Virgo men and Jealousy
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Oblivion on Friday, February 24, 2017 and has 49 replies.
Is it typical for Virgo men to be jealous? I've been with mine for a year and a half and wow he is wickedly jealous. That is saying something coming from a Scorpio with too many Scorpio placements.
We can be out together and if he notices a guy looking at me, or if god forbid one speaks to me, he won't say anything right away, rather wait until we are home to pout and get pissy with me as if I've done something wrong. This is a fairly regular occurrence, he doesn't deny his jealousy at all.
Just curious if this is a common theme with this off the wall sign (:
We can be out together and if he notices a guy looking at me, or if god forbid one speaks to me, he won't say anything right away, rather wait until we are home to pout and get pissy with me as if I've done something wrong. This is a fairly regular occurrence, he doesn't deny his jealousy at all.
Just curious if this is a common theme with this off the wall sign (:
I didn't notice my ex Virgo being jealous but he was the king of hissy fits and getting pissy! It got on my nerves hence he's now the ex.
oh yes, the hissy fits are real lol. It's something I've learned to tolerate, well attempt to tolerate most of the time. I have my own short comings though, so I have no room to talk.
possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both.
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerely
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerely
Posted by OblivionIt's stupid from the beginning...forward...
Is it typical for Virgo men to be jealous? I've been with mine for a year and a half and wow he is wickedly jealous. That is saying something coming from a Scorpio with too many Scorpio placements.
We can be out together and if he notices a guy looking at me, or if god forbid one speaks to me, he won't say anything right away, rather wait until we are home to pout and get pissy with me as if I've done something wrong. This is a fairly regular occurrence, he doesn't deny his jealousy at all.
Just curious if this is a common theme with this off the wall sign (:
Posted by Gemitatiwhat?Posted by OblivionIt's stupid from the beginning...forward...
Is it typical for Virgo men to be jealous? I've been with mine for a year and a half and wow he is wickedly jealous. That is saying something coming from a Scorpio with too many Scorpio placements.
We can be out together and if he notices a guy looking at me, or if god forbid one speaks to me, he won't say anything right away, rather wait until we are home to pout and get pissy with me as if I've done something wrong. This is a fairly regular occurrence, he doesn't deny his jealousy at all.
Just curious if this is a common theme with this off the wall sign (:click to expand
Posted by OblivionStarting from the very beginning...Posted by Gemitatiwhat?Posted by OblivionIt's stupid from the beginning...forward...
Is it typical for Virgo men to be jealous? I've been with mine for a year and a half and wow he is wickedly jealous. That is saying something coming from a Scorpio with too many Scorpio placements.
We can be out together and if he notices a guy looking at me, or if god forbid one speaks to me, he won't say anything right away, rather wait until we are home to pout and get pissy with me as if I've done something wrong. This is a fairly regular occurrence, he doesn't deny his jealousy at all.
Just curious if this is a common theme with this off the wall sign (:click to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by OblivionStarting from the very beginning...Posted by Gemitatiwhat?Posted by OblivionIt's stupid from the beginning...forward...
Is it typical for Virgo men to be jealous? I've been with mine for a year and a half and wow he is wickedly jealous. That is saying something coming from a Scorpio with too many Scorpio placements.
We can be out together and if he notices a guy looking at me, or if god forbid one speaks to me, he won't say anything right away, rather wait until we are home to pout and get pissy with me as if I've done something wrong. This is a fairly regular occurrence, he doesn't deny his jealousy at all.
Just curious if this is a common theme with this off the wall sign (:click to expand
well yes he was jealous from the start, I suppose it's nothing new really. just curious as it doesn't seem to be a stand out trait among Virgos, that's more Scorp territory
Posted by OblivionAnother stupidest assumption!Posted by GemitatiPosted by OblivionStarting from the very beginning...Posted by Gemitatiwhat?Posted by OblivionIt's stupid from the beginning...forward...
Is it typical for Virgo men to be jealous? I've been with mine for a year and a half and wow he is wickedly jealous. That is saying something coming from a Scorpio with too many Scorpio placements.
We can be out together and if he notices a guy looking at me, or if god forbid one speaks to me, he won't say anything right away, rather wait until we are home to pout and get pissy with me as if I've done something wrong. This is a fairly regular occurrence, he doesn't deny his jealousy at all.
Just curious if this is a common theme with this off the wall sign (:
well yes he was jealous from the start, I suppose it's nothing new really. just curious as it doesn't seem to be a stand out trait among Virgos, that's more Scorp territoryclick to expand
Scorpios aren't jealous!
Who told you this?
And the most stupid of this post is that not all virgos are jealous and definitely be careful describing Scorpios!
Are everyone of your sign same people?
Posted by GemitatiPosted by OblivionAnother stupidest assumption!Posted by GemitatiPosted by OblivionStarting from the very beginning...Posted by Gemitatiwhat?Posted by OblivionIt's stupid from the beginning...forward...
Is it typical for Virgo men to be jealous? I've been with mine for a year and a half and wow he is wickedly jealous. That is saying something coming from a Scorpio with too many Scorpio placements.
We can be out together and if he notices a guy looking at me, or if god forbid one speaks to me, he won't say anything right away, rather wait until we are home to pout and get pissy with me as if I've done something wrong. This is a fairly regular occurrence, he doesn't deny his jealousy at all.
Just curious if this is a common theme with this off the wall sign (:
well yes he was jealous from the start, I suppose it's nothing new really. just curious as it doesn't seem to be a stand out trait among Virgos, that's more Scorp territory
Scorpios aren't jealous!
Who told you this?
And the most stupid of this post is that not all virgos are jealous and definitely be careful describing Scorpios!
Are everyone of your sign same people?click to expand
mkay then. thank you for your valuable insight.
Posted by OblivionI am not hereunto give 'valuable isidhts'!Posted by GemitatiPosted by OblivionAnother stupidest assumption!Posted by GemitatiPosted by OblivionStarting from the very beginning...Posted by Gemitatiwhat?Posted by OblivionIt's stupid from the beginning...forward...
Is it typical for Virgo men to be jealous? I've been with mine for a year and a half and wow he is wickedly jealous. That is saying something coming from a Scorpio with too many Scorpio placements.
