virgo men what's up with this one??
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by waterbaby18 on Tuesday, November 1, 2005 and has 2 replies.
I was with a Virgo for the last 10 years, We are no longer together he is the father of my 2 children and at One time I loved him very much to the point where I wouldve done anything for him. He became very abusive, and tried to stop with Medication and seeing his DR. but in the end he gave up the Meds, and just couldn't stop hitting me when we got into fights. Well I ended up Having to Put a PFA against him and having him removed from the house.
He now keeps calling me begging for a 2nd chance, he wants to change and be the man I want him to be. He wants to know what he can do to make me maybe consider him to be a part of my life. He said he sees what he has lost and hates it he hates not seeing me or the kids every day.
I can't tell him the man he should be he should want to change for himself, Ive been told abusive Men never Stop???? Plus Im seeing a Cancer who is really great and would never be abusive in anyway. I see my X and feel bad sometimes like I want him to be happy even after all the terrible things he has done 2 me, I thought maybe we could date again. But I think Id do it just to make him happy not myself but Im not sure, My pisces personality sometimes has me doing things just to please someone else and not myself. I guess it's hard because he's the father of my children and we were together for 10 years.
He now keeps calling me begging for a 2nd chance, he wants to change and be the man I want him to be. He wants to know what he can do to make me maybe consider him to be a part of my life. He said he sees what he has lost and hates it he hates not seeing me or the kids every day.
I can't tell him the man he should be he should want to change for himself, Ive been told abusive Men never Stop???? Plus Im seeing a Cancer who is really great and would never be abusive in anyway. I see my X and feel bad sometimes like I want him to be happy even after all the terrible things he has done 2 me, I thought maybe we could date again. But I think Id do it just to make him happy not myself but Im not sure, My pisces personality sometimes has me doing things just to please someone else and not myself. I guess it's hard because he's the father of my children and we were together for 10 years.
BRANH0913~ I do not love my X I think the love i had for him was lost after the abusive things he did, how can you Love the person who's suppose to protect you but they are the one you need protected from. He's a good father for the most part he gets a little upset with our daughter she's tough she's an Aries baby. The cancer Im seeing is wonderful and we have a strong relationship and we do love each other. So I am going to try to have a civil relationship with My X, he has the kids every other weekend right now and I want them to be with him they need him in their life. I guess sometimes it's just hard when I do think about all the good times we shared but the bad kind of started to out number the good. Thanks for the Advice it's a real help.
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