virgo men are amazing!!

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by risphoenix on Monday, January 2, 2012 and has 26 replies.
so I joined dxp cause I never knew men like this existed ... I knew a couple of virgo men but they was rotten eggs ..but I think this one is a catch! well at least so far of what I see..not heard seen!! actions do speak louder than words and oh boy!! I feel spoiled with attention Im lovin all of it!
lol, onix is that you?
nope sorry dont know who that is imma newbie lol
really?? does him having a pisces moon help? I thoought that would? but Im still learning about astrology..but that is true I have met some real messed up ones in my days...but Im hoping that he is a good one... he is very attentive always positive with me and lifts me up when Im feelin down..so Im hopin this is not a front! hey do you know if they have issues with being liars? I had heard some stories from others...
and I am a scorpio with sagittarius moon ... just thought I throw that in lol
Posted by virg_goki
just be careful. I usually see more broken virgo men than not. but that's just me


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Posted by virg_goki
just be careful. I usually see more broken virgo men than not. but that's just me


Sorry virgoki, most of the time you make a lot of sense..but this is utter rubbish smile
Hey Virgo and Scorpio can make an incredible pair, if both parties are willing to make it work. I love my Virgo man. The key is effective communication, something these two have a hard time doing since Virgo is reserved and Scorpio is secretive. Overall, I have seen more of these pair on dxpnet than others. Then again, I may be bias.
Posted by MadameAthena
The key is effective communication, something these two have a hard time doing since Virgo is reserved and Scorpio is secretive.



Cant say that is the case with the scorpio Im dealing with, we actually have to make a conscious effort to try to stop communicating with each other Tongue we just can never stop talking, it feels good.
Posted by intellectualbrat
Posted by virg_goki
You should look out for 25thdecan and cajun to come by to swing some experience. They're the ones with lots of experience with scorpios.



Virg_goki so you are sayin Virgo men lie to get their way?
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I dont think its necessarily a lie they use to convey a certain "appearance". I know a couple Virguys who do things to appear to be the life of the party, a big mean thug, or a label whore. Like they'll post certain pictures on social networks or use certain language but when you hang out with the one who's social network photo albums make him look like a party animal, he's more like an old retired man when he's not working, the big meanie is really a big softie, and the label whore taking a million pictures of his high fashion wardrobe, is wearing sweats and a t-shirt with trendy sneakers. For whatever reason they want to come off as I guess what they think people want them to be. I guess its a convenient defense mech.
Sorry to get off topic
well this is the first one I am talkin to cause I think I scared the others off before I got a chance to really show them who I am but talking isnt a problem we cant stop talking to each other...and as far as him trying to make it seem like he is bigger than what he is I feel its harmless but I can pretty much see past all that...thanks for all the comments cause I need all the help I can get ...and as far as me being a scorpio and secretive I have a couple of them but its nothin pertaining to him Im pretty blunt I have big mouth ..must be my sag moon lol!! but he is very comforting and I feel at ease when he is around... Im enjoying this a lil too much smile but only time will tell..
lol 25th, of course everyone lies and puts it on a little thick to get their way.
lol I KNOW Intellect. Keep them buried. Thats when I was locked in the Cancer/Taurus dance and dealing with the Gemini ex. Blah, so glad thats the past.
I agree with intellectual ...cause I met some liars of every sign.. but what up with 25th decan? I was warned about you why is that?? lol
i dont think its lying. i think some virgos on this site program their brains to believe that virgoes can never be optimistic,happy or a live wire, just because they (dx'ps)choose to not, have an open/peaceful mind of their own.i have met plenty virgoes who are gifted with spontaneity courage and assertiveness.Then there's the ones,like the ones here who just want to suck the life out you if you are more positive then they are and want you to submit to their worry some world,just because they are scared something may go wrong if things are too happy.these are the underdeveloped ones who speak on problems instead of looking at the obvious solutions and keep it moving.
You in the other hand my friend have a developed virgo so sherish him, have a great sense of humor and you will be fine
Oh I consider their mask harmless too. Its something they think is necessary, but it isnt hard to see through if youre really interested in them. In fact, I think they appreciate the people that can. All the Virgos I listed above are still close friends. I don't even call them out on it, I just treat them like I dont even see the facade.
Posted by Let*It*Be
"Cant say that is the case with the scorpio Im dealing with, we actually have to make a conscious effort to try to stop communicating with each other we just can never stop talking, it feels good."

