about guys in a rauchy way, that I wouldn't want my kids to hear and with my virgo, I might be more sensual than with my friends but I have the same face.
One thing I do with all relationships is make sure I am pure and honest, because if I am not - it eats up me inside.
I've learned that just because I have something to say or I got wounded by the words you said doesn't mean I have to act on that this very moment. I can wait. And I can let it go.
lol that took many man years of learning. The saying, you can catch more fly's with honey than you can with vinegar... well. I've learned that I can still be my sarcastic self and speak my mind but with a attitude that doesn't put someone down. I can speak my mind to someone, without destroying their character. I only say that know because I've a sharp edged tongue, I know how to slice a person up with words. I grew up like that. I hard to learn to tone it down. Going to church helped. When I heard I have to give an account for all my words, I started thinking, man, I've been mean.
Do I ever blow my lid? Yep but I really am slow to anger. I'd get angry fast if someone hurt my kids or my mom. But if someone called me the B word (and that has happened) it doesn't mean I am going to fly off the handle.
I will most likely laugh because I am a strong minded, strong willed, independent woman who has been blessed and no man (only God) can take credit for that. I know that someone's words to me don't define who I am as a person. It only defines where they are at.
I am who I am said pop eye
and me, except I will not eat a can of spinach.
Posted by ChrisNews
@loverorlust. I agree with you. I don't share the same questions you posed with my VM, I would get a blank stare and a sigh.
I am learning to go with the flow everyday. It works some days, and some days when I feel my cancer moods turning up a notch, and I get into fret mode, it does not. As a person who's job it is to strategize, it is hard for me because the MV can be content with "we'll see, maybe, what comes, comes, lets deal with that later, and I don't know." The strategist in me is like, ah, no, I need details, I need to see it formed, I need clarity, I need specifics. lol
I laugh at myself.
I will say this - this whole journey with the virgo is teaching me patience. I wish I could say, "check, learned patience!" but something tells me I've only just begun the walk.
Yeah. It takes a lot of patience to be with a Virgo for a long time.
Well, if he's still around(and I mean not much around
) after a long time, our patience seems to be working, at least.This forum made me understand Virgos a lot more and because now that I can understand them more, I hope to be really really really understanding towards him. And I will, because I love him.
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