We can be out together and if he notices a guy looking at me, or if god forbid one speaks to me, he won't say anything right away, rather wait until we are home to pout and get pissy with me as if I've done something wrong. This is a fairly regular occurrence, he doesn't deny his jealousy at all.
Just curious if this is a common theme with this off the wall sign (:
well yes he was jealous from the start, I suppose it's nothing new really. just curious as it doesn't seem to be a stand out trait among Virgos, that's more Scorp territory
Scorpios aren't jealous!
Who told you this?
And the most stupid of this post is that not all virgos are jealous and definitely be careful describing Scorpios!
Are everyone of your sign same people?
mkay then. thank you for your valuable insight.click to expand
I am here to read stupid posts and reply until I pass out...
What are you thinking you are different from everyone else?
Posted by FknNerdyes, he has predominantly fire in his chart, also Venus in Leo
Do you know anything else about his chart? Does he have leo venus? I'm like this.
so I suppose it's the Venus in Leo expressing itself?
Posted by Gemitatigoodnight then (:Posted by OblivionI am not hereunto give 'valuable isidhts'!Posted by GemitatiPosted by OblivionAnother stupidest assumption!Posted by GemitatiPosted by OblivionStarting from the very beginning...Posted by Gemitatiwhat?Posted by OblivionIt's stupid from the beginning...forward...
Is it typical for Virgo men to be jealous? I've been with mine for a year and a half and wow he is wickedly jealous. That is saying something coming from a Scorpio with too many Scorpio placements.
We can be out together and if he notices a guy looking at me, or if god forbid one speaks to me, he won't say anything right away, rather wait until we are home to pout and get pissy with me as if I've done something wrong. This is a fairly regular occurrence, he doesn't deny his jealousy at all.
Just curious if this is a common theme with this off the wall sign (:
well yes he was jealous from the start, I suppose it's nothing new really. just curious as it doesn't seem to be a stand out trait among Virgos, that's more Scorp territory
Scorpios aren't jealous!
Who told you this?
And the most stupid of this post is that not all virgos are jealous and definitely be careful describing Scorpios!
Are everyone of your sign same people?
mkay then. thank you for your valuable insight.
I am here to read stupid posts and reply until I pass out...
What are you thinking you are different from everyone else?click to expand
Posted by OblivionDon't tell me what to do!Posted by Gemitatigoodnight then (:Posted by OblivionI am not hereunto give 'valuable isidhts'!Posted by GemitatiPosted by OblivionAnother stupidest assumption!Posted by GemitatiPosted by OblivionStarting from the very beginning...Posted by Gemitatiwhat?Posted by OblivionIt's stupid from the beginning...forward...
Is it typical for Virgo men to be jealous? I've been with mine for a year and a half and wow he is wickedly jealous. That is saying something coming from a Scorpio with too many Scorpio placements.
We can be out together and if he notices a guy looking at me, or if god forbid one speaks to me, he won't say anything right away, rather wait until we are home to pout and get pissy with me as if I've done something wrong. This is a fairly regular occurrence, he doesn't deny his jealousy at all.
Just curious if this is a common theme with this off the wall sign (:
well yes he was jealous from the start, I suppose it's nothing new really. just curious as it doesn't seem to be a stand out trait among Virgos, that's more Scorp territory
Scorpios aren't jealous!
Who told you this?
And the most stupid of this post is that not all virgos are jealous and definitely be careful describing Scorpios!
Are everyone of your sign same people?
mkay then. thank you for your valuable insight.
I am here to read stupid posts and reply until I pass out...
What are you thinking you are different from everyone else?click to expand
I know when it's good night or not.
Have manners bozo!
Posted by FknNerdhe has expressed many times his biggest fear is losing me, I did not know they could be so emotional, but I rather like it myself.Posted by OblivionYeah, losing our partner is probably our biggest fear.Posted by FknNerdyes, he has predominantly fire in his chart, also Venus in Leo
Do you know anything else about his chart? Does he have leo venus? I'm like this.
so I suppose it's the Venus in Leo expressing itself?click to expand
that is quite insightful, thank you (:
Mmmh I noticed my virguy is very jealous, but would not show it, and mirror me instead. For instance if a guy is talking to me at a party he would talk to some girl. I hate this about him, so passive agressive. He never admitted being jealous except when we were not really dating and his best friend kind of hit on me. I do get jealous a lot, but since i have low self esteem i just go and be angry/sad alone for a while and never tell anyone about it.
I love my Virgo peeps but yup...they get jealous just like anyone else...and yup...they get pissy about it later. In a way it's cute to see that side of them. Ironically, them showing jealousy actually shows they care...shows they do have emotions 
Posted by coffeetimePosted by VirgoSquirrelDefinitely notice the mirroring too, kind of like a "tit-for-tat, if you do it I'll do it to so you can see how it feels". It's silly and I find it quite adorable most times...Like a kitten that just wants hugs.
Mmmh I noticed my virguy is very jealous, but would not show it, and mirror me instead. For instance if a guy is talking to me at a party he would talk to some girl. I hate this about him, so passive agressive. He never admitted being jealous except when we were not really dating and his best friend kind of hit on me. I do get jealous a lot, but since i have low self esteem i just go and be angry/sad alone for a while and never tell anyone about it.
It sounds strange but when they sometimes express this side, it's nice to see because it's a different side to the cool, calm, and collected Virgo man.click to expand
Yes it is but i find it unpleasant because it is too irrational to me. I hate mirroring.
Posted by VirgoSquirrelohhh yes the mirroring lol. in my instance Virgo typically mirrors my negativties, then later says "you don't like it either do you" lol. he does mirror me in some positive ways too though, and after a while we both mirror each other some.
Mmmh I noticed my virguy is very jealous, but would not show it, and mirror me instead. For instance if a guy is talking to me at a party he would talk to some girl. I hate this about him, so passive agressive. He never admitted being jealous except when we were not really dating and his best friend kind of hit on me. I do get jealous a lot, but since i have low self esteem i just go and be angry/sad alone for a while and never tell anyone about it.
but I agree, that tends to be form of passive aggression with him.
Posted by yupvirgoonow that I think back more carefully, when I first met him he seemed like the most happy go lucky care free person in the world, and that nothing ever bothered him. as we grew closer, that's when I began seeing many different sides of him. and at first the jealousy was subtle, but now nothing about him is subtle. for the most part though, I rather enjoy his brutal honesty and raw emotions at times.
