virgo men and the friendzone!
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by JURR on Thursday, December 17, 2015 and has 13 replies.
How do you think a Virgo man would feel being put in the friend zone after hooking up with a girl twice? Do you think they would say it's OK... but maybe not everspeak to her again??
What exactly is the story here? What are you trying to do?
Friendzone after sex, is basically telling him, you are cool enough to talk to but you are not attracted to him. A friend of the opposite sex would not let a friend they care about feel unwanted or deprive them of sex. Thats not what real friends do lol, i wouldnt wait on a phone call from him, if you already let him know thats how you feel.
I'm assuming you're a human of the evil kind.
I would honestly say it's okay but won't stick around. It either works or it doesn't.
Posted by JURR
How do you think a Virgo man would feel being put in the friend zone after hooking up with a girl twice? Do you think they would say it's OK... but maybe not everspeak to her again??
It all depends on how good of friends you were prior to bringing sex into the equation.
Virgos are viewed as being very critical towards others. This is because they are the most critical and hard on themselves. Putting him in the friend zone is a rejection and he will feel it acutely. (Actually this is true about the male ego in general).
It's also all about how you do it. If you word it in a way to spare his ego as much as possible, "I value our friendship and I fear if we keep hooking up I might loose you as a friend and I don't want that".
However it's still a rejection and his reaction will prove if you are really friends that shared a common interest, OR if he feigned interest in order to get close to you and slip you the D. If that was the case I don't think you'll hear from him again. He'll ghost you.
Looks like your about to find out how sincere your 'friendship' with him is.
I'd suggest reading the following... sheds some light on how men and women view friendship differently.
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i met this virgo guy. he was so sweet and enduring. we knocked the boots. we even had the relationship talk.... Soon after he made a confession that he was already in a relationship. i dropped him that same moment. no hesitation.
he was quite robotic in his response over text. very non emotional. I think its because he thought i was just blowing hot air. then after a few days, he showed up on my doorstep pleading to talk and for me not to be mad at him. he said he felt bad. i guess it took him some time to actually FEEL what was going on.
he was quite robotic in his response over text. very non emotional. I think its because he thought i was just blowing hot air. then after a few days, he showed up on my doorstep pleading to talk and for me not to be mad at him. he said he felt bad. i guess it took him some time to actually FEEL what was going on.
Posted by BlackMambaPosted by DMV
i met this virgo guy. he was so sweet and enduring. we knocked the boots. we even had the relationship talk.... Soon after he made a confession that he was already in a relationship. i dropped him that same moment. no hesitation.
he was quite robotic in his response over text. very non emotional. I think its because he thought i was just blowing hot air. then after a few days, he showed up on my doorstep pleading to talk and for me not to be mad at him. he said he felt bad. i guess it took him some time to actually FEEL what was going on.
its odd how robotic non emotional boring guys can cheat on their more invigorating more lustrous girlfriends and wives so often
it's ridiculous...its as if they need to feel like they're interesting by cheating.
instead of just having a more interesting personality and lifeclick to expand
NO BS. I asked him his birthday. As soon as he said sept 1, Virgo. I immediately thought of DXP and all the virgo shenanigan stories. I knew in seconds, there was going to be some BS coming my way and i was right.
i wouldnt have felt so slighted if he hadnt fought so hard to make sure i wasnt involved. It was like he forgot alllll about the relationship he was in and giving me a heads up.
very self serving
I made it pretty obvious that I didn't want anything... I did the classic movie thing when you sneak out in the middle of the night. He seemed kinda upset about it, and confused at first but then he said it was fine and seemed like he didn't care that much. I will see him tonight and tell him that we should be friends.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Putting him in the friend zone is a rejection and he will feel it acutely. (Actually this is true about the male ego in general).
In reality, women get extremely butt hurt if they're put in the friend zone and feel it as a rejection .... the feeling of not being important enough to continue isn't a male malady.
It belongs to humans across the board.
Posted by JURR
I made it pretty obvious that I didn't want anything... I did the classic movie thing when you sneak out in the middle of the night. He seemed kinda upset about it, and confused at first but then he said it was fine and seemed like he didn't care that much. I will see him tonight and tell him that we should be friends.
The only thing you made obvious is that your tongue says one thing, while your actions do another.
It's only a matter of time before another person puts those two pieces together .... the volume of women who come in here to talk about their game is staggering.
This ridiculous mindset in where these women have no clue how to be a partner must come from single-mom homes. These single mothers are teaching them how to seek approval from men so that they can attach themselves.
It's so sad, really.
I thank my lucky stars every day for my mind.
Posted by P-AngelPosted by LadyNeptune
Putting him in the friend zone is a rejection and he will feel it acutely. (Actually this is true about the male ego in general).
In reality, women get extremely butt hurt if they're put in the friend zone and feel it as a rejection .... the feeling of not being important enough to continue isn't a male malady.
It belongs to humans across the board.click to expand
True, I should have said the human ego.
Even if your don't want anything further from the person having them tell you they don't see you as relationship material still smarts.
Posted by JURR
I made it pretty obvious that I didn't want anything... I did the classic movie thing when you sneak out in the middle of the night. He seemed kinda upset about it, and confused at first but then he said it was fine and seemed like he didn't care that much. I will see him tonight and tell him that we should be friends.
No worries...Virgo guys tend to stick by a woman with class.
You can tell him anything you'd like..but ^^^^that is the bottom line.
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