Virgo,Virgo,Virgo

Posted by LostinmyMind11
This is your perspective on the virgals...not everyone feels the same as you

Posted by cowpuncher
There's no big trick here. Take a bath and brush your teeth before you go out, clean your car (messy car on a date drives them nuts and makes them feel like you don't respect them enough to go to the effort). Be a gentleman, open doors... she'll respond well, gradually relax and unwind, and you'll both have a great time.
For bonus points, be a good cook, and a great kisser, and her resolve will almost always get tossed out the window where you are concerned. Just expect them to always be very reserved in public.
Virgals generally really enjoy and appreciate an old fashioned gentleman.

Posted by Wynter
I've seen some nice ones.

Posted by BadGalVirgo
Still waters that run deep... I love being a virgo... We are hard to understand because not many signs can keep up with our analytical skills... We freaking Rock though, once we trust you and open up!! We are loyal to a fault and will rock your world!!!

Posted by cowpuncher

I'm not sure if I'm explaining this very well, but maybe you'll understand. I bet every one of the Virgals reading it will get it, it's how they tick. Really, just be clean, be a polite gentleman to show some respect, and when she does some little Virgal thing to show her regard for you, find something to do in return like cooking for her, and you'll do fine 99.9% of the time.
More than half the women I ever dated are Virgals, and every single one of them watched me like a hawk as I cooked dinner for them, and seemed to enjoy doing so very much. Not one ever wanted to eat out for a date again after that first at-home dinner

Posted by cowpuncher
In fact, one quirk I've noticed with Virgals, once the relationship is in a "comfortable" place where it's no big deal for them to show up really early for the date... if you're cooking for them, they show up early. *VERY* early. That's because they want to watch you do it. It's part of the enjoyment for them. That same Virgal and I had been seeing one another for a few months, every weekend, and were very comfortable with one another. She knew me well enough to know my inflexible Capricorn routine, so she knew just about how long it would take me to get home from work, hop in the bath tub so I was squeaky clean for the date, towel off, and get dressed. Now and then she'd deliberately show up while I was in the tub just to indulge in some ribbing and mischief. When the cooking started, she'd watch my every move like a hawk. Other gals might watch TV while you get things done, or mess around on the computer a bit to pass time or do something else... (which I don't mind because when i'm cooking, I'm occupied... most such dates are arranged so that they arrive shortly before dinner is served).
They watch you cooking for them because that's part of the enjoyment, most of it for them really. It's not even about the food being all that great (though if it is, that helps a lot). It's more like... they tend to inherently want to do things for their partner. When their partner does something for them... that's speaking their language where intimacy is concerned. Something they understand and identify with. Virgals show their love for you in practical ways, by doing little things for you. They appreciate it when that is reciprocated, a lot. Highly recommended.
That particular Virgal would pitch in and do the dishes after dinner, which *I* appreciated... that's the part I hate, and she knew it. Reciprocation.
I'm not sure if I'm explaining this very well, but maybe you'll understand. I bet every one of the Virgals reading it will get it, it's how they tick. Really, just be clean, be a polite gentleman to show some respect, and when she does some little Virgal thing to show her regard for you, find something to do in return like cooking for her, and you'll do fine 99.9% of the time.
More than half the women I ever dated are Virgals, and every single one of them watched me like a hawk as I cooked dinner for them, and seemed to enjoy doing so v

Posted by LostinmyMind11
yes you do cp! Btw....did you move?

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
yes you do cp! Btw....did you move?

Nah, just traveling for work all the time. I may move in a year or so... I'm saving every dime so I have some good options in a year. If I'm liking the job at that time, I'll be buying the rural acreage and fixer upper house I want
on the other hand, if I decide I don't want to stay in this job long term... I'll be taking a big, fat savings account North with me to Waukesha, Wisconsin, to start a business with Sag Buddy #1. Something along the lines of "The Man Store"... quality man-stuff like firearms with top notch custom gunsmithing done on premises, high quality camping gear like good canvas tents and fishing reels that aren't throw-away junk, quality homebrewing equipment and supplies, and maybe high-end audio gear with custom installation available, as well as my custom guitar amps and buying/selling vintage guitars and amplifiers. A sort of one stop shop for fine quality man toys. We've thought about it for years, and are both saving toward that possibility. In a year, if we decide to pull the trigger and do it, we should have plenty of dough to make it happen... and there's an old employer up in Oshkosh that misses my work enough they'd love to have me back, even part time for evenings, if I'd do it. So I could even have steady income while getting the business off the ground.
Just biding my time and seeing what options I really want to go with for now, Sag buddy and I are in no big hurry, and will do it right if we do it at all.

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Posted by LoveSeeker
WOW you are a GREAT person indeed,i'm impressed lol,i have never reached that level of understanding with them,really hard and they don't open up to people easly (lool i don't cook well);

nah, you're just over-thinking something that is actually pretty simple. Virgals respond very, very well to an old fashioned gentleman who shows basic respect, and a little patience. It really is that simple with the good ones. Taurus gals and many Capricorn gals do too, it's an Earth sign thing. Of all 12 signs, we dirty earth signs have the reputation for being the most old fashioned for good reason.
Buddy, I drew you a good road map there with a big bright neon blinking "X" marking the spot if you'll just follow it. Be clean, polite, respectful... open a door or two for the girl, say please and thank you every now and then. If you can do that, and give a kiss that's worth a damn, you're gonna get a 2nd date and probably a 3rd. After the 2nd or 3rd date, if you've managed to convince her that you're not a meth addled motorcycle axe rapist, you're probably going to be able to invite her over for a dinner date at your place, or to cook for her at hers. At that point, if you're any kind of a cook, and just have a little patience, nature kinda takes it's course.
Dead simple. No subterfuge or BS required, really. They're just not that hard to please in most cases.