I'm a Virgo sun, Taurus moon and Leo venus.
I can be very jealous but you wouldn't know it at first. It would take you by surprise.
Posted by KaineVirgoMaleI've had no contact with my ex since before I met Virgo. I've blocked him on every platform, but he still finds a way to wish me happy birthday, or happy Valentine's Day etc. I never respond, simply block the new platform. but that doesn't stop Virgo from losing it every time. he can see my phone and look through any of my stuff anytime he wants (which occasionally he does). I can understand the jealousy, I do, but it's hard to take when he calls me a whore and slut for it in a fit of rage (Aries Moon). later he calms down and apologizes and then sulks by himself for a bit because he feels bad for getting so upset lol.Posted by OblivionIf you love him cut contact with your ex.
possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both.
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerelyclick to expand
Jealous? I don't really think so at least not my experiences.
Possessive? Absolutely Freaking Yes!
Been around every type of person you can imagine. Most possessive people I've known were virgo's. IF you become their friend or they admire you, it's over. But IF you piss them off in any manor, even if you have no idea what you did that got under their skin, forget about it. Then you're old news.
Worked for a couple of bosses that would brag about you up and down to other people but if you messed up "in their eyes", then you all of a sudden become dog meat.
Possessive? Absolutely Freaking Yes!
Been around every type of person you can imagine. Most possessive people I've known were virgo's. IF you become their friend or they admire you, it's over. But IF you piss them off in any manor, even if you have no idea what you did that got under their skin, forget about it. Then you're old news.
Worked for a couple of bosses that would brag about you up and down to other people but if you messed up "in their eyes", then you all of a sudden become dog meat.
Posted by FknNerdI try my best to reassure him, after his outbursts he always apologizes and says he knows I'm not like that and wouldn't do things like that, he admits he's just afraid of losing me. idk what more I can do to show I'm simply not like that.Posted by OblivionPosted by FknNerdhe has expressed many times his biggest fear is losing me, I did not know they could be so emotional, but I rather like it myself.Posted by OblivionYeah, losing our partner is probably our biggest fear.Posted by FknNerdyes, he has predominantly fire in his chart, also Venus in Leo
Do you know anything else about his chart? Does he have leo venus? I'm like this.
so I suppose it's the Venus in Leo expressing itself?
that is quite insightful, thank you (:
No problem
But yeah, its him over thinking about the worst possible outcome. I struggle with this. Youre nice to reassure him. Its what we need most and what we're really looking for when we get like this, but if he goes overboard with it, dont take his shit.click to expand
Posted by beautifulsoul74I wouldn't call that side of him exactly cute lol. but I do know it comes from a loving place, and being jealous myself I do understand
I love my Virgo peeps but yup...they get jealous just like anyone else...and yup...they get pissy about it later. In a way it's cute to see that side of them. Ironically, them showing jealousy actually shows they care...shows they do have emotions
I have Leo Venus, I can be very possessive, protective and jealous if given a reason to be so.
Posted by KaineVirgoMalewell, he's not in the best place right now admittedly. he is between jobs, and having a tough time finding work. so he has a lot more free time than he usually does, and that usually doesn't pan out well.Posted by OblivionA whore and a slut are deep words. For me anyway that's finishing words. That's what I say to a girl who I want to get the F away from me. I can only speak from experience though and from my own POV.Posted by KaineVirgoMaleI've had no contact with my ex since before I met Virgo. I've blocked him on every platform, but he still finds a way to wish me happy birthday, or happy Valentine's Day etc. I never respond, simply block the new platform. but that doesn't stop Virgo from losing it every time. he can see my phone and look through any of my stuff anytime he wants (which occasionally he does). I can understand the jealousy, I do, but it's hard to take when he calls me a whore and slut for it in a fit of rage (Aries Moon). later he calms down and apologizes and then sulks by himself for a bit because he feels bad for getting so upset lol.Posted by OblivionIf you love him cut contact with your ex.
possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both.
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerely
Does he have a life? And are you sure you're not purposefully flirting with other guys or looking for the opportunity to get out of the relationship cos he'll pick up on that, lol...click to expand
I am not a flirt in general. I'm quite shy and reserved, conservative in my appearance even. I have never given him the impression that I want out, in fact he has said many times I am the most faithful, honest, trustworthy person he has ever known.
he seems to have a bit of a Jekyl/Hyde thing going on. he is either sweet as pie, or the exact opposite. this isn't the first time he has used such colorful language to describe me. but it happens much more so when he is jealous, and accusing me of the worst things. again he always apologizes and sulks later about it.
the first few times he spoke to me that way I was completely taken aback. he said he was done after that, but a few hours later came back saying how sorry he was and didn't mean it. that he is scared of losing me. he says in his mind it's easier to push me away so it hurts less for him.
it's quite perplexing at times, and he confounds me, I love it though.
Posted by KaineVirgoMalePosted by OblivionDoes he smoke weed?Posted by KaineVirgoMalewell, he's not in the best place right now admittedly. he is between jobs, and having a tough time finding work. so he has a lot more free time than he usually does, and that usually doesn't pan out well.Posted by OblivionA whore and a slut are deep words. For me anyway that's finishing words. That's what I say to a girl who I want to get the F away from me. I can only speak from experience though and from my own POV.Posted by KaineVirgoMaleI've had no contact with my ex since before I met Virgo. I've blocked him on every platform, but he still finds a way to wish me happy birthday, or happy Valentine's Day etc. I never respond, simply block the new platform. but that doesn't stop Virgo from losing it every time. he can see my phone and look through any of my stuff anytime he wants (which occasionally he does). I can understand the jealousy, I do, but it's hard to take when he calls me a whore and slut for it in a fit of rage (Aries Moon). later he calms down and apologizes and then sulks by himself for a bit because he feels bad for getting so upset lol.Posted by OblivionIf you love him cut contact with your ex.
possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both.
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerely
Does he have a life? And are you sure you're not purposefully flirting with other guys or looking for the opportunity to get out of the relationship cos he'll pick up on that, lol...
