Virgo Virgo issues

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by virgoroxmysox on Saturday, October 14, 2006 and has 4 replies.
So i broke up with my boyfriend who's also a virgo. but he was a little surprised because i hadn't talked about the issues i had with our relationship and i didn't really let him know what i wanted him to change really. i realized that i had been trying to solve all these problems in my own head for months and then when i came up with a final decision that we weren't right for each other, i just sprang it on him. after talking for a few hours, he told me that he had actually thought about having the same conversation with me. but said that he felt like i was giving up at the first sign of distress and that we never tried to overcome anything. what if he's right? i never opened up to him and never felt comfortable with sharing my true feelings but what if i had? would that have developed into true love? or is the reason why i didn't open up with him because we're just not compatible or something? and also, there's not really any going back now i guess because i already broke up with him once before and we got back together. and virguys probably won't get back with a girl for the third time, right? suck. i'm dumb and don't know what i want. but hey, it was my first long-term relationship. i made mistakes but i learned. but if he took me back, would it just end again? brahn, don't just say that's what i get for dating a virgo. you don't even know, ok. virgo and virgo can be awesome.
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Yes, but virgos need listen too Winking
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*need to listen*
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i don't know for sure if getting back together and trying to work on our relationship will eventually lead to us getting married or not. there's still a possibility that we would break up again. it's hard because i think too much about stuff like this and since i'm thinking and not talking, i'm not always rational. my sister says i'm making decision based on my emotions and not rational thought. she says that relationships should be easy in the beginning and then might get hard after like 4 months or something. well, it wasn't easy in the beginning. and even while we were dating, he kept in contact with so many girls and still flirted. but he totally denies being a player and acts like i'm not trusting enough in him. is it normal for a guy to keep talking to a bunch of girls while dating another? the reason why i'm giving him a break is because i know he felt like i wasn't into the relationship as much as he was and was afraid of us breaking up so he was just keeping his options open. sorry i'm so confusing to listen to!
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