Virgo’s selfish?

Anyone else experienced their Virgo peeps being selfish. I’ve noticed this in two of my Virgo friends, one of them tends to ask me for a lot of stuff that they don’t need? And the other would never go out of his way for me. I am just curious if this a Virgo thing or just a people thing.

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Posted by virgoOPPP

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Interesting, thanks for your input. I’ve never asked either for anything so I am thinking either they don’t trust me or don’t really care about me.

Yes ...they are ridiculously selfish and should be put out in a field and shot on site. Selfish fucking bastards!!

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Yes ...they are ridiculously selfish and should be put out in a field and shot on site. Selfish fucking bastards!!

Disappointed but not surprised 😒

Posted by signup

It sounds like people including Virgo that aren't into you very much.

Yes ma’am/sir

Posted by Nasty

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Yes ...they are ridiculously selfish and should be put out in a field and shot on site. Selfish fucking bastards!!

Disappointed but not surprised 😒

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I'm a Virgo 😂. I was just playing... normally we aren't selfish...maybe with wanting space but typically we over extend ourselves for others.

No, they are very giving .... the server..

Posted by greylatern

Posted by Nasty

Anyone else experienced their Virgo peeps being selfish. I’ve noticed this in two of my Virgo friends, one of them tends to ask me for a lot of stuff that they don’t need? And the other would never go out of his way for me. I am just curious if this a Virgo thing or just a people thing.

It's a people you allow in your life thing. If you speak up kindly, they will change thier behavior or move on. If you act like your not bothered by it and continue bending over backwards.....

Edit: Oh someone brought up a good point. Do they return the favor if they are able to?

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Eh not really, they ask for more than they are willing to give. I haven’t brought it up because I am not really out here to change people but I think I get the picture.

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

I know a Virgo and she seems very selfish. She doesn't like to lend her stuff yet she likes to borrow stuff. She took balanciaga shoes from my sister and she went on holidays with them and actually damaged them lol who does that.

She has this spoilt child I come first attitude about her. That's the only Virgo I know.

She is cool though but 👀

Yes this exactly, I don’t understand it.

I only become selfish once I feel you're a fake or you did something to me which caused me to lose my respect for you

I don’t think we are 🥺

If anything sometimes I feel like I do too much and feel bad when I put myself first 😕

Posted by jaymens933

Posted by Nasty

Anyone else experienced their Virgo peeps being selfish. I’ve noticed this in two of my Virgo friends, one of them tends to ask me for a lot of stuff that they don’t need? And the other would never go out of his way for me. I am just curious if this a Virgo thing or just a people thing.

Yea you could be innocent or someone they don't know but they will still try to take advantage of you, they take advantage of the weak. They wont dare to it to powerful people, as a Scorpio I like to pretend to see how people really are

They are highly judgemental/labeling too which IMO too makes them ignorant too

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We see right thru "powerful Scorpios" and their bs....best believe that!

From my experience Virgos have their moments just like every other person on this planet. Lol they give until they just can’t anymore but even then they don’t stop. It’s scary to see it in all honesty.

I wanna captinsaveavirgo sometimes and force them to set stronger boundaries.

Posted by jaymens933

Posted by Nasty

Anyone else experienced their Virgo peeps being selfish. I’ve noticed this in two of my Virgo friends, one of them tends to ask me for a lot of stuff that they don’t need? And the other would never go out of his way for me. I am just curious if this a Virgo thing or just a people thing.

Yea you could be innocent or someone they don't know but they will still try to take advantage of you, they take advantage of the weak. They wont dare to it to powerful people, as a Scorpio I like to pretend to see how people really are

They are highly judgemental/labeling too which IMO too makes them ignorant too

whats ur sign

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A Scorpio... I’m disappointed

"What's mines is mines, & what's urs is mines"

Virgo su

Maybe their not selfish. Maybe your too selfless.

Gotta get better boundaries in place.

Posted by ariesbee

I like Virgos for the most part but I can see that they can be selfish. Self-motivated, definitely critical. But when we hang out one-on-one, it can be really fun. I notice their selfishness when we hang out in groups, it’s like they become a different person, trying to be cool or fit in. They’re totally different when we just hang out alone, I liked spending time with my former Virgo girl friend alone but dreaded going on double dates with my boyfriend or hanging out with her friends. We had a falling out tho because I couldn’t attend her wedding due to moving for a new job.

Yeah, I have noticed this with the Virgos in my life. One on one they’re amazing but as soon as it’s a party, they definitely go into that party mode. They totally change, that’s for sure. They are pretty adjustable though, I guess.