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Posted by cowpuncher
It's really no big deal wagtail. Like I said... they really just aren't that hard to figure out, or to please.
Easiest gals in the whole zodiac to figure out. Taurus may be a close second.

Posted by cowpuncher

Taurus may be a close second.

Posted by CluelessCancer
Cowpuncher
1) BS nobody likes to be a homebody like Cancers and I've never met a Virgo who was a homebody, they're always out and about...
2) Being Private about what? I mean shit you guys act like your CIA agents, it's not that serious. You're boring.
3) Is that why Virgo would kiss me in very odd public places or try to hold my hand everywhere we went.
Caps and Virgos seek affection, when you end up together, it's just two marbles setting up a very dull boring life...you need other signs to show you the light..it's okay come to the wild side.

Posted by CluelessCancer
Limm it could be because you found something to make you stable, instead of seeking it outside, idk, but the Virgos i know are social butterflies...
Every cap i know is a homebody, well mostly every...

Posted by virgojustice
@cowpuncher I have never met a Capricorn man in my life. Where the heck are they?!!I see the famous ones and drool, Nicholas Cage, Orlando Bloom, LL Cool J, Jim Carrey, Shemar Moore, OMG!! I can go on and on..

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Posted by virgosagscorpio

Posted by virgojustice
@cowpuncher I have never met a Capricorn man in my life. Where the heck are they?!!I see the famous ones and drool, Nicholas Cage, Orlando Bloom, LL Cool J, Jim Carrey, Shemar Moore, OMG!! I can go on and on..

Hi Virgojustice, you might be hiding somewhere
Most of the guys I've been with are Capricorn from first boyfriend until the last guy I've dated.
They're great guys and solid for someone like me who seek stability. I am also sorrounded by Virgos and Capricorn
plus a Cap mom. Pretty solid and stable and a lot of laughters!!! They're the funny ones I swear!
It's so easy for me to share a good laugh with them.
Go find one or better let them find you

Hi virgosagscorpio..Yeah, I don't get out much these days.
Great to hear good things about cap men. Someone made a statement about them being boring, but my idea of boring may be totally different theirs. I get excited just being in a mans presence if we have a connection. In the mean time I will just lurk the cap boards and wait patiently until my prince charming finds me or we bump into each other, lol..

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Posted by cowpuncher
Ex wife was a Capricorn with a Gemini moon. Any time Cap + Cap is discussed, I generally advise people that it's a great pairing for friends, not necessarily so great for a relationship. In general I think same sign partnerships are probably easier to strike up at first, but in the long term end up having hurdles and are more formidable than two people of different signs in a partnership.
ymmv, that's my 2 cents.

Posted by virgojustice
@lostinmymind11, lol I hope that's a good thing.

Posted by LostinmyMind11

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Posted by virgosagscorpio

Posted by virgojustice
@cowpuncher I have never met a Capricorn man in my life. Where the heck are they?!!I see the famous ones and drool, Nicholas Cage, Orlando Bloom, LL Cool J, Jim Carrey, Shemar Moore, OMG!! I can go on and on..

Hi Virgojustice, you might be hiding somewhere
Most of the guys I've been with are Capricorn from first boyfriend until the last guy I've dated.
They're great guys and solid for someone like me who seek stability. I am also sorrounded by Virgos and Capricorn
plus a Cap mom. Pretty solid and stable and a lot of laughters!!! They're the funny ones I swear!
It's so easy for me to share a good laugh with them.
Go find one or better let them find you

Hi virgosagscorpio..Yeah, I don't get out much these days.
Great to hear good things about cap men. Someone made a statement about them being boring, but my idea of boring may be totally different theirs. I get excited just being in a mans presence if we have a connection. In the mean time I will just lurk the cap boards and wait patiently until my prince charming finds me or we bump into each other, lol..

Such a virgo thing to say :p

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Posted by LoveSeeker
Why you are so hard!!!!!!(specially girls)

Posted by MysticMelody

Posted by LoveSeeker
Why you are so hard!!!!!!(specially girls)

Depending on your sign might be the reason you find Virgo females so difficult to deal with. My boyfriend is a Sagittarius and finds me EXTREMELY difficult, as do I him.

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Posted by lubbylou
I'm a virgo female...and admittedly I can have a hard exterior. I tend to play lots of games to suss someone out. And if I fall for them...it is still games games....it drives people away though. Played the game to hard with Aries males, pushing for a commitment which he couldn't deliver in the end. He is with a new girl now and I have egg on my face. Hey-ho ....love and life and games go on.....

Posted by cowpuncher

Yep.
Sometimes you need some differences for a healthy relationship just as much as you need some things in common. "Compatible" doesn't necessarily mean "the same." Some things need to be complementary if you want a partnership to be something greater than just the sum of it's parts. That's what I think anyway. Learned the hard way! lol
Plus, in the instance of cap + cap... man you've never seen a RUT until you've seen two caps in a rut at the same time.
Have some stuff in common, have some stuff that is different but complementary, and have just a few things totally different just to shake things up a bit now and then. Add in some mutual trust, honesty, and respect... from those things you build some intimacy... and if there's a little spark, you're there. Voila - Should be easy peasy. But it's not. lol
Same sign is easier starting out, but man... never trying that again!