I am not a flirt in general. I'm quite shy and reserved, conservative in my appearance even. I have never given him the impression that I want out, in fact he has said many times I am the most faithful, honest, trustworthy person he has ever known.
he seems to have a bit of a Jekyl/Hyde thing going on. he is either sweet as pie, or the exact opposite. this isn't the first time he has used such colorful language to describe me. but it happens much more so when he is jealous, and accusing me of the worst things. again he always apologizes and sulks later about it.
the first few times he spoke to me that way I was completely taken aback. he said he was done after that, but a few hours later came back saying how sorry he was and didn't mean it. that he is scared of losing me. he says in his mind it's easier to push me away so it hurts less for him.
it's quite perplexing at times, and he confounds me, I love it though.click to expand
actually, yes he does. how did you know that?
I do not myself, drugs are not my thing.
and for your other post, I have told him before that I'm not his punching bag, that he can talk to me and vent to me about anything without actually taking it out on me. he has honestly made progress over the course of time with snapping at me less frequently. and of course I'm not perfect either, I have my own faults to account for.
I would not say that to him lol, he is a good guy and actually quite amazing at times (:
Posted by KaineVirgoMalefrom the small amount of information I have given how can you tell?Posted by OblivionOh okPosted by KaineVirgoMalePosted by OblivionDoes he smoke weed?Posted by KaineVirgoMalewell, he's not in the best place right now admittedly. he is between jobs, and having a tough time finding work. so he has a lot more free time than he usually does, and that usually doesn't pan out well.Posted by OblivionA whore and a slut are deep words. For me anyway that's finishing words. That's what I say to a girl who I want to get the F away from me. I can only speak from experience though and from my own POV.Posted by KaineVirgoMaleI've had no contact with my ex since before I met Virgo. I've blocked him on every platform, but he still finds a way to wish me happy birthday, or happy Valentine's Day etc. I never respond, simply block the new platform. but that doesn't stop Virgo from losing it every time. he can see my phone and look through any of my stuff anytime he wants (which occasionally he does). I can understand the jealousy, I do, but it's hard to take when he calls me a whore and slut for it in a fit of rage (Aries Moon). later he calms down and apologizes and then sulks by himself for a bit because he feels bad for getting so upset lol.Posted by OblivionIf you love him cut contact with your ex.
possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both.
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerely
Does he have a life? And are you sure you're not purposefully flirting with other guys or looking for the opportunity to get out of the relationship cos he'll pick up on that, lol...
I am not a flirt in general. I'm quite shy and reserved, conservative in my appearance even. I have never given him the impression that I want out, in fact he has said many times I am the most faithful, honest, trustworthy person he has ever known.
he seems to have a bit of a Jekyl/Hyde thing going on. he is either sweet as pie, or the exact opposite. this isn't the first time he has used such colorful language to describe me. but it happens much more so when he is jealous, and accusing me of the worst things. again he always apologizes and sulks later about it.
the first few times he spoke to me that way I was completely taken aback. he said he was done after that, but a few hours later came back saying how sorry he was and didn't mean it. that he is scared of losing me. he says in his mind it's easier to push me away so it hurts less for him.
it's quite perplexing at times, and he confounds me, I love it though.
actually, yes he does. how did you know that?
I do not myself, drugs are not my thing.
and for your other post, I have told him before that I'm not his punching bag, that he can talk to me and vent to me about anything without actually taking it out on me. he has honestly made progress over the course of time with snapping at me less frequently. and of course I'm not perfect either, I have my own faults to account for.
I would not say that to him lol, he is a good guy and actually quite amazing at times (:click to expand
Posted by ScorpioTruthI also have a Cancer Moon (: I'm often taken for a Cancer over Scorpio most of the time. and at times it is quite irritating I admit, if I've done something wrong than yes, be upset. and I don't mind the jealousy either, I'm jealous myself so I understand where it derives from. but, it's the extremely harsh reactions he has about it times that I get so confused and don't even know what to do or say or how to handle it properly .-.
At least he's waiting until you guys are home to talk about it rather than make a scene. Maybe it's my cancer moon talking, but I don't really mind jealousy but I can absolutely see how the mood swings and cold shoulder when you've done nothing wrong would be irritating.
Posted by KaineVirgoMaleI must be oblivious .-.Posted by OblivionIt's quite obvious lol. XPosted by KaineVirgoMalefrom the small amount of information I have given how can you tell?Posted by OblivionOh okPosted by KaineVirgoMalePosted by OblivionDoes he smoke weed?Posted by KaineVirgoMalewell, he's not in the best place right now admittedly. he is between jobs, and having a tough time finding work. so he has a lot more free time than he usually does, and that usually doesn't pan out well.Posted by OblivionA whore and a slut are deep words. For me anyway that's finishing words. That's what I say to a girl who I want to get the F away from me. I can only speak from experience though and from my own POV.Posted by KaineVirgoMaleI've had no contact with my ex since before I met Virgo. I've blocked him on every platform, but he still finds a way to wish me happy birthday, or happy Valentine's Day etc. I never respond, simply block the new platform. but that doesn't stop Virgo from losing it every time. he can see my phone and look through any of my stuff anytime he wants (which occasionally he does). I can understand the jealousy, I do, but it's hard to take when he calls me a whore and slut for it in a fit of rage (Aries Moon). later he calms down and apologizes and then sulks by himself for a bit because he feels bad for getting so upset lol.Posted by OblivionIf you love him cut contact with your ex.
possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both.
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerely
Does he have a life? And are you sure you're not purposefully flirting with other guys or looking for the opportunity to get out of the relationship cos he'll pick up on that, lol...
I am not a flirt in general. I'm quite shy and reserved, conservative in my appearance even. I have never given him the impression that I want out, in fact he has said many times I am the most faithful, honest, trustworthy person he has ever known.
he seems to have a bit of a Jekyl/Hyde thing going on. he is either sweet as pie, or the exact opposite. this isn't the first time he has used such colorful language to describe me. but it happens much more so when he is jealous, and accusing me of the worst things. again he always apologizes and sulks later about it.
the first few times he spoke to me that way I was completely taken aback. he said he was done after that, but a few hours later came back saying how sorry he was and didn't mean it. that he is scared of losing me. he says in his mind it's easier to push me away so it hurts less for him.
it's quite perplexing at times, and he confounds me, I love it though.
actually, yes he does. how did you know that?
