Virgo not answering my calls
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by MarinaJamison on Monday, January 26, 2009 and has 18 replies.
I am worried. We met two months ago, he is an entertainer at my favorite resort in Jamaica, we struck up friendship and yes it led to more. He told me he was risking his job (very strict resort) but that he had to be with me. When I was going to leave for US, he gave me his cell # and told me to please call any time. We talked for about a month almost every night. He told me he wanted to visit me in US, I told him we had to get to know each better. He said I was right. Then I heard nothing, I have been calling and nothing. I even called the resort and they did not connect me. I am booking a flight now to see him because I am so worried about him. I know he still works there because I go on travel sites and someone mentioned his show (he sings). So I know he is still there. All I know is he is a Virgo, Sept. 13. Please help, he is the ONE and I am afraid he might have lost his job because of our relationship.
GIRL~ Slow down on that trip! My Vguy is Sept 12 and you best slow down, before you make that trip, and find what you least expect, which is not another female, but he is busy!
Whoa ... take a giant step backwards .. ASAP.
Don't run down there to him like that, you don't know this man. How can you say he's the One when you barely even know him.
This man is used to having women on him .. he is an entertainer, and these kinds of people are used to people throwing themselves on them .. and it sounds like he will indulge in the ride.
Check yourself ... don't rush off on a fools mission. A charmer trying to get laid knows exactly what to say to get inside the panties. Just because he charmed you, doesn't mean he is a Prince .. it means he knows exactly what to tell you to get his pleasure.
Don't run down there to him like that, you don't know this man. How can you say he's the One when you barely even know him.
This man is used to having women on him .. he is an entertainer, and these kinds of people are used to people throwing themselves on them .. and it sounds like he will indulge in the ride.
Check yourself ... don't rush off on a fools mission. A charmer trying to get laid knows exactly what to say to get inside the panties. Just because he charmed you, doesn't mean he is a Prince .. it means he knows exactly what to tell you to get his pleasure.
And boy can a Virgo Male do exactly that......charm to get what he wants.....girl, read some of these threads........take some experience instead of making your own on this one!
Pangel I never felt like this. I'm 39 years old, never married, and he makes me feel like a princess. Yes, he is an entertainer and very personal and sweet. He is Jamaican and he calls himself the lighter-skin Bob Marly, lol, but he seems sincere. I am very afraid he lost his job somehow, this resort is very strict about people socializing with the guests. I am just so scared for him and want him to be OK.
He is the one for me, I just somehow feel it. Maybe I will think again on the trip because in honesty can't really afford it right now, but I am so in love and just need to see him again.
He is the one for me, I just somehow feel it. Maybe I will think again on the trip because in honesty can't really afford it right now, but I am so in love and just need to see him again.
OMG ..... you are in infatuation .... listen .. it's infatuation.
Alright, let's look at a different angle here.
What if they did find out he was messing with one of the guests, and his job is in jeapordy and this is why he hasn't contacted you .... if you show up down there, you could put him in further trouble with his job. You showing up could ultimately GET HIM FIRED.
Think about that ^^^^^^
Do you honestly think he is going to run into the arms of the woman who costed him his job?
Another thing ... just because he lost his job (if he did) .. that doesn't mean he lost your phone number, does it? He gave you his cell phone number .. that has nothing to do with his job.
His cell .. he can use to make a phone call, regardless of what his occupation is, right? He doesn't call you because he chooses not to call you, Marina.
Ok, so you call the resort and he doesn't come to the phone .. you say that you know he's still working there according to your informants ... so how can you be all worried that he lost his job when you know he didn't?
You've got yourself all freaked out here because you've let your feelings take over your rational mind here, Marina.
Take a deep breath, and a giant step backwards and think about these things from a practical standpoint .....
1. You say you are worried that he lost his job .. yet you know he's still working there.
2. If he did lose his job .. you know that that doesn't have anything to do with your phone number.
3. Because you feel this profound love, doesnt' necessarily mean he feels this deep love of you being The One .... because if he did feel this way about you .. HE WOULD CALL YOU.
What's your sun sign?
Alright, let's look at a different angle here.
What if they did find out he was messing with one of the guests, and his job is in jeapordy and this is why he hasn't contacted you .... if you show up down there, you could put him in further trouble with his job. You showing up could ultimately GET HIM FIRED.
Think about that ^^^^^^
Do you honestly think he is going to run into the arms of the woman who costed him his job?
Another thing ... just because he lost his job (if he did) .. that doesn't mean he lost your phone number, does it? He gave you his cell phone number .. that has nothing to do with his job.
His cell .. he can use to make a phone call, regardless of what his occupation is, right? He doesn't call you because he chooses not to call you, Marina.
