Virgo men and erotica...
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by GeminiJuneAnn on Tuesday, February 13, 2007 and has 25 replies.
I have read as a generalization about Virgo men that they are "kinkier" than the other signs. Within a male/female exclusive relationship, do you think virgo men are more sexually explorative? Or is this just men in general? I'm in a relationship with a virgo and recently we have experimented with erotica (his idea)...without going in to details, I wondered if any of you have ever seen that as a virgo trait or not. Or maybe I've just been sexually sheltered (I was married for 13 years)and this is something that's completely normal in most relationships and I've always missed out on it. And by kinky, I don't mean "weird" stuff.
Just curious, hope this doesn't offend anyone.
Just curious, hope this doesn't offend anyone.
It would be impossible to determine an answer for you by a Virgo himself, nor the partner of a Virgo, for the level of kinky cannot be measured by another, nor, without saying something other than, "by kinky, I don't mean "weird" stuff."
An example would be: I knew a man who loved his blow-up dollie and didn't consider himself kinky at all .. while, another I know thinks regular oral sex is kinky.
So, the only insight you can possibly get is just someone's own perspective of thier kinkiness and not anything that has to do with the degree in which your man is kinky.
It's all relative .. in fact, everything in here is.
An example would be: I knew a man who loved his blow-up dollie and didn't consider himself kinky at all .. while, another I know thinks regular oral sex is kinky.
So, the only insight you can possibly get is just someone's own perspective of thier kinkiness and not anything that has to do with the degree in which your man is kinky.
It's all relative .. in fact, everything in here is.
Ok, point taken. I thought about that after I posted this. How about this..blow-up dollie = weird in my definition. Male/female erotic conversations and fantasizing normal or bordering kinky? I don't believe I'm verbalizing myself properly to get my point across.
The kinkiest thing I've ever heard in my life is someone who gives head/blows a turd. Can't even begin to grasp WHY anyone would think that was a turn-on .. not the owner of the log, nor the blower .. yuk.
So, from my perception if a person would actually find this a turn-on, then anything anybody else would do .. is nothing, as far as my definition of kinky is concerned.
"Male/female erotic conversations and fantasizing normal or bordering kinky?"
I wouldn't consider that kinky at all, rather, normal. Seems like two people in a sexual partnership would HAVE to know what turns them on, if the goal is to actually turn them on sexually .. how else would this be achieved if not discussed?
So, from my perception if a person would actually find this a turn-on, then anything anybody else would do .. is nothing, as far as my definition of kinky is concerned.
"Male/female erotic conversations and fantasizing normal or bordering kinky?"
I wouldn't consider that kinky at all, rather, normal. Seems like two people in a sexual partnership would HAVE to know what turns them on, if the goal is to actually turn them on sexually .. how else would this be achieved if not discussed?
Well, I'm certainly feeling like an idiot for not being able to figure out how write what I'm thinking... sorry y'all.
Obviously, you're struggling with even trying to determine what is going on with your man sexually and whether it's even appropriate to do, much less say .. so don't feel like an idiot if it's hard to write it. In fact, if I were you, I probably wouldn't even post it publicily at all.
ouch with the sarcasm
This isn't sarcastic .. you'll know if I am.
I think virgos in general think they are kinkier than everyone else does....its that whole "oh just you wait, if you crack the code I'll UNLEASH all my loving and freakiness on ya!"
*CRICKETS*
*CRICKETS*
My Virgo husband is very traditional sexually .. don't know if it's christian upbringing, or if it's just him, but, he's very conservative .. however, he THINKS he's Mr. Kinky, lol
Who do you have all your adventures with then P-Angel...since your married to Mr. Kinky?
Being a Pisces gives me the ability to have very vivid fantasies .. yes !!!!
So, basically .. myself .. best sex I ever had, lol
So, basically .. myself .. best sex I ever had, lol
Siberian Huskies are really good too !!!!
Oh my...
You have got to be joking me.
NOooo, she's not.
** winks at Lady
..........
some are kinky and some aren't. i ran across a thread about virgo's kinkiness on another board, it went on for pages...and yeah, there are some REALLY kinky ones out there. i think the whole clean-cut look throws people off. virgos are known to swing from end of the pendulum to the other, the whole virgin/vixen thing.
based on all the responses that i've ran across in other forums, virgos and pisces take the cake when it comes to the kink factor, followed by sags and gems. whoa, just noticed that all of them are mutable! but aries and scorpios are most sexual.
Im a virgo with Sag and i think in our relationship, im the one who is more Kinky or more experimental my Sag is the one wth the Stamina she can go one after another! but shes always willing to try what i ask!
All my Virgo friends that are female are indeed freaks in bed .. at least that's what THEY say, and it's likely that everybody thinks they are great lovers, or kinky, right?
You're both females, so you should know .. I guess my friends were telling the truth and they actually are the way they percieve themselves. Maybe I should have married a female Virgo, rather than the male variety
You're both females, so you should know .. I guess my friends were telling the truth and they actually are the way they percieve themselves. Maybe I should have married a female Virgo, rather than the male variety
You definatly should have once you go woman you wont go back! 
were a special bunch, i have been complimented a number of times for my "skills" in the bedroom! 
were a special bunch, i have been complimented a number of times for my "skills" in the bedroom! ...........
"If he is just passing time......the women are like a draft beer..TAP IT and fart. LOL"
In other words .. if he's just USING you ...
.. admirable quality .. thanks for pointing that out.
In other words .. if he's just USING you ...
.. admirable quality .. thanks for pointing that out.
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