I do not myself, drugs are not my thing.
and for your other post, I have told him before that I'm not his punching bag, that he can talk to me and vent to me about anything without actually taking it out on me. he has honestly made progress over the course of time with snapping at me less frequently. and of course I'm not perfect either, I have my own faults to account for.
I would not say that to him lol, he is a good guy and actually quite amazing at times (:click to expand
Posted by OblivionI'm curious too. Fess up @KaineVirgoMalePosted by KaineVirgoMalefrom the small amount of information I have given how can you tell?Posted by OblivionOh okPosted by KaineVirgoMalePosted by OblivionDoes he smoke weed?Posted by KaineVirgoMalewell, he's not in the best place right now admittedly. he is between jobs, and having a tough time finding work. so he has a lot more free time than he usually does, and that usually doesn't pan out well.Posted by OblivionA whore and a slut are deep words. For me anyway that's finishing words. That's what I say to a girl who I want to get the F away from me. I can only speak from experience though and from my own POV.Posted by KaineVirgoMaleI've had no contact with my ex since before I met Virgo. I've blocked him on every platform, but he still finds a way to wish me happy birthday, or happy Valentine's Day etc. I never respond, simply block the new platform. but that doesn't stop Virgo from losing it every time. he can see my phone and look through any of my stuff anytime he wants (which occasionally he does). I can understand the jealousy, I do, but it's hard to take when he calls me a whore and slut for it in a fit of rage (Aries Moon). later he calms down and apologizes and then sulks by himself for a bit because he feels bad for getting so upset lol.Posted by OblivionIf you love him cut contact with your ex.
possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both.
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerely
Does he have a life? And are you sure you're not purposefully flirting with other guys or looking for the opportunity to get out of the relationship cos he'll pick up on that, lol...
I am not a flirt in general. I'm quite shy and reserved, conservative in my appearance even. I have never given him the impression that I want out, in fact he has said many times I am the most faithful, honest, trustworthy person he has ever known.
he seems to have a bit of a Jekyl/Hyde thing going on. he is either sweet as pie, or the exact opposite. this isn't the first time he has used such colorful language to describe me. but it happens much more so when he is jealous, and accusing me of the worst things. again he always apologizes and sulks later about it.
the first few times he spoke to me that way I was completely taken aback. he said he was done after that, but a few hours later came back saying how sorry he was and didn't mean it. that he is scared of losing me. he says in his mind it's easier to push me away so it hurts less for him.
it's quite perplexing at times, and he confounds me, I love it though.
actually, yes he does. how did you know that?
I do not myself, drugs are not my thing.
and for your other post, I have told him before that I'm not his punching bag, that he can talk to me and vent to me about anything without actually taking it out on me. he has honestly made progress over the course of time with snapping at me less frequently. and of course I'm not perfect either, I have my own faults to account for.
I would not say that to him lol, he is a good guy and actually quite amazing at times (:click to expand
Posted by Oblivion
possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both.
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerely
"possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both."
Isn't that the best feeling, when they say that? I Love when a man is protective and let's you know you belong to him.
I read your other post about the names that he calls you sometimes. I like the fact that you know not to take it too personally, knowing it's just his emotions at the time coming out. You obviously see that he is showing that he cares. In my opinion, your relationship is a very strong one, the type that will endure through not only the good, but also the bad. The kind that most only can dream of. ?✨
Posted by KaineVirgoMaleHe is 25, and I am 30Posted by OblivionNah I'm OJK, just curious, how old are you two?Posted by KaineVirgoMaleI must be oblivious .-.Posted by OblivionIt's quite obvious lol. XPosted by KaineVirgoMalefrom the small amount of information I have given how can you tell?Posted by OblivionOh okPosted by KaineVirgoMalePosted by OblivionDoes he smoke weed?Posted by KaineVirgoMalewell, he's not in the best place right now admittedly. he is between jobs, and having a tough time finding work. so he has a lot more free time than he usually does, and that usually doesn't pan out well.Posted by OblivionA whore and a slut are deep words. For me anyway that's finishing words. That's what I say to a girl who I want to get the F away from me. I can only speak from experience though and from my own POV.Posted by KaineVirgoMaleI've had no contact with my ex since before I met Virgo. I've blocked him on every platform, but he still finds a way to wish me happy birthday, or happy Valentine's Day etc. I never respond, simply block the new platform. but that doesn't stop Virgo from losing it every time. he can see my phone and look through any of my stuff anytime he wants (which occasionally he does). I can understand the jealousy, I do, but it's hard to take when he calls me a whore and slut for it in a fit of rage (Aries Moon). later he calms down and apologizes and then sulks by himself for a bit because he feels bad for getting so upset lol.Posted by OblivionIf you love him cut contact with your ex.
possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both.
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerely
Does he have a life? And are you sure you're not purposefully flirting with other guys or looking for the opportunity to get out of the relationship cos he'll pick up on that, lol...
I am not a flirt in general. I'm quite shy and reserved, conservative in my appearance even. I have never given him the impression that I want out, in fact he has said many times I am the most faithful, honest, trustworthy person he has ever known.
he seems to have a bit of a Jekyl/Hyde thing going on. he is either sweet as pie, or the exact opposite. this isn't the first time he has used such colorful language to describe me. but it happens much more so when he is jealous, and accusing me of the worst things. again he always apologizes and sulks later about it.
the first few times he spoke to me that way I was completely taken aback. he said he was done after that, but a few hours later came back saying how sorry he was and didn't mean it. that he is scared of losing me. he says in his mind it's easier to push me away so it hurts less for him.
it's quite perplexing at times, and he confounds me, I love it though.
actually, yes he does. how did you know that?
I do not myself, drugs are not my thing.
and for your other post, I have told him before that I'm not his punching bag, that he can talk to me and vent to me about anything without actually taking it out on me. he has honestly made progress over the course of time with snapping at me less frequently. and of course I'm not perfect either, I have my own faults to account for.
I would not say that to him lol, he is a good guy and actually quite amazing at times (:click to expand
the age gaps sometimes bothers me only because I've only ever dated older men, but he says he likes older women and never thinks about my age, the topic only ever arises when I mention it
Posted by NostalgicCappyPosted by Oblivion
possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both.
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerely
"possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both."