aww, Shaks, I'm paying attention to the nice comments you've been throwing out here and there..sweet isn't it? :-)



Heheh smile it truly is, although we are still not "official" I cant help but feel blessed for having met someone like her. Now that shes temporarily back in France for the holidays, she wont stop texting me! lol you scorpio women are intense huh? Tongue and insane in a good way.
at 25th I understand how you feel as far as protecting yourself you can only judge by experience..and trust me I do the same with leos and geminis.. obviously not a good match for scorpios but it also has to deal with on their mentality and way of thinking horoscopes dont just tell you everything about someone so dont judge them.. well us because of the past be cautious is a good word but not all are alike..horoscopes cant tell you that they are bipolar or are theives just an example.. I think Im pretty different as far talking and being open minded..but I do have them nasty bad qualities that i wish I can throw in the lake of fire. Like my trust issues and and jealousy I hate it but that is a part of me and I learn each day that I not anyone else can cure this problem it starts with me.. really its my mind playin tricks on me ..duh duh na na na na duh..( singin the song ) lol..and by the way 25th Im not scared of you..lol
Posted by nyc125
i dont think its lying. i think some virgos on this site program their brains to believe that virgoes can never be optimistic,happy or a live wire, just because they (dx'ps)choose to not, have an open/peaceful mind of their own.i have met plenty virgoes who are gifted with spontaneity courage and assertiveness.Then there's the ones,like the ones here who just want to suck the life out you if you are more positive then they are and want you to submit to their worry some world,just because they are scared something may go wrong if things are too happy.these are the underdeveloped ones who speak on problems instead of looking at the obvious solutions and keep it moving.
You in the other hand my friend have a developed virgo so sherish him, have a great sense of humor and you will be fine

Now if I did it right nyc comment should appear above...but thank you for all the positive info it was very uplifting.. and yes I do have a great sense of humor all I do is crack jokes all day ...I tell myself all the time to grow the f@ck up lol!
Posted by Let*It*Be
"Heheh it truly is, although we are still not "official" I cant help but feel blessed for having met someone like her. Now that shes temporarily back in France for the holidays, she wont stop texting me! lol you scorpio women are intense huh? and insane in a good way."
Translation: Scorp women are loyal, devoted, and when we begin to fall in love extremely intense. (in a good way) Winking

agreed loyal aint even the word for it more like ride or die..and yes we get intense but thats showing how much we care and we love talkin to our partners...be happy she is like that cause when the phone stops ringing then you need to worry ...oh but it will ring again but what you hear on the other side wont be all lovey dovey..just be happy with her and show her that as well cause after you get through all the crap we put you through...trust me you have a permanent partner...unless you cheat lol!
only problem for me is ...Im scared imma run away now where does that come from in my birth chart...I have issues of running from relationships I know will be great...smh.. so a#@ backwards... I need help with that one anyone? just raise your hand at anytime.
"virgo men are amazing!!"
lol I saw this on - ??? elsewhere on dxpnet - and came running!Tongue
YES!!!I've been saying it since I joinedTongue they're bloody fantastic, even when I want to kill them!(which is everyday) No one else compares in my heartsmile
ris Im the same way...but so is he. I think its a general feeling of being uncomfortable with vulnerability more than anything dictated by a chart and thats just human. We've both had instances that took us out of our comfort zone while dealing with one another and we jump in, jump out, and scramble for the nearest exit. Then we work up the nerve to peek back in and make sure the other person didn't run away too. lol I REALLY like this guy and that scares me because I haven't liked someone like this is a long time. Not even in my last serious relationship, which is probably why I was in it, I felt extra safe (although the lack of passion eventually caused us to burn out). Its like riding a wave and while you enjoy the feeling of soaring above the ocean your fear of wiping out causes you to...yes wipe out and crash. I just tell myself to try to enjoy riding the wave for as long as I can, and when/if the crash comes. And it has and I've climbed back up and caught the next one. He's done the same thing and everytime I've been there when he gets his courage back up. For those of us who hate to be hurt and rejected, it does take courage to really open up, hopefully whoever you're dealing with realizes and respects that.
Posted by SweetestFatale
Oh I consider their mask harmless too. Its something they think is necessary, but it isnt hard to see through if youre really interested in them. In fact, I think they appreciate the people that can. All the Virgos I listed above are still close friends. I don't even call them out on it, I just treat them like I dont even see the facade.