Posted by Nasty

Anyone else experienced their Virgo peeps being selfish. I’ve noticed this in two of my Virgo friends, one of them tends to ask me for a lot of stuff that they don’t need? And the other would never go out of his way for me. I am just curious if this a Virgo thing or just a people thing.

I am a Virgo so I can be a bit biased... however, I like to believe that most Virgos are not selfish. At least not to those in their sphere. I read somewhere that they’re a personal sign so they care about those closest to them before anyone else and care very little for those outside of their sphere. We can be nit-picky, fussy, arrogant even, and very rigid and old fashioned. We may pick out a flaw, but if you’re in our sphere it’s only because we care.

If you love something you usually don’t leave it as it is, but you want to make it the best version of itself that it can be (even if it’s our own definition of a “best version” of something). If we seem a bit self-centered it’s not because we care about ourselves exclusively (at least not in my case) but it’s because we hold ourselves to the really high standards that many of us feel like we have to meet (even though we often fall short of it)

Virgos May seem a bit different in front of people and indeed some of them do change with their audience, but that may be because some twisted form of “help”. I would speak to any Virgo who makes you feel uncomfortable. If they’re Really you’re friend they’ll notice and try to stop. If they don’t then they probably aren’t friends worth having, Virgo or not.

Posted by Nasty

Anyone else experienced their Virgo peeps being selfish. I’ve noticed this in two of my Virgo friends, one of them tends to ask me for a lot of stuff that they don’t need? And the other would never go out of his way for me. I am just curious if this a Virgo thing or just a people thing.

I am a Virgo so I can be a bit biased... however, I like to believe that most Virgos are not selfish. At least not to those in their sphere. I read somewhere that they’re a personal sign so they care about those closest to them before anyone else and care very little for those outside of their sphere. We can be nit-picky, fussy, arrogant even, and very rigid and old fashioned. We may pick out a flaw, but if you’re in our sphere it’s only because we care.

If you love something you usually don’t leave it as it is, but you want to make it the best version of itself that it can be (even if it’s our own definition of a “best version” of something). If we seem a bit self-centered it’s not because we care about ourselves exclusively (at least not in my case) but it’s because we hold ourselves to the really high standards that many of us feel like we have to meet (even though we often fall short of it)

Virgos May seem a bit different in front of people and indeed some of them do change with their audience, but that may be because some twisted form of “help”. I would speak to any Virgo who makes you feel uncomfortable. If they’re Really you’re friend they’ll notice and try to stop. If they don’t then they probably aren’t friends worth having, Virgo or not.

My girlfriend is a virgo .. shes fuckig another guy ... she tells me that shes in a time in her life where she needs to be selfish ... w.e that means .. she still wants to marry me tho and have my kids ..

Posted by Humbaga111

My girlfriend is a virgo .. shes fuckig another guy ... she tells me that shes in a time in her life where she needs to be selfish ... w.e that means .. she still wants to marry me tho and have my kids ..

Aren’t you that Capricorn man?... bc if so

Chief imma keep it real w u 😗

Posted by VirgoReign331

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Anyone else experienced their Virgo peeps being selfish. I’ve noticed this in two of my Virgo friends, one of them tends to ask me for a lot of stuff that they don’t need? And the other would never go out of his way for me. I am just curious if this a Virgo thing or just a people thing.

I am a Virgo so I can be a bit biased... however, I like to believe that most Virgos are not selfish. At least not to those in their sphere. I read somewhere that they’re a personal sign so they care about those closest to them before anyone else and care very little for those outside of their sphere. We can be nit-picky, fussy, arrogant even, and very rigid and old fashioned. We may pick out a flaw, but if you’re in our sphere it’s only because we care.

If you love something you usually don’t leave it as it is, but you want to make it the best version of itself that it can be (even if it’s our own definition of a “best version” of something). If we seem a bit self-centered it’s not because we care about ourselves exclusively (at least not in my case) but it’s because we hold ourselves to the really high standards that many of us feel like we have to meet (even though we often fall short of it)

Virgos May seem a bit different in front of people and indeed some of them do change with their audience, but that may be because some twisted form of “help”. I would speak to any Virgo who makes you feel uncomfortable. If they’re Really you’re friend they’ll notice and try to stop. If they don’t then they probably aren’t friends worth having, Virgo or not.

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I have learnt to appreciate the Virgo’s criticism. It took me a long time to realise it came from a good place. I guess the only “flaw” that comes with their criticism is most people are probably aware of the things they need to change/fix.