Isn't that the best feeling, when they say that? I Love when a man is protective and let's you know you belong to him.
I read your other post about the names that he calls you sometimes. I like the fact that you know not to take it too personally, knowing it's just his emotions at the time coming out. You obviously see that he is showing that he cares. In my opinion, your relationship is a very strong one, the type that will endure through not only the good, but also the bad. The kind that most only can dream of. ?✨click to expand
daww that is so sweet ?? and yes, I do absolutely love it when he says those things immensely. I know every relationship has rough patches, but he's worth all of them and then some. I admit at first it was hard to deal with the harsh words, but over time I've grown to understand he doesn't mean it. we are quite opposite in many aspects, but I think that's what makes us so great together. we bring out the best in each other, and also the worst lol.
I can honestly say I've never had a love like this, and for all my complaints, he is the very best and I feel lucky to have him in my life (:
Posted by OblivionPosted by NostalgicCappyPosted by Oblivion
possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both.
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerely
"possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both."
Isn't that the best feeling, when they say that? I Love when a man is protective and let's you know you belong to him.
I read your other post about the names that he calls you sometimes. I like the fact that you know not to take it too personally, knowing it's just his emotions at the time coming out. You obviously see that he is showing that he cares. In my opinion, your relationship is a very strong one, the type that will endure through not only the good, but also the bad. The kind that most only can dream of. ?✨
daww that is so sweet ?? and yes, I do absolutely love it when he says those things immensely. I know every relationship has rough patches, but he's worth all of them and then some. I admit at first it was hard to deal with the harsh words, but over time I've grown to understand he doesn't mean it. we are quite opposite in many aspects, but I think that's what makes us so great together. we bring out the best in each other, and also the worst lol.
I can honestly say I've never had a love like this, and for all my complaints, he is the very best and I feel lucky to have him in my life (:click to expand
I can honestly tell just from your posts, that you are genuine about your love for him. You both are lucky to have each other. It's adorable and I'm happy for you two, it's not too often there are positive relationship stories on here. But something tells me, this one is written in the stars already..
My virgo ex never really showed me his jealousy until after we broke up and i moved on...great timing right?
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeewell when you put it like that, it does paint a different picture. having an Aries Moon does not justify the actions, I suppose I would roll my eyes if someone else said the same thing being on the outside looking in (:
No boundaries. He can call you a slut anytime he wants and you blame it on his Aries moon.
OK.
???
but I admit, I am somewhat of a pushover, ok, a major pushover when in love.
I think perhaps I am portraying things as worse than they actually are..
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI am a bit masochistic, but I don't necessarily seek out pain unto myself.Posted by NostalgicCappyOK I know crabs are masochists but crab moons are idiotic as well it seems.Posted by Oblivion
possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both.
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerely
"possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both."
Isn't that the best feeling, when they say that? I Love when a man is protective and let's you know you belong to him.
I read your other post about the names that he calls you sometimes. I like the fact that you know not to take it too personally, knowing it's just his emotions at the time coming out. You obviously see that he is showing that he cares. In my opinion, your relationship is a very strong one, the type that will endure through not only the good, but also the bad. The kind that most only can dream of. ?✨
Look people can learn to control their emotions.
I know crabs love that extreme sheet, but it's not love or healthy to be calling someone names and being all aggressively jealous.
Now I know I'm saying this and I get crazy jealous and possesive if I feel insecure but I know it's not healthyclick to expand
I would agree with you from what I've posted, that things don't seem to be the most healthy, and truly, they might not be. but I don't believe any relationship is truly perfect and without flaws.
yes, he may spew names, and sometimes do other things, but ultimately he is a good person, he is loving, kind, caring, thoughtful.
my Virgo would simply say I'm crazy, and he is correct.
I'm prettt sure we are all mad here (:
I hate my own typos *sigh*
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeePosted by NostalgicCappyOK I know crabs are masochists but crab moons are idiotic as well it seems.Posted by Oblivion
possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both.
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerely
"possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both."
Isn't that the best feeling, when they say that? I Love when a man is protective and let's you know you belong to him.
I read your other post about the names that he calls you sometimes. I like the fact that you know not to take it too personally, knowing it's just his emotions at the time coming out. You obviously see that he is showing that he cares. In my opinion, your relationship is a very strong one, the type that will endure through not only the good, but also the bad. The kind that most only can dream of. ?✨
Look people can learn to control their emotions.
I know crabs love that extreme sheet, but it's not love or healthy to be calling someone names and being all aggressively jealous.
Now I know I'm saying this and I get crazy jealous and possesive if I feel insecure but I know it's not healthyclick to expand
Hi CC, welcome back.
I'm not saying it's healthy for him to say those things. But, it's a good thing that she knows that he doesn't mean it, and it's just his emotions coming out. Their Love is strong enough to be able to deal with those little issues, that others might walk away from. They have patience to stick it out with each other, and they know that it's worth it. Obviously the good far outweighs the bad.
Who is a Cancer Moon?
Posted by NostalgicCappyI have a Cancer Moon (:Posted by CaramelizedCoffeePosted by NostalgicCappyOK I know crabs are masochists but crab moons are idiotic as well it seems.Posted by Oblivion
possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both.
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerely
"possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both."
Isn't that the best feeling, when they say that? I Love when a man is protective and let's you know you belong to him.
I read your other post about the names that he calls you sometimes. I like the fact that you know not to take it too personally, knowing it's just his emotions at the time coming out. You obviously see that he is showing that he cares. In my opinion, your relationship is a very strong one, the type that will endure through not only the good, but also the bad. The kind that most only can dream of. ?✨
Look people can learn to control their emotions.
I know crabs love that extreme sheet, but it's not love or healthy to be calling someone names and being all aggressively jealous.
Now I know I'm saying this and I get crazy jealous and possesive if I feel insecure but I know it's not healthy
Hi CC, welcome back.
I'm not saying it's healthy for him to say those things. But, it's a good thing that she knows that he doesn't mean it, and it's just his emotions coming out. Their Love is strong enough to be able to deal with those little issues, that others might walk away from. They have patience to stick it out with each other, and they know that it's worth it. Obviously the good far outweighs the bad.