enabler ^^^^
I have to say that the Virgo I'm dealing with right now frustrates me sometimes but he's amazing at the same time. Most of the Virgos I dealt with in the past (male) were very boring. The Gemini in me couldn't wait to get away from these men. Until I met "him". OMG! He challenges me like no other because I cannot get a read on him! I totally understand that because I used to be the same way: seemingly unemotional, detached, etc. He has this sexy auora (spelling) about him and he acts as if he's not aware of it! But I understand that as well because people say I have that and back in the day I wasn't aware of it. Now of course I know I'm a sexy woman--no doubt *snicker*. Anyway, I have to give it to you Virgo men, you have it going on. I'm just sad I waited so long to give one a chance! This man is the full package: intelligent, classy, funny, sexy, etc., etc. For all the haters...try one out! LMAO! Oh and I'm not about to entertain any negative comments on this; no one is bursting my bubble on this one! :-)
Posted by intellectualbrat
Posted by GemStar05
I have to say that the Virgo I'm dealing with right now frustrates me sometimes but he's amazing at the same time. Most of the Virgos I dealt with in the past (male) were very boring. The Gemini in me couldn't wait to get away from these men. Until I met "him". OMG! He challenges me like no other because I cannot get a read on him! I totally understand that because I used to be the same way: seemingly unemotional, detached, etc. He has this sexy auora (spelling) about him and he acts as if he's not aware of it! But I understand that as well because people say I have that and back in the day I wasn't aware of it. Now of course I know I'm a sexy woman--no doubt *snicker*. Anyway, I have to give it to you Virgo men, you have it going on. I'm just sad I waited so long to give one a chance! This man is the full package: intelligent, classy, funny, sexy, etc., etc. For all the haters...try one out! LMAO! Oh and I'm not about to entertain any negative comments on this; no one is bursting my bubble on this one! :-)



I know what you mean...I so agree with you on the challenge thing..They act like they dont know what the hell you are talking about..but you know...and he knows..so it stimulates the mind!!! Amazing!!! My Virgo is like that!!!Winking
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IB,
I'm crazy about my Virgo but he wears me out emotionally sometimes. I already have very little patience and he constantly needs reassurance that I feel they way I do about him. Getting tired of doing that; especially when I get very little from him. I love a challenge but dang!
Posted by risphoenix
really?? does him having a pisces moon help? I thoought that would?


Actually, no. A Virgo with a Pisces Moon has Sun Opposite Moon in his natal chart... it's a very challenging placement for most people, many struggle for years to balance the two extremes and end the war inside themselves. Some do, some don't. It's not an easy placement to have, for sure.
http://cafeastrology.com/natal/sunoppositionmoon.html>Sun Opposite Moon
http://www.strangehouse.com/natal-aspects/sun-opposition-moon.html>Sun Opposite Moon
Sun Opposite Moon
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