Ok, so you call the resort and he doesn't come to the phone .. you say that you know he's still working there according to your informants ... so how can you be all worried that he lost his job when you know he didn't?
You've got yourself all freaked out here because you've let your feelings take over your rational mind here, Marina.
Take a deep breath, and a giant step backwards and think about these things from a practical standpoint .....
1. You say you are worried that he lost his job .. yet you know he's still working there.
2. If he did lose his job .. you know that that doesn't have anything to do with your phone number.
3. Because you feel this profound love, doesnt' necessarily mean he feels this deep love of you being The One .... because if he did feel this way about you .. HE WOULD CALL YOU.
What's your sun sign?
I am a Gemini. May 27.
Yeah, I mean I know he is still there somehow but maybe he is keeping away because someone told (about us). I don't know. So yeah I could see how actually going down there might make things worse, but I just can't understand why he would not call me AT ALL. We were literally planning a wedding and now nothing!
Yeah, I mean I know he is still there somehow but maybe he is keeping away because someone told (about us). I don't know. So yeah I could see how actually going down there might make things worse, but I just can't understand why he would not call me AT ALL. We were literally planning a wedding and now nothing!
A wedding?
How long were you with him?
How long were you with him?
I spent a week total with him, but we just bonded like that and since the resort is a destination for weddings, we just sort of play-acted like we were planning our wedding and he seemed so sincere. I really do love him, never believed in love at first sight before I met him.
Men, who are Players, Charmers .. knows how to tap into what moves a woman, Marina. Women want to be loved so bad, they search their whole lives to find Mr. Right .... and a Player knows this, he knows what to tell her to bring her to her knees and make her fawn over him.
I'm sorry you have played by him, but, you need to recognize this .. you need to realize that this was his game. He's probably there right now, seducing another woman with the same tactic.
On your end, you've fallen .. so you cannot see this. It's ok to have these feeligns for him, but, you have to realize that he doesn't share these feelings, because if he did, then he would come to you, he would call you, he would be checking on you.
Listen, Virgo's who are in love .... bind theirselves to this person. When they love a person, they make this person top priority in their worlds to provide comfort and care to.
A Virgo in love, Marina .. would have been waiting with bated-breath to hear from you to make sure your plane landed ok. A Virgo in love "takes care" of his loved-one.
I know this hurts you, and I'm sorry to be the one to tell you this .. but, this man played on your womanly feelings to get up your skirt.
He did .... it's written all over this testimony. Only a week, and he wove a fantasy around you to make you think he was sincerely interested in marrying you.
I know you don't want to believe that .. but, it's the truth.
A Virgo takes eons to measure a potential partner, Marina ... read testimonies in here from women ... some of them have been waiting years for their Virgo to decide whether he wants to commit. They are extremely cautious about who they choose to marry ... and there's no way in hell one would make this hasty decision based off of a sexual fling.
I'm sorry you have played by him, but, you need to recognize this .. you need to realize that this was his game. He's probably there right now, seducing another woman with the same tactic.
On your end, you've fallen .. so you cannot see this. It's ok to have these feeligns for him, but, you have to realize that he doesn't share these feelings, because if he did, then he would come to you, he would call you, he would be checking on you.
Listen, Virgo's who are in love .... bind theirselves to this person. When they love a person, they make this person top priority in their worlds to provide comfort and care to.
A Virgo in love, Marina .. would have been waiting with bated-breath to hear from you to make sure your plane landed ok. A Virgo in love "takes care" of his loved-one.
I know this hurts you, and I'm sorry to be the one to tell you this .. but, this man played on your womanly feelings to get up your skirt.
He did .... it's written all over this testimony. Only a week, and he wove a fantasy around you to make you think he was sincerely interested in marrying you.
I know you don't want to believe that .. but, it's the truth.
A Virgo takes eons to measure a potential partner, Marina ... read testimonies in here from women ... some of them have been waiting years for their Virgo to decide whether he wants to commit. They are extremely cautious about who they choose to marry ... and there's no way in hell one would make this hasty decision based off of a sexual fling.
"We talked for about a month almost every night. He told me he wanted to visit me in US, I told him we had to get to know each better."
Sorry .. I missed this where you said you two had talked on the phone for about a month .. so I can see where you thought he was sincere.
Still though ... keep in mind, he knows your phone number, so, his not calling you and avoiding your calls ... is by choice.
Try to step away from what you are feeling for a second ... and look at this from a logical standpoint.
I know you said you might not go down there now ... and I just want to heavily impress this upon you, so you don't.
Don't run after a man to whom has chosen to ignore you, Marina ... because the only outcome is for your feelings to get injured.
Sorry .. I missed this where you said you two had talked on the phone for about a month .. so I can see where you thought he was sincere.