Who is a Cancer Moon?click to expand
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI do have boundaries, and have made them quite clear and my "real" boundaries have never been crossed.Posted by OblivionI know but don't bend too much. Because if you don't have boundaries it can get worse.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI am a bit masochistic, but I don't necessarily seek out pain unto myself.Posted by NostalgicCappyOK I know crabs are masochists but crab moons are idiotic as well it seems.Posted by Oblivion
possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both.
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerely
"possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both."
Isn't that the best feeling, when they say that? I Love when a man is protective and let's you know you belong to him.
I read your other post about the names that he calls you sometimes. I like the fact that you know not to take it too personally, knowing it's just his emotions at the time coming out. You obviously see that he is showing that he cares. In my opinion, your relationship is a very strong one, the type that will endure through not only the good, but also the bad. The kind that most only can dream of. ?✨
Look people can learn to control their emotions.
I know crabs love that extreme sheet, but it's not love or healthy to be calling someone names and being all aggressively jealous.
Now I know I'm saying this and I get crazy jealous and possesive if I feel insecure but I know it's not healthy
I would agree with you from what I've posted, that things don't seem to be the most healthy, and truly, they might not be. but I don't believe any relationship is truly perfect and without flaws.
yes, he may spew names, and sometimes do other things, but ultimately he is a good person, he is loving, kind, caring, thoughtful.
my Virgo would simply say I'm crazy, and he is correct.
I'm prettt sure we are all mad here (:
As long as you feel safeclick to expand
I am working on standing up for myself more though, he has actually told me I should stand up for myself more with him.
if you can withstand a Virgo critiquing every fault you've ever had gone over with a magnifying glass and microscope zoomed in x1000 they actually mean well and want to help you overcome it lol
I do feel safe, I might be a pushover for him but I'm not a pushover in life, if that makes sense (:
Posted by OblivionPosted by NostalgicCappyI have a Cancer Moon (:Posted by CaramelizedCoffeePosted by NostalgicCappyOK I know crabs are masochists but crab moons are idiotic as well it seems.Posted by Oblivion
possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both.
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerely
"possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both."
Isn't that the best feeling, when they say that? I Love when a man is protective and let's you know you belong to him.
I read your other post about the names that he calls you sometimes. I like the fact that you know not to take it too personally, knowing it's just his emotions at the time coming out. You obviously see that he is showing that he cares. In my opinion, your relationship is a very strong one, the type that will endure through not only the good, but also the bad. The kind that most only can dream of. ?✨
Look people can learn to control their emotions.
I know crabs love that extreme sheet, but it's not love or healthy to be calling someone names and being all aggressively jealous.
Now I know I'm saying this and I get crazy jealous and possesive if I feel insecure but I know it's not healthy
Hi CC, welcome back.
I'm not saying it's healthy for him to say those things. But, it's a good thing that she knows that he doesn't mean it, and it's just his emotions coming out. Their Love is strong enough to be able to deal with those little issues, that others might walk away from. They have patience to stick it out with each other, and they know that it's worth it. Obviously the good far outweighs the bad.
Who is a Cancer Moon?click to expand
Oh Ok. Thank you, for clearing that up for me.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeWhat do they like?Posted by OblivionI understand completely but that's not going to win you the man. Virgos don't respect nice people.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI do have boundaries, and have made them quite clear and my "real" boundaries have never been crossed.Posted by OblivionI know but don't bend too much. Because if you don't have boundaries it can get worse.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI am a bit masochistic, but I don't necessarily seek out pain unto myself.Posted by NostalgicCappyOK I know crabs are masochists but crab moons are idiotic as well it seems.Posted by Oblivion
possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both.
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerely
"possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both."
Isn't that the best feeling, when they say that? I Love when a man is protective and let's you know you belong to him.
I read your other post about the names that he calls you sometimes. I like the fact that you know not to take it too personally, knowing it's just his emotions at the time coming out. You obviously see that he is showing that he cares. In my opinion, your relationship is a very strong one, the type that will endure through not only the good, but also the bad. The kind that most only can dream of. ?✨
Look people can learn to control their emotions.
I know crabs love that extreme sheet, but it's not love or healthy to be calling someone names and being all aggressively jealous.
Now I know I'm saying this and I get crazy jealous and possesive if I feel insecure but I know it's not healthy
I would agree with you from what I've posted, that things don't seem to be the most healthy, and truly, they might not be. but I don't believe any relationship is truly perfect and without flaws.
yes, he may spew names, and sometimes do other things, but ultimately he is a good person, he is loving, kind, caring, thoughtful.
my Virgo would simply say I'm crazy, and he is correct.
I'm prettt sure we are all mad here (:
As long as you feel safe
I am working on standing up for myself more though, he has actually told me I should stand up for myself more with him.
if you can withstand a Virgo critiquing every fault you've ever had gone over with a magnifying glass and microscope zoomed in x1000 they actually mean well and want to help you overcome it lol
I do feel safe, I might be a pushover for him but I'm not a pushover in life, if that makes sense (:
I've never been critiqued. I critique.click to expand
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeewhat exactly is winning the man?Posted by OblivionI understand completely but that's not going to win you the man. Virgos don't respect nice people.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI do have boundaries, and have made them quite clear and my "real" boundaries have never been crossed.Posted by OblivionI know but don't bend too much. Because if you don't have boundaries it can get worse.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI am a bit masochistic, but I don't necessarily seek out pain unto myself.Posted by NostalgicCappyOK I know crabs are masochists but crab moons are idiotic as well it seems.Posted by Oblivion
possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both.
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerely
"possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both."
Isn't that the best feeling, when they say that? I Love when a man is protective and let's you know you belong to him.
I read your other post about the names that he calls you sometimes. I like the fact that you know not to take it too personally, knowing it's just his emotions at the time coming out. You obviously see that he is showing that he cares. In my opinion, your relationship is a very strong one, the type that will endure through not only the good, but also the bad. The kind that most only can dream of. ?✨
Look people can learn to control their emotions.
I know crabs love that extreme sheet, but it's not love or healthy to be calling someone names and being all aggressively jealous.
Now I know I'm saying this and I get crazy jealous and possesive if I feel insecure but I know it's not healthy
I would agree with you from what I've posted, that things don't seem to be the most healthy, and truly, they might not be. but I don't believe any relationship is truly perfect and without flaws.
yes, he may spew names, and sometimes do other things, but ultimately he is a good person, he is loving, kind, caring, thoughtful.
my Virgo would simply say I'm crazy, and he is correct.