Still though ... keep in mind, he knows your phone number, so, his not calling you and avoiding your calls ... is by choice.
Try to step away from what you are feeling for a second ... and look at this from a logical standpoint.
I know you said you might not go down there now ... and I just want to heavily impress this upon you, so you don't.
Don't run after a man to whom has chosen to ignore you, Marina ... because the only outcome is for your feelings to get injured.
Marina~ I am 41, Gem, Birthday May 27th, with that said, STOP!
STOP STOP STOP read some of my post and ask anything you want..........STOP NOW, believe ME!
STOP STOP STOP read some of my post and ask anything you want..........STOP NOW, believe ME!
WHAT...the hell?
we need to know more about the dynamics of the relation likewho initiated the calling when you came back to the UK
I don't understand what you are actually wanting to know. I have a feeling you will go and see him no matter what anyone else says - right or wrong.
I'm not so sure about that ... when I first read this, I got caught up in the emotion of freaking out because I thought she was going to rush off and do something very foolish .. as we all can realize would be a terrible move. However, now that it's later and I've had time to think about this .. things don't make sense to me, and I'm thinking that maybe this is just a story put here to create some drama.
For instance .... how could a 39 year old woman be this naive? Sure, she's never been married before, but, certainly she's had relationships. He is an entertainer, he likely has women to choose from as to who he's going to lay with .. so, if he picked her then certainly she would have to be attractive, because he would pick the prettiest one, wouldn't he? So, she has to be attractive, and what pretty woman could make it to 39 and never have any experience in relatinships? That's absurd .. even ugly women have relationships. There's just no way my rational mind can fathom a woman of her age, and life experiences NOT comprehend a play like this.
Also, she said to him on the phone when he wanted to come to the US to see her .. she told him .. "I told him we had to get to know each better."
Get to know each other better? I thought he was The One? The man to whom was planning on marrying her .. the man that she could just "feel" was the right one for her .. that they shared a connection like no other .. the man to whom would risk his job to be with her ... the man who spent a month after her arrival home talking to her on the phone almost every night ....
.. so why in the hell would she say to her soul-mate .. we have to get to know each other better .... before they could see other again?
wtf?
This was a game ... and I jumped right in. She's good, I'll give her that.
For instance .... how could a 39 year old woman be this naive? Sure, she's never been married before, but, certainly she's had relationships. He is an entertainer, he likely has women to choose from as to who he's going to lay with .. so, if he picked her then certainly she would have to be attractive, because he would pick the prettiest one, wouldn't he? So, she has to be attractive, and what pretty woman could make it to 39 and never have any experience in relatinships? That's absurd .. even ugly women have relationships. There's just no way my rational mind can fathom a woman of her age, and life experiences NOT comprehend a play like this.
Also, she said to him on the phone when he wanted to come to the US to see her .. she told him .. "I told him we had to get to know each better."
Get to know each other better? I thought he was The One? The man to whom was planning on marrying her .. the man that she could just "feel" was the right one for her .. that they shared a connection like no other .. the man to whom would risk his job to be with her ... the man who spent a month after her arrival home talking to her on the phone almost every night ....
.. so why in the hell would she say to her soul-mate .. we have to get to know each other better .... before they could see other again?
wtf?
This was a game ... and I jumped right in. She's good, I'll give her that.
It wasnt me!
Kinda freaky same basic age as me and birthday..............weird
I too thought "really" when she first post, i didnt freak, i am just like, "really" .
A freind of mines mom did that PA, she went w/out sex for 7 years, then when she finally decided to "do" a man at work, she got mad when he didnt just fall into her and she literally had to go to the mental hospital and has not been right since. That is NOT a story or a joke, its like "really" Say it isnt so!
Kinda freaky same basic age as me and birthday..............weird
I too thought "really" when she first post, i didnt freak, i am just like, "really" .
A freind of mines mom did that PA, she went w/out sex for 7 years, then when she finally decided to "do" a man at work, she got mad when he didnt just fall into her and she literally had to go to the mental hospital and has not been right since. That is NOT a story or a joke, its like "really" Say it isnt so!
You're right, it's possible, I guess, that she would really fall like this, so it might be on the up-and-up .. just seems strange to me that she would tell him they have they have to get to know each other better before seeing each other, when they are so united as one that they knew they were each other's life partner just after a week.
If you met Him, The One, and you spent time merging your two hearts together as one, and showing each other in bed that you are soulmates .... would you then tell the man when he wanted to come see you that you two needed to get to know each other better first?
Makes no sense ...
If you met Him, The One, and you spent time merging your two hearts together as one, and showing each other in bed that you are soulmates .... would you then tell the man when he wanted to come see you that you two needed to get to know each other better first?
Makes no sense ...
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