I'm prettt sure we are all mad here (:
As long as you feel safe
I am working on standing up for myself more though, he has actually told me I should stand up for myself more with him.
if you can withstand a Virgo critiquing every fault you've ever had gone over with a magnifying glass and microscope zoomed in x1000 they actually mean well and want to help you overcome it lol
I do feel safe, I might be a pushover for him but I'm not a pushover in life, if that makes sense (:
I've never been critiqued. I critique.click to expand
well, enjoy your critiquing then (:
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeePosted by NostalgicCappyStrong women who won't take sheetPosted by CaramelizedCoffeeWhat do they like?Posted by OblivionI understand completely but that's not going to win you the man. Virgos don't respect nice people.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI do have boundaries, and have made them quite clear and my "real" boundaries have never been crossed.Posted by OblivionI know but don't bend too much. Because if you don't have boundaries it can get worse.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI am a bit masochistic, but I don't necessarily seek out pain unto myself.Posted by NostalgicCappyOK I know crabs are masochists but crab moons are idiotic as well it seems.Posted by Oblivion
possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both.
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerely
"possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both."
Isn't that the best feeling, when they say that? I Love when a man is protective and let's you know you belong to him.
I read your other post about the names that he calls you sometimes. I like the fact that you know not to take it too personally, knowing it's just his emotions at the time coming out. You obviously see that he is showing that he cares. In my opinion, your relationship is a very strong one, the type that will endure through not only the good, but also the bad. The kind that most only can dream of. ?✨
Look people can learn to control their emotions.
I know crabs love that extreme sheet, but it's not love or healthy to be calling someone names and being all aggressively jealous.
Now I know I'm saying this and I get crazy jealous and possesive if I feel insecure but I know it's not healthy
I would agree with you from what I've posted, that things don't seem to be the most healthy, and truly, they might not be. but I don't believe any relationship is truly perfect and without flaws.
yes, he may spew names, and sometimes do other things, but ultimately he is a good person, he is loving, kind, caring, thoughtful.
my Virgo would simply say I'm crazy, and he is correct.
I'm prettt sure we are all mad here (:
As long as you feel safe
I am working on standing up for myself more though, he has actually told me I should stand up for myself more with him.
if you can withstand a Virgo critiquing every fault you've ever had gone over with a magnifying glass and microscope zoomed in x1000 they actually mean well and want to help you overcome it lol
I do feel safe, I might be a pushover for him but I'm not a pushover in life, if that makes sense (:
I've never been critiqued. I critique.click to expand
We're Leo Moons CC, we put our partners on pedestals. Did your ex like that or no?
Also, are you a Virgo Mars too? I forgot.
my poor Virgo is in a sulky mood tonight, he asked me why is he so sad, and I said because you're a Virgo
lol he didn't like that too much
grumpy Virgos, gotta love them
lol he didn't like that too much
grumpy Virgos, gotta love them
Posted by OblivionPosted by KaineVirgoMaleI've had no contact with my ex since before I met Virgo. I've blocked him on every platform, but he still finds a way to wish me happy birthday, or happy Valentine's Day etc. I never respond, simply block the new platform. but that doesn't stop Virgo from losing it every time. he can see my phone and look through any of my stuff anytime he wants (which occasionally he does). I can understand the jealousy, I do, but it's hard to take when he calls me a whore and slut for it in a fit of rage (Aries Moon). later he calms down and apologizes and then sulks by himself for a bit because he feels bad for getting so upset lol.Posted by OblivionIf you love him cut contact with your ex.
possessive is also equal. always talks about owning me completely and that I belong to him. I am flattered by both.
but the jealousy can be jarring at times. one of my ex's wished my happy Valentine's Day via text, I have no contact with them. but he saw it on my phone and flipped of course. what makes it jarring is he will keep bringing it up every time he's upset, and will say it as if I've done something wrong.
I love him though, sincerelyclick to expand
Sounds like me ? but I don't disrespect her by calling her names like those lol
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My Virgo husband is very possessive and as of the last 10 years, extremely jealous. He is deathly protective and territorial.
He has never taken it out on me...just other people.
Astrologically, he is a Cancer Moon. He has quite a few aspects to Pluto... mainly, Venus Conjunct Pluto both in his 7th house. His Venus and Pluto square his moon. As far as synasty, it's a double whammy as his Venus is in my 8th house and his Moon is in my 7th. We also have Venus (him) conjunct Pluto (me) in dynasty.
The 7th house Venus is what makes him not take it out on me. He threatens other people...or, tries to joke about it which comes across a little insane.
Man, woman, child, animal, TV show, book (at varying degrees)... He doesn't care. He's jealous of my imagination, a song I love... I have to do damage control. Cause he has grown to tell me when he feels this way and tries to control himself. When younger, it was a surprise to everyone.
Like having a dinner with another couple... and he felt the male was holding conversation too long... He says to the male ( in front of the female) as they are leaving, "this is my pussy" and closed the door.
I made the mistake of letting one of his friends in to wait on him until he got home... oh boy.
It's two decades later and he's become intensely jealous.
He has never taken it out on me...just other people.
Astrologically, he is a Cancer Moon. He has quite a few aspects to Pluto... mainly, Venus Conjunct Pluto both in his 7th house. His Venus and Pluto square his moon. As far as synasty, it's a double whammy as his Venus is in my 8th house and his Moon is in my 7th. We also have Venus (him) conjunct Pluto (me) in dynasty.
The 7th house Venus is what makes him not take it out on me. He threatens other people...or, tries to joke about it which comes across a little insane.
Man, woman, child, animal, TV show, book (at varying degrees)... He doesn't care. He's jealous of my imagination, a song I love... I have to do damage control. Cause he has grown to tell me when he feels this way and tries to control himself. When younger, it was a surprise to everyone.
Like having a dinner with another couple... and he felt the male was holding conversation too long... He says to the male ( in front of the female) as they are leaving, "this is my pussy" and closed the door.
I made the mistake of letting one of his friends in to wait on him until he got home... oh boy.
It's two decades later and he's become intensely